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re: American middle class families must really not be saving any money.

Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:31 am to
Posted by GeauxTigers123
Member since Feb 2007
1393 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:31 am to
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I’m in the burbs of Atlanta right now and see lots of $500-$700k houses with MODEST vehicles. Also, those house were likely purchased for half that amount 3+ years ago.


Yeah. Around Dallas area I would say that if you drive by 500k houses, it looks like people drive cars for 10 years (and I don’t think buying a reliable car and driving for 10 years is a bad thing) (let’s not describe cars as being an investment).

If you go by homes over one million then you start to see later model luxury cars.


Now obviously this is all somewhat evolving as those million dollar homes were 500k in 2005.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262334 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:48 am to
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I know several couples that are both teachers. They have private day care, drive new cars, take lavish vacations...

They may make what...100k combined?


Yep, got a coworker like this. Makes good money (his wife is a deputy commissioner) but spends an incredible amount, as his mom allows him to keep the rents from her properties without him doing any actual work.

Yet he's always complaining about having to spend money on shite. Guess that happens when you have a 700k house, 200k remote cabin property, 200k worth of vehicles, and don't actually save.

He has no ambition, why would he?
Posted by PappaSwolio
tGeneral’s Army
Member since Sep 2022
901 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:49 am to
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Lots of people my age receive family help (I'm 37). It can be day care, household payments, etc.


This.

We live 3 hours from my family and an hour from my wife’s. Started asking people I work with where they send kids and almost all of them said they have a family member. One said she has a friend that only charges $10 a day to watch her baby

Meanwhile we spend $750 a month to send ours to daycare 2 days a week.Plus i know a few that had parents pay for college. Between costs from college and daycare we are near $3k a month
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71595 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:52 am to
I'm looking for a house, and I'm not going to lie it's a draining experience. Do everything right, and because one idiot is willing to pay 30k over asking with 25 grand of due diligence, we keep coming in second.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48976 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:53 am to
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I'm looking for a house, and I'm not going to lie it's a draining experience. Do everything right, and because one idiot is willing to pay 30k over asking with 25 grand of due diligence, we keep coming in second.

We are most likely heading into a recession which should cool that down some.
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
18703 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:53 am to
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Not really understanding how the jimmy and joes are making it out here.



Smart people buy used cars from these people after they lightly use them for a couple of years.
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
1958 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 7:54 am to
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Honestly, you should look at your every day spending. It's got to have some problems with the numbers you're using here.


That is in the past. Now I am investing heavily in bonds, real estate, and stocks, as well as keeping plenty of cash.

This post was edited on 3/20/23 at 7:56 am
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10677 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:05 am to
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We live 3 hours from my family and an hour from my wife’s. Started asking people I work with where they send kids and almost all of them said they have a family member. One said she has a friend that only charges $10 a day to watch her baby


I get envious of these people. We have no family help and will be soon paying $1500 a month in daycare cost.

Meanwhile these marginally employed local yokels get free daycare, family help, etc.

I made the right decisions to be able to afford this. I took career risks, worked hard, etc.

Meanwhile, some get it handed to them. Just no wherewithal or drive.

It's definitely a character flaw of mine I struggle with.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
49158 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:06 am to
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My two vehicles plus umbrella are $440 a month in good ole loosyana
mine is half that outside LA
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262334 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:11 am to
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We are most likely heading into a recession which should cool that down some.


Municipalities are going to have to prioritize home ownership, instead of protecting property values. Has to happen.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18511 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:13 am to
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A lot of those people have two incomes so it’s probably closer to 200k if they have those things.


Any source for this?

Two people in the same home making that much is rare. Quick Google search says it’s ~7% of American households making $200k or more.

The median US home price is now $400k as of 2022. That’s all homes. I imagine the areas that have families with two decent paying incomes cost more on average.

You can’t get a new vehicle (used or not) without spending at least $20k. Most are spending more.

I have no idea how this is sustainable. There are $50k+ trucks and SUVs all over the distant suburbs of Birmingham (Pelham, Helena, Alabaster). No way people are pulling in $200k to support having a nice home, vacations, vehicles, kids, etc AND being financially smart enough to save money.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55947 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:13 am to
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Meanwhile these marginally employed local yokels get free daycare, family help, etc.

I made the right decisions to be able to afford this. I took career risks, worked hard, etc.

Meanwhile, some get it handed to them. Just no wherewithal or drive.

ngl you sound like a whiny bitch in this thread
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35600 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:14 am to
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Re-read your own posts. You were very specific about it.


Explain where the pretax money turns into post tax money.

Doing a reverse rollover (ira into 401k) does not change the money from pretax into post tax money and if you do it correctly there are no penalties.

You also thought you would get hit with penalties and extra taxes on the balance in your ROTH ira. Maybe you don’t know wtf you are talking about.

This post was edited on 3/20/23 at 8:20 am
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35600 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:17 am to
Love how so many are whining about peers receiving family help in the form of free daycare these days.



Yall realize that paying for daycare instead of grandma is a brand new phenomenon right?

Family raising the kids was the default up until just recently.
Posted by AUin02
Member since Jan 2012
4283 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:18 am to
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I'd bet that your situation is more common than your friends.


In the wider world of America? Definitely. But having to explain that to my wife because she's fretting about us affording a home while everyone we know has a house or has sold their first house for a new one has been a pain in the arse lol.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10677 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:19 am to
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Yall realize that paying for daycare instead of grandma is a brand new phenomenon right?


Don't have kids you can't afford and then rely on other people to take care of or cut you a deal.

How about them apples?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262334 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:19 am to
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I get envious of these people


Don't.

There's something to being self sufficient.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35600 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:20 am to
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Don't have kids you can't afford and then rely on other people to take care of or cut you a deal. How about them apples?


Sounds like they are affording them just fine.
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1180 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:20 am to
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Some people just make a lot of money and may have done really well on another house.


You mean, flipping a house? My brother bought a home in Hammond for $78K back in 1995. Put about $10K into it and sold it for $225K about 10 years later. Was able to buy some property, build a metal frame home and pay off all his debt.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10677 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 8:21 am to
By depending on mommy and daddy or a friend to watch your kids? I don't think so. That's one medical event from those people in crisis.
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