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re: Another Divorce thread...when did you stop wearing your wedding ring?

Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:55 am to
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37073 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:55 am to
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Is this eminent? Are you guys separated?


Yes, we have been separated for 2.5 months. She filed the initial petition with the court, and then she asked to move the first hearing back 2 months to give us time to work out a consent agreement, which is ongoing.

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Do the kids know? Are they old/mature enough to ask their thoughts?


yes, they know (I'm not living in the house anymore / I see them a lot and they stay with me some times). They have asked questions, I don't think either one of them obviously want this. Both of them have a lot of friends who have divorced parents, so sadly this isn't anything unusual to them.

I could go into more, but I don't think it would be a good idea on a message board.
Posted by Guido Merkens
Member since Mar 2006
4346 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 10:55 am to
I sold mine for $90 (jewelry store melted it for the gold) and put the money some workout clothes / shoes.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19250 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:14 am to
She ain’t coming back , throw that shite away. You can’t turn a whore into a housewife
Posted by wartiger2004
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Member since Aug 2011
17816 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:16 am to
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Hope only ends if either one of you dies or remarries.

There are plenty of examples where couples couldn’t figure it out the first time around only to reconcile and figure it out together the second time.

If you feel like standing for your marriage, stand for your marriage. It won’t be easy. And you may feel like you’re in it alone at times. But what if you find a way to work on yourself first and then are able to work on the marriage together? What if?

Don’t lose hope. Hope is a good thing. Maybe the best of things.



These are fantastic sentiments Mr. Hallmark where does Hope stand if any feelings you once felt are completely dead? Asking for a friend of course.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
48471 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:17 am to
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She ain’t coming back , throw that shite away. You can’t turn a whore into a housewife

Just because they are getting divorced doesn't mean she's a whore. shite happens and sometimes people change.
Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9639 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:21 am to
All metal came from stars.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
61902 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:23 am to
use to wear it after the divorce. Some chicks liked that. If I got the "you're married " response. No still wear it because its hard to get over. Worked well
Posted by ds_engineer
South Mississippi
Member since Dec 2014
386 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:27 am to
I took my ring off early in my marriage and never put it back on. I have no idea where it is or what happened to it. BTW, I'm still married and going on 20 years.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
16922 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 11:31 am to
Coming up on 10 years Of marriage and I don’t wear mine
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
18630 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:15 pm to
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when did you stop wearing your wedding ring?


The day the annulment was official.
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
1645 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:22 pm to
2 weeks after her funeral.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:25 pm to
The conversation went.

Just get me one of those cheap ones off Amazon.

No, I want you to have something meaningful and yours.

Something cheap and tacky off Amazon then.

No.

Ok.

And then I went and designed a DnD monstrosity of hammered cobalt, meteorite, and oak.



It's a fun conversation piece at parties. Bitch to type with though.


Posted by OBReb6
Memphissippi
Member since Jul 2010
37725 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:25 pm to
I had a couple of events to go to after getting served the papers, weddings and such, and I wasn’t ready to tell people at that point. So maybe a month or two?
Posted by MiloDanglers
on a dock on a bay
Member since Apr 2012
6544 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:28 pm to
quote:

quote: I kept it on during the separation and through everything as a symbol of hope.

That's where I am at right now, although hope is fading fas


The only hope you have of avoiding divorce, and maybe even having a viable marriage, is to move on completely now and hope she starts coming back to you. And then, slow play it. You don’t have to find another woman, but you can still set yourself up with an awesome life, and become an awesome person, that she may actually want to cone back to.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 12:29 pm to
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Yeah I’m cuck but we were together 30 years, married 20.


Damn. Sounds like she was still pissed it took you so long to get your shite together so you could marry her
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 1:55 pm to
Moby



Don't kill the dwarves' enthusiasm.
Posted by Blind Zebras
We comin
Member since Aug 2016
1044 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 2:29 pm to
Set up a tinder profile and start slaying
Posted by Blind Zebras
We comin
Member since Aug 2016
1044 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

se to wear it after the divorce. Some chicks liked that. If I got the "you're married " response. No still wear it because its hard to get over. Worked well


This is some feel sorry for me beta male bitch shite. If this is actually true, You’re either really good looking (no homo) or ended up with desperate needy girls
This post was edited on 8/12/20 at 2:32 pm
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17218 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 4:58 pm to
quote:

forged by dwarves


quote:

And then I went and designed a


Yo cuh... you a dwarf?
Posted by PocketLab
Thib
Member since Sep 2018
122 posts
Posted on 8/12/20 at 5:08 pm to
Was asking rhetorically. Not trying to get in your business. I have confidence you’ll make the right decision for you and your kids. You’re putting a lot of careful thought into this. Good luck my man.
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