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re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?

Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:33 am to
Posted by Sofaking2
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:33 am to
Feminism gave women exactly what they wanted and now they are miserable. It turns out being like a man isn’t so great after all. Also, those college degrees you speak of aren’t in STEM fields. They are basically worthless. My advice for most men to go into the trades.
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:34 am to
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what they bring to the table.


That goes both ways.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:35 am to
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My advice for most men to go into the trades.


Why?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297200 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:35 am to
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That seems likely. I think the best way is through a common connection or friend, not random.


I think its always been like this though there were more social organizations that provided that avenue decades ago.

Humans detached from traditional social organizations and it restricts the usual methods people meet.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:35 am to
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agree that college educated women will not date non college educated men.


Trust me, this is HIGHLY untrue
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:36 am to
He’s not in the trades and kids won’t be - but he thinks most other men should.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:36 am to
I think it’s true in big cities

In small towns or suburbs, less so.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:37 am to
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Feminism gave women exactly what they wanted and now they are miserable.
most women I know aren't miserable. Maybe you need to hangout with more well rounded folk
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:37 am to
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Meeting women at bars/clubs could result in you getting kicked out, laughed at or even having the woman do a YouTube video on you to destroy you for the world to see. In most social settings now there's way too much risk for the man to approach, but women still want to have their cake and eat it too and still largely refuse to approach themselves.


My gf’s best friend is this chick. She’s bat shite crazy and can’t figure out why she’s single in her 30’s and has never been in a relationship. I flat out tell her bluntly that it’s bc of shite like this. She doesn’t see anything wrong with it.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:39 am to
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My gf’s best friend is this chick
photos?
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:39 am to
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I think it’s true in big cities


Once again, nope. Last time I was single in NYC, I could not keep up with all the matches I was getting from professional women.

Doctors and lawyers have been probably my two most matched with professions since I hit 30
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:39 am to
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most women I know aren't miserable


Chicks tend to love their dealer.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:41 am to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297200 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:44 am to
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what they bring to the table.


That goes both ways.


Too many dudes just care about the vagina. They overlook a lot of shitty behavior.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100587 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:44 am to
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know for me personally I hate being this way, I just feel broken when it comes to dating. Like what is really left out there for me at my age anyway? Being 39 I'm not going be pulling in some woman between 25-30 and in her prime.


You have a confidence problem. Women pick up on it quickly and it’s a turn off

My advice is just go out and enjoy your life. Meet and talk to people. Be friendly, approachable, and confident. Don’t try to force it and eventually you’ll meet someone and it will likely be in the most unexpected way
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297200 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:48 am to
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Don’t try to force it and eventually you’ll meet someone and it will likely be in the most unexpected way


For real. Keep an open mind, you never know where you'll meet someone. Places of mutual interest help a lot.

My best bud eventually married a lady that met very few of the criteria he wanted at first, and she's amazing
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:49 am to
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That goes both ways.
many guys on the OT go both ways
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:51 am to
If you're an average baw that works, stays in shape, don't want to be single and generally has your shite together then I suggest expanding your dating pool a little bit. While there is a quality woman shortage here in the USA, it's the opposite in places like Eastern Europe, Latin America, and parts of Asia.

I always wanted the "girl next door" type of American white women but I realized there is very few of those left (don't give me your anecdotal evidence either, the average American woman is 40lbs overweight and in debt of 10k+).
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
86264 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:51 am to
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When it comes to the dating game the rules have been changed but no one has told men what the new rules are and really have any new rules really been established?


I believe men have adapted.

The ones getting laid know you do not have to trade commitment for sex anymore.

The guys that would, well they are now the incels and no woman is looking at them.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
120114 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:53 am to
What do you do?
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