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re: Am I seeing something that’s there or just what I want to see?

Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:47 pm to
Posted by Toss_Dive
Member since Jul 2022
276 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:47 pm to
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She prob just has more options than you do.


Pretty sure this is always the case.


Unless you like ugly broads
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
8465 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:48 pm to
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She prob just has more options than you do.


Most girls do. The problem is when they keep guys hanging around “Just in Case”. Friend-zoned, but she throws just enough hints to keep him around. Hard as it is for a young man, that’s time to eject.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
103991 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:50 pm to
How’s she being vague?
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16522 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:52 pm to
quote:

Am I seeing something that’s there or just what I want to see?

If you can’t touch it, then it’s not real.
Posted by TigerinKorea
Member since Aug 2014
8545 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 6:53 pm to
Hang out with other ladies, and see how she reacts.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10175 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:00 pm to
quote:

nterpretation of vague signals is accurate


Look at it a bit differently. She may not think she is being vague, but he thinks she is. He can ask clarifying questions, for sure. He's worried that if he does, she'll cut off whatever mid-level makeout stuff he gets from her because of something "he did."

Assuming OP isn't in his 20s or early 30s, vagueness means she's not interested. De-prioritize the relationship. If she was into you, you'd know it in most cases.

Unfortunately, the quickest way to get most women to clarify what they want is to pay less attention to them. Ask them if you can figure out how to, based on y'alls personality, but it's not all on the dudes to figure stuff out. It's a team effort of realization that she has to do more than show you cleavage or laugh at your dumb jokes. You have to do more than stare at said cleavage in the relationship too. If she doesn't think there is something wrong in the communication process in you're relationship, you don't have one.
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
8262 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:00 pm to
What exactly do you mean by relationship limbo?
Posted by POTUS2024
Member since Nov 2022
20943 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:15 pm to
There are three secrets with relationships, and they are....unknown to me.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:36 pm to
quote:

Am I seeing something that’s there or just what I want to see?


grab her by the

if she stops you, it was your imagination

Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
25212 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:44 pm to
I don’t know. Are you seeing photos that don’t look like they were taken with your phone?

Because she probably thinks you aren’t real.
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 7:53 pm to
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how do you determine if your interpretation of vague signals is accurate or just reading what you want into a situation?


I fostered a deep spiritual connection with my wife. I broke into her house. I took apart her sink. I brought a bag of hair. It worked out perfectly.
This post was edited on 8/21/23 at 7:54 pm
Posted by asphinctersayswhat
Parts Unknown
Member since Nov 2011
3423 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:01 pm to
Best thing is decrease your availability. Watch her reaction. Thatll tell you everything you need to know. She will either chase or let you go. Both work out well for you.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
14259 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:03 pm to
If she's a picky eater dump her.


Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
Lake Charles
Member since Apr 2010
18347 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:03 pm to
Kick rocks bitch. I don’t play games.
Posted by Leavebritneyalone
McComb is always home
Member since Aug 2023
282 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:12 pm to
quote:

I’m in a weird relationship limbo with a girl


Nope
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
769 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:14 pm to
She’s a tranny with a 12” dick. Is that what you’re seeing?
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
54890 posts
Posted on 8/21/23 at 8:32 pm to
Talk to her about it. Get it straight from the source. You are worried that you won't get the answer that you want, i get it, but knowing will be much much better in the long run. And don't worry about weirding her out or something like that, just fkn do it.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5825 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:54 am to
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Best thing is decrease your availability. Watch her reaction. Thatll tell you everything you need to know. She will either chase or let you go. Both work out well for you.

Ding ding ding
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
40459 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:09 am to
If you are hanging out a lot did your periods sync up lol?


Kidding decrease availability little if you are unsure
Posted by bonescanner
Member since Oct 2011
2532 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:14 am to
depends, what is she on the 1-10 scale, how much money does she have, and where the hell is her pics rookie
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