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re: Anyone have a family member that threw their life away with drugs?

Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:33 pm to
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:33 pm to
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Addiction is a battle. Talk to a professional. You aren’t equipped to deal with this


It's not just addiction at this point. That I'd be happy to deal with. His brain is gone. He's a different person. And I fricking hate him for it.

I should've beat some sense into him 10 years ago when he started done this path. That's my failure.
This post was edited on 2/7/24 at 8:35 pm
Posted by Sput
Member since Mar 2020
7961 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:34 pm to
Dude got hooked on whip-its?????

shite I did 10,000 of those things in Panama City back it the day but never heard or anyone becoming addicted
Posted by supatigah
CEO of the Keith Hernandez Fan Club
Member since Mar 2004
87471 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:35 pm to
my step son
heroin addict for ten years
died september of 2023
was 30 years old

he had liver failure, kidney failure, hepatitis C, MRSA staph infection, and endocarditis when he passed

he was one of those people that had to do everything himself and his way, no matter what the consequences and no matter how much anyone tried to help. tell him the handle is hot and he would touch the handle anyway

he died sedated in a hospital surrounded by grandparents, me and my wife and his dad. we always feared we would get a call that he was found dead on a stoop or on a sidewalk somewhere

a damn shame and a total waste
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29583 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:38 pm to
My younger sister was a pharmaceutical sales rep selling Ambien, doing very well …. she was beautiful (no pics). Started using her company credit card for personal use like taking overseas trips, they even gave her a second chance to pay back the money, but she kept abusing that privilege so she got fired from her job.

she soon got addicted to Adderall and it’s been downhill ever since and it that 20 years ago. She goes to several doctors to get her prescriptions filled and with everything being so digitally connected these days, it is fricking incredible that she actually gets her shite filled at pharmacies, I know because my mother enables her and takes her to get them filled. That is a whole Other rabbit hole of my fricked up family then I don’t want to go down.

My parents pay for some ramshackle apartment that has a crappy TV and a couch that she sleeps on every night, it’s a very sad and helpless thing to say, but we have all come to terms with the fact that she probably won’t be alive very much longer


Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15783 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:40 pm to
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It's not just addiction at this point. That I'd be happy to deal with. His brain is gone. He's a different person. And I fricking hate him for it. I should've beat some sense into him 10 years ago when he started done this path. That's my failure.


Talk to a professional. You have no idea what you’re dealing with.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26831 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:41 pm to
All that for Adderall?
Posted by GillGo37
Nola
Member since May 2006
851 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:42 pm to
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With that said, is his brain actually "fried"? I find it hard to believe that after a few months it is irreversibly significantly damaged.


If he passed out with a mask on he most certainly can have a brain injury from hypoxia.
Posted by brewhan davey
Audubon Place
Member since Sep 2010
32798 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:43 pm to
First cousin OD'd on a speedball. She was 32.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98216 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:43 pm to
Cousin. Wealthy,prominent family. If you're from Beaumont-Port Arthur you might recognize the name. Had every material advantage growing up. Was a very good tennis player, always going to camps. Somewhere along the way she went from being a tennis fiend to being a cocaine fiend, then a heroin fiend. At one point she was living on the street in Houston. After several relapses she finally got clean and seems to be doing alright except for a case of Hep C that will eventually require a liver transplant. All her money is in a trust that pays her living expenses directly. She has minimal access to spending cash.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
34007 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:44 pm to
Yep. Three of my cousins and one of them is dead. No help can happen if they remain in the same environment
Posted by supatigah
CEO of the Keith Hernandez Fan Club
Member since Mar 2004
87471 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:45 pm to
so many people on opiods that kick, stay sober for a while, fall off the wagon, miscalculate their dose based on their old tolerance levels and OD

or they fall off the wagon, buy from an unfamiliar dealer, get smack laced with fentanyl and OD and die

there are four guys in Lafayette I know that this happened to, three of them were family men

so sad
This post was edited on 2/7/24 at 8:56 pm
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78736 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:49 pm to
Lost my only sibling - my big brother 20 years ago this year. Very few families escape unscathed these days with drugs and alcohol. My advice- double down on the love and support you give your parents. Consider having your brother whacked. Slightly serious.
Posted by HonkyRed
Mobile, AL
Member since Sep 2021
29 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:50 pm to
Brother got hooked on pain killers after knee surgery about 20 years ago. Graduated to IV heroin use. Has severe liver damage. Parents spent over $100,000 on him thru the years. Now they are approaching 80 and taking care of him
because he is homeless and not able to hold down a job.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113978 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:51 pm to
I just read up on nitrous oxide.. Damn, it can damage a person's DNA.

Seriously, I think most people (depending on the size of the family) has at least one addict or at least knows someone who is an addict. Its a crisis we don't hear much about.
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22125 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:53 pm to
I had a cousin that was found dead on the side of the road from a suspected fentayl laced dose. The family urged him to get help for years but he just never bought in.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:54 pm to
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The family urged him to get help for years but he just never bought in.


His family is lucky. The struggle is over
Posted by Old Character
Member since Jan 2018
864 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:56 pm to
How the hell did he get that fd up from nitrous?? That doesn’t make sense.
Posted by MoarKilometers
Member since Apr 2015
17980 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:57 pm to
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If he passed out with a mask on he most certainly can have a brain injury from hypoxia.

Isn't NO used in hypoxia treatment
Posted by MasterDigger
Member since Nov 2019
2143 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 8:59 pm to
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That’s a thing? I didn’t think nitrous could do that.


It replaces the oxygen in your brain. Brain cells die from lack of oxygen. Same as huffing paint and other stuff.

Literally fries the brain cells.
Posted by Pezzo
Member since Aug 2020
1960 posts
Posted on 2/7/24 at 9:00 pm to
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They steal from family members that care about them that makes it hard to keep helping.


By “helping” they are enabling. If you want to help an addict you can’t give them anything. My brother in law is going through this right now. He’s young, but he’s smart as hell and recognized he had a problem. At just 21 years old he went to his parents and asked to be checked into rehab and is following through with the programs. He’s moved to Texas where he’s in a halfway house now and we were told we can’t give him anything because it just enables him. They set him up with a short term place to live and a job and after that he’s on his own. I guess we’ll see how that turns out.
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