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re: Another Divorce thread...when did you stop wearing your wedding ring?
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:37 am to LSUFanHouston
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:37 am to LSUFanHouston
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I'm sure I'll get a lot of alpha "I threw that shite in trash" answers, but I'm really wondering.
It's what happened. Wore it until the day she moved out and then didn't wear it the next day. Saw it sitting on the kitchen counter and it made me so angry I flung it in the trash.
It wasn't an expensive ring...tungsten...so there wasn't any real monetary value to it.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:38 am to terriblegreen
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I took mine off the day we decided to call it quits. For a while it was in a drawer, but I honestly don't even know where it is now.
Exactly me too
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:50 am to LSUFanHouston
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Been separated 2.5 months with apparently no chance of reconciliation, but still find myself wearing it every day.
Why?
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if your wife says peace out and wanted a divorce, when did you stop wearing your wedding ring?
About 10 seconds after she stopped talking.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:54 am to LSUFanHouston
The morning after she moved out I was on the road to a job in NOLA from BR.
Threw that ring in the spillway. Felt like 100 lbs off my shoulders immediately.
Threw that ring in the spillway. Felt like 100 lbs off my shoulders immediately.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:55 am to LSUFanHouston
I threw mine at Jodi's truck as he was peeling out of my driveway.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 9:56 am to The Torch
I thought you are your wife got back together?
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:00 am to whitetiger1234
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I have a hard time believing that everyone that posts these threads are trashy or married into trash.
I have a hard time believing everyone who posts these threads or in them are the innocent victims of a trashy bitch of a woman.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:02 am to LSUFanHouston
About 4 months after we got married but only because i lost it water skiing and never replaced it.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:03 am to GRTiger
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I have a hard time believing everyone who posts these threads or in them are the innocent victims of a trashy bitch of a woman.
Totally agree. Everyone has their faults and frick ups.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:03 am to LSUFanHouston
I’d probably keep wearing it since it can be a good skank magnet.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:13 am to LSUFanHouston
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That's where I am at right now, although hope is fading fast.
Hope only ends if either one of you dies or remarries.
There are plenty of examples where couples couldn’t figure it out the first time around only to reconcile and figure it out together the second time.
If you feel like standing for your marriage, stand for your marriage. It won’t be easy. And you may feel like you’re in it alone at times. But what if you find a way to work on yourself first and then are able to work on the marriage together? What if?
Don’t lose hope. Hope is a good thing. Maybe the best of things.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:14 am to LSUFanHouston
Who gets the family Bible?
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:17 am to Will Cover
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There are plenty of examples where couples couldn’t figure it out the first time around only to reconcile and figure it out together the second time.
We know of one (sort of). Couple marries, divorces. Both remarry, divorce. Get back together, do not remarry, but live together as a couple and raise kids together.
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But what if you find a way to work on yourself first and then are able to work on the marriage together? What if?
No matter what happens, there are things I need to work on in order to be a better person. That will make be better whether we reconcile or not.
That process is teaching me a lot of what I need to work on, and it's also teaching me that it's not 100 percent my fault. But, it's teaching me that I need to be better, whether it's to reconcile this marriage, or for my future without her.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:22 am to LSUFanHouston
been married for 15 years and never put it on after the wedding. Don't wear a watch either. That stuff drives me nuts.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:37 am to LSUFanHouston
You seem like a good dude trying to do the right thing. Is this eminent? Are you guys separated? Do the kids know? Are they old/mature enough to ask their thoughts?
I got a divorce after nearly 10 years. No kids, just didn't work out and neither of us were happy. No chance of reconciliation. I still struggled with the same question. Think I wore mine for 6/8 weeks then took it off.
On another note, I am happier than I could've ever imagined. It sucks now and will likely get worse before it gets better, but there's better days coming. Neither of you deserve to be unhappy.
I got a divorce after nearly 10 years. No kids, just didn't work out and neither of us were happy. No chance of reconciliation. I still struggled with the same question. Think I wore mine for 6/8 weeks then took it off.
On another note, I am happier than I could've ever imagined. It sucks now and will likely get worse before it gets better, but there's better days coming. Neither of you deserve to be unhappy.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:39 am to Gee Grenouille
Any infidelity? If not Try you’re hardest to work it out unless your miserable.
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:48 am to LSU_Smash_the_West
Quit trying to figure me out man
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:52 am to ZappBrannigan
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My ring was forged by dwarves out of star metal. So I mean I'd keep and wear it in any circumstance. Never know when I'll find a wizard or druid to enchant it.
He went to Jared!
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:54 am to LSUFanHouston
Happily married but I haven't worn my ring in atleast 5 years. Not even sure where it is
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