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re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?

Posted on 10/1/23 at 2:29 pm to
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49625 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 2:29 pm to
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Sex requires two willing participants.


Well that’s debatable. Nobody loves me like me.

And to the OP looking for a place to meet someone how about a church ? Plenty of young good looking women I see going to church. Alone.

And for fighting wars it will be the Scots Irish coming out of Appalachia and the South fighting as it’s always been. They won’t shy away for any reason.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
31328 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 2:30 pm to
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That was the comment. I was just curious.

No, you didn’t read.

Take two people, make and female. For this example, let’s say they are engineers. Both graduated at same time and work for same company.

Female engineer gets pregnant. Company offers her maternity leave for 12 weeks full salary. Meanwhile, her male coworker has to pick up her work for three months. Male coworker doesn’t get paid any more money, and female gets paid to stay home.

We have an admin where I work that has had three kids in four years. That’s 3 quarters of a years she’s collected full salary to stay home. And another admin has had to cover her work during that time. And it’s not just that. Every time her kids are sick she wants to work from home (which she doesn’t work) and we don’t have a choice but to accommodate her. Men are just simply not afforded the same flexibility.

But these women want to be paid the same amount and get same raises and bonuses because of “equity”, not “equality”.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148419 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 2:36 pm to
I got 12 weeks paid off for both my 1yo and 2yo
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
72275 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 2:38 pm to
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Stop. It’s not about equality. They don’t want equality. They want equity. Women think they deserve to be paid the same as men and have to do less work and have more accommodations. And we have taken the bait hook line and sinker.


Feminist want all the benefits of equality with none of the responsibilities and consequences of equality.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69712 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 3:19 pm to
You’ll always pay for sex one way or the other

Go live in the Philippines and hit every massage parlor in Southeast Asia
Posted by lawlcow318008
Member since Sep 2023
275 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 3:21 pm to
As a young man (teenage boy idk if that counts) I'd say yes, we are. Most of my friends suffer from alot of mental health stuff and I'm not talking that attention seeking stuff, like lgbt whatever. Like genuinely lots of them have issues. And with the new ai chat bots it makes everything so much worse. Soon men will not even bother with dating as many men are hooked on these apps and are addicted to talking to ai. We have nothing to look forward to and just feel like we will be wage slaves. The future is scary.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69712 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 3:21 pm to
It’s not fully porns fault

However I do think the whole step mom step sister thing storyline that the industry is heavy in now, is one step closer to incest.

It’s why alura jenson quit
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69712 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 3:25 pm to
Yet deep down that’s the ones they want to frick

The other guys that just want to control
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3803 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 3:28 pm to
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Many women don’t want to date bigoted, politically obsessed, uneducated men who can’t take care of themselves let alone a partner.
"Bigoted" men (code word for people that don't agree with you) usually have less issues dating than "caring" men. They still have issues because they have to settle for women that would have been less than mediocre in the 90's.
The "non bigoted" men you describe usually date 300 pounders that want open relationships.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3803 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:10 pm to
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And to the OP looking for a place to meet someone how about a church ? Plenty of young good looking women I see going to church. Alone.


Most of the single women at my church are fat as shite or have kids.
Can we please stop the whole anecdotal "I found a good one so that's not true" thing. We get it. The wife you found in the early 90's is great. My wife is great and I'm glad I found her too but this just simply isn't the case for most young men in 2023.
If men want a way out, just stay single or start talking to foreign women. It will take an entire generation at the least for modern American women to get the message (if that even happens).
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:20 pm to
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Are Young Men Truly Lost?


yes, and they are programmed to be that way

the current system cant be corrected without at least 8 years of daily deprogramming to eliminate the indoctrinated wokeness that was programmed into them
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 4:59 pm
Posted by NC_Tigah
Make Orwell Fiction Again
Member since Sep 2003
135699 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:26 pm to
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the problem I see is that the roles and rules have changed but no one has told men what the new rules are
NO!
The problem is male willingness to cede the rules of acceptable behavior to creeps.
Posted by thejuiceisloose
Member since Nov 2018
6098 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:31 pm to
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The moral compass in our country is lost.



Quick question when is the last time it was “found”?
Posted by SimonSlick
Member since Oct 2007
3877 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:35 pm to
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Being 39 I'm not going be pulling in some woman between 25-30 and in her prime.



You never know. I'm 46, my wife is 27 and way hotter than I deserve. We've been together 4 years now. You have to take risks and shoot your shot.
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:38 pm to
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I get it sucks, but there's literally nothing that can be done about this. Sex requires two willing participants.


Have you tried introducing money to the equation? Tends to change things drastically.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 4:41 pm
Posted by CocodrieBaw
Member since Sep 2023
211 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:39 pm to
Collettes?
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:40 pm to
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Being 39 I'm not going be pulling in some woman between 25-30 and in her prime


We already had this conversation.

You won't if she's single with no kids most likely. But if you open up your options a bit you'd be surprised.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
38002 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:40 pm to
Posted by HonorThyWarEagle
9 TIME NATIONAL CHAMPIONS, Freezin'
Member since Sep 2022
3007 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:41 pm to
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But if you open up your options a bit you'd be surprised.


WDYM?
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:43 pm to
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WDYM?


Single mothers.

Yes, there are sacrifices that come with it. But there are benefits as well. I was always firmly against dating someone with a kid. Until I tried it.
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