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re: As a man it can be really hard to admit without looking weak
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:23 am to Mkay 84
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:23 am to Mkay 84
Copy her text and report to the authorities. Wipe your hands clean and let them handle it.
DO NOT contact her or respond to anything. That is what she’s feeding on good or bad.
DO NOT contact her or respond to anything. That is what she’s feeding on good or bad.
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Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:30 am to Mkay 84
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left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
The people who make multiple threats like that are usually doing it for the attention. In this case, probably just to mindfrick you. If you are worried that she might do something, call the police and see if they can put a psych hold on her if that's an option in your state. That way you can clear your head and know you did what was in your power to make sure she would be ok alone.
Honestly, if it were me, I'd just walk. I've dealt with that kind of crazy before and it was all one big show to give me a guilt trip until the next poor fella came along to and took a dive headlong into her world of shite. Good luck man. You will be fine.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:34 am to Rouge
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As a young man, I would have done everything I could to help her
As a got older, I would have cheated on her as an excuse to blow the relationship up
Now I would just exit as politely as possibly at the first hint of that kind of mess
I can excuse a lot of shitty behavior. I’m a total people pleaser, and suck at establishing boundaries. Thanks, alcoholic dad. I used to feel like I failed if I couldn’t “make” my partner happy. Now, I know that isn’t my responsibility.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:40 am to Mkay 84
Run man. You can't save someone who does that and it never works out well. You need to cut all ties. I know you love her now, but a few weeks from now you will be fine. Just get out and don't look back. If you look back...you'll go back. It won't stop.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:46 am to Mkay 84
I had one like that before.
Just ignore her completely. Delete her contact, etc.
Only way to go about it. You "fix" her, she will drag you down with her in the future.
Just ignore her completely. Delete her contact, etc.
Only way to go about it. You "fix" her, she will drag you down with her in the future.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:50 am to Mkay 84
Can we get a pic?
Posted on 9/21/19 at 8:54 am to Mkay 84
I’ve been there. Stayed with someone for a couple years that I had long lost feelings for and was fricking miserable and tried to break it off many times but she could manipulate my head. Made me constantly feeling angry and depressed.
Walk away, and block her number. You’ll be glad you did, you aren’t obligated to support her at the expense of your own happiness
Walk away, and block her number. You’ll be glad you did, you aren’t obligated to support her at the expense of your own happiness
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:03 am to Mkay 84
You’re a target now. Move. Get a new car. A new job if you can.
Nothing is worse than a crazy twat and her family.
Nothing is worse than a crazy twat and her family.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:04 am to Mkay 84
That's not OCD, that's borderline personality traits.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:07 am to Cosmo
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I bet the sex was great though
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Germophobia
I'll bet he had to use a condom every time.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:18 am to Mkay 84
I was in a relationship with a girl that had a similar pattern for two and a half years
One day I moved from Florida to Hawaii to get away from her. It worked.
Paul Simon's '50 Ways to Leave A Lover' helps
One day I moved from Florida to Hawaii to get away from her. It worked.
Paul Simon's '50 Ways to Leave A Lover' helps
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:37 am to Jake88
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that's borderline personality traits.
Was just about to post this. She's sounds like Borderline Personality. Basically has a deep fear of abandonment. Threatening self harm is a symptom. Wild mood swings and impulsive acts is another symptom. Angry outbursts, inappropriate and misguided anger, Emotional wrecks, unstable self-image and awareness, Always somebody else's fault.
The only thing you can do in this situation is leave and never contact her again. That is your only option. You will never be able to help or fix her. Only she can do that. It's not your fault or even her fault. It is just the way it is.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 9:47 am to Mkay 84
Count your losses & move on...
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:06 am to Polycarp
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Life is too short to not be happy, especially in a relationship.
Or rather it is way too long to be so miserable....
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:10 am to fr33manator
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Don’t reward bad behaviour
Best advise in this whole thread
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:16 am to Mkay 84
Man, I wasted 1.5 years of my life on a girl just like her. I’ve now been married to a great woman for more than 12 years and have two amazing kids. I can’t figure out why I thought the other girl was important enough for the time wasted. I finally got sick of the threats and told her my being in her life, alone, wouldn’t prevent her from committing suicide. I broke up with her for good and... nothing happened. I met my wife a few months later and the rest is history. You’ll be so much better off without that negativity in your life.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:24 am to Mkay 84
Been there, man. It's tough. Rule #1 in a rescue is don't become a victim yourself. You can't fix this. Shut off all contact and move on with your life. Good luck.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:30 am to Mkay 84
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Her family put this responsibility on me. They’ve been attacking me ever since I left.
frick them too. I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree as far as not taking responsibility and ownership.
That would probably piss me off more than the girl who obviously has problems.
Wipe your hands clean man, you don't need any part of these people in your life.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 10:54 am to Mkay 84
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OCD/Germaphobia/Anxiety
Great blow job. The twenty minutes with the warm soapy wash cloth takes it to another level.
Posted on 9/21/19 at 11:35 am to Mkay 84
Move on quickly. Change your phone number if you have to and take one of the numbers off your apartment building so she can't find you.
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