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re: At what age did your kids stop believing in Santa?

Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:20 pm to
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
9439 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:20 pm to
Tell kids between 10 and 11. After 5th grade is pushing it. (13, 9, and 5 yr old here)


Pro-tip bonus….I had the “there is no Santa” AND the sex talk in the same stroll up our street. By 3 houses down, he knew Santa was made up and babies come from tiny tadpoles that squirt from your pecker inside girls. I shite you not.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57530 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:25 pm to
Mine is 5 so obviously believes still but I think he will catch on young.

He was already questioning his Elf on the Shelf the other day. My husband put him on a light pole thing and tied the arms so he'd stay. My son was like why would he do that if he can use magic.
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
5378 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:32 pm to
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Just let them figure it out. You got maybe 2 more years


You think the kid will believe in Santa at 12?!! That is 6th grade. We relentlessly mocked the kid in my class in 4th grade who believed still.
Posted by Kjnstkmn
Vermilion Parish
Member since Aug 2020
10991 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:49 pm to
He just snuck up behind me and read this thread title over my shoulder, thanks Grinch.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
16130 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:56 pm to
I still believe.

My stocking is hanging.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56698 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 8:58 pm to
I have a sweetheart of a wife.

We have a 26 yo, 14 and a 12

She is under the impression that the 12 year old believes and the 14 yo might.

I tried to break it to her but she is still moving that damn elf.

The kids haven’t looked for it other than to please her in two years.

Posted by bengalman
In da Country
Member since Feb 2007
3231 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:32 pm to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
43428 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:36 pm to
Most of the kids were about 10

#2 was like 12

The youngest is 8 … so everyone plays along bc she still believes

I was 8 when I stopped believing bc Santa left a note in my mom’s handwriting
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Malibu
Member since Sep 2013
29290 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:38 pm to
My son is 10. This year when I asked him what he wanted Santa to bring him he said “Daddy Santa isnt real come on.” I was devastated.
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
6779 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:45 pm to
Our oldest was ten when we told her the truth, but she was definitely smarter than me at 10, and she knew what was going on. Our youngest is now 10 and he’s still all in, at least that’s how he’s a acting. In today’s world I have a hard time believing he doesn’t already know the truth, but if he still wants to put on a show for us, it’s definitely ok with us, especially his mother. I’d like to keep my son unspoiled to the world as long as he will let me.
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11585 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:48 pm to
I think my oldest son, now 16, was told at 11.

His younger sister is 12 and we still haven't told her, but I know she knows. I overheard her on a call with a friend one morning talking about how she didn't talk about believing in Santa at school because she knew she'd be made fun of, but that she just wanted to still be a kid for as long as she can.

I'm certainly not going to ruin that for her. She can believe as long as she wants to.
Posted by mattchewbocca
houma, la
Member since Jun 2008
5440 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:51 pm to
WTH you talking about? Santa IS real.
Posted by LouisianaTigers
Alvin, TX
Member since Oct 2007
508 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 9:52 pm to
I’m saddened by the fact my kids will no longer believe in santa…my daughter is 6 and she is crazy about Santa….elf on a shelf….one day that will all come to an end.
Posted by Norbert
Member since Oct 2018
3223 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:16 pm to
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We relentlessly mocked the kid in my class in 4th grade who believed still.


Sounds like you and your friends were assholes.
Posted by Xignals
Pits of Hell
Member since Nov 2013
1317 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:22 pm to
Told both my kids when they quit believing he quits coming. That stopped all the questions.
Posted by SoDakHawk
South Dakota
Member since Jun 2014
8659 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:32 pm to
My oldest is 21, we never told him. Of course he figured it out in his own but Santa still came

My middle is 9 and youngest 7. They are still all in believers, maybe not my 9yo, but she doesn't let on. My 7yo, all in on Santa and the elves.

There is so much crap in the world, let them be kids and feel the magic as long as they can.
This post was edited on 12/20/23 at 10:33 pm
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3052 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:33 pm to
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Posted by illuminatic
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Member since Sep 2012
6963 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:43 pm to
I asked why there was a limit to what I could ask for since Santa could just make anything. My dad told me he got an invoice from Santa after Christmas. So I was burdened with protecting my little brother from knowing that Santa was just a super convoluted middleman for Toys R Us and Walmart.

As an adult, I have this mental image of Santa being like Deniro and Pesci in Goodfellas. Making Amazon trucks disappear throughout the year and strong arming parents into buying the shite their kids want for a markup.

Edit: I also asked how he would get in our house since we didn't have a chimney. He said Santa had a key to everyone's house. At that point, I was afraid to ask what would happen if we didn't leave cookies and milk out.
This post was edited on 12/20/23 at 10:48 pm
Posted by messyjesse
Member since Nov 2015
2047 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 10:56 pm to
My 8YO son is close. He's asked a few pointed questions and made a few observations. He knows all the Santas he sees on TV, at the mall, etc are "fake" Santas but I think he still believes in the big guy on Christmas Eve.

I grew up in a community that heavily celebrated St. Nicholas Day with the shoes by the fireplace and such, and I still do all that stuff with my kids to this day. I also married into a very Catholic family that's all in on saints.

So my wife and I agreed that when the time comes we'll be honest with our son that there isn't a big old man with a white beard and red suit and magical sleigh and a workshop, but we'll also work it into a lesson on the historical St. Nicholas, how his kindness inspires us, and how legends are born and passed down as part of our cultural heritage.

My daughter is 3 so we still have plenty of time to enjoy the magic with her.
This post was edited on 12/20/23 at 10:57 pm
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
6779 posts
Posted on 12/20/23 at 11:02 pm to
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There is so much crap in the world, let them be kids and feel the magic as long as they can.


That’s it right there. I don’t know if y’all do the elves but my youngest trying to find what the elves got into during the night is something special to us.
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