re: Ask the OT - how would you handle this - wedding drama

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GF wants to turn this into a big family vacation.

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Does not compute.

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I really don't care for the eldest child - she ran away last year and that resulted in a long and expensive custody battle with lots of drama. This kid is a mean little shite and has a mouth that makes you want to wash it out with soap (not my kid - so can't do anything but try to avoid interacting with the kid).

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This is reason enough to dump your girlfriend. Problem solved.

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GF has two kids from a previous relationship. Baby daddy is a degenerate drug dealer

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Stopped reading there

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Misnomer
PIIHB

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Easy arse whore.

Ha!

GET OUT

If you are dealing with this drama I promise it doesn’t get easier. Move on to someone that suits your lifestyle aka no kids.

Dude get the frick out now. This is an easy call.

I’m being serious here. Leave her man. That sounds like a miserable situation that is only going to get worse and worse and soon you’ll be too obligated to cut bait without massive guilt and regret.

Hell, If I were you I would turn this little fight into a big fight that paves the ground for a break up. Pussy is not undefeated, people just like to say that.

You are 100% correct in this situation.

Do NOT be a sugar daddy to a woman with no understanding of work and money obligations. Especially ones with previous kids like the one you described.

Run.

100000000% time to GTFO

How old are you? If young, find a woman without kids. If you are old and/or have kids of your own and don’t want anymore, find a woman with grown or older teen kids that she has raised to be functional members of society. Stay away from 30-something hot messes with baby daddy issues and poorly raised kids with emotional problems.