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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story
Posted on 10/19/24 at 9:40 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Posted on 10/19/24 at 9:40 am to olgoi khorkhoi
I can understand your reticense to meet him.
I can also appreciate his desire to meet you.
If it were me, I would do my best to have some empathy and compassion for him. Meeting you and getting some closure could change his life dramatically.
You never know what kind of impact your decision regarding this matter will have on that young man's life.
I encourage you to do the right thing and meet him.
Good luck and God Bless.
I can also appreciate his desire to meet you.
If it were me, I would do my best to have some empathy and compassion for him. Meeting you and getting some closure could change his life dramatically.
You never know what kind of impact your decision regarding this matter will have on that young man's life.
I encourage you to do the right thing and meet him.
Good luck and God Bless.
This post was edited on 10/19/24 at 9:45 am
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Posted on 10/19/24 at 9:45 am to olgoi khorkhoi
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Her family here were convinced it was mine, even moreso after it was born based on hair/skin color etc.
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I've got 7 kids now
Posted on 10/19/24 at 9:55 am to olgoi khorkhoi
I was adopted and almost died during surgery in the Navy. Doctors needed to know my biological medical background but being adopted I couldn't give any. It led me to find them so I could find out what I was facing. Maybe the kid just wants that. If you're so sorry as a person you could at least answer his questions one time.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 10:35 am to SquatchDawg
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My FIL was contacted by a woman that matched up with him via a DNA test from a fling he had very close to when he married my recently deceased MIL. He threw this out there to my wife and her sister and insisted they meet their new half sister.
This did not go over well….and God knows how it would’ve gone down if my MIL was still alive.
Bolded parts basically say, “Hey girls, I cheated on your mom, come meet the sister you never knew you had”. Of course they’d be pissed.
This isn’t the OP’s situation, he didn’t cheat on his now-wife and he doesn’t have to insist they all be one happy family. The guy just wants to have a conversation. A decent human being would do that.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 10:38 am to olgoi khorkhoi
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olgoi khorkhoi
aka, Furtile Turtle.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 10:38 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Dude you said you pulled out in a letter reply.
I know it's not impossible but odds are that ain't your son. Pull out game is usually 100%. Mine always was.
Seems like the woman is trying to contact you.
I know it's not impossible but odds are that ain't your son. Pull out game is usually 100%. Mine always was.
Seems like the woman is trying to contact you.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 10:43 am to olgoi khorkhoi
7+1 equals 8 kids.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 11:46 am to olgoi khorkhoi
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I usually didn't finish when we had sex
Not sure id put this out there in public that you have trouble with women.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:38 pm to Oates Mustache
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Oates Mustach
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You threw out a challenge, I accepted.
You may be special needs.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:46 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
How's the brood mare, aka your homely wife, doing this afternoon?
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:59 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Update: I changed the story for maximum OT carnage and my personal entertainment.
lol no you didn’t, you were threatening to fight random people on the internet over this shite. Trying to change it makes it look even worse
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:03 pm to Oates Mustache
She's doing as well as you'd expect that a thin, beautiful mid 40's ballet instructor who's married to a 1%er would be.
In short, better than you and your hambeast of a sig other combined.
Thanks for asking. At least you finally seem to understand the assignment. Better extremely slow than never.
In short, better than you and your hambeast of a sig other combined.
Thanks for asking. At least you finally seem to understand the assignment. Better extremely slow than never.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:06 pm to Dadren
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This isn’t the OP’s situation, he didn’t cheat on his now-wife
I'm thinking this is the kicker right here. OP probably lying about this being "before" his now wife. Absolutely no reason that a family man & woman that raise multiple kids could be mad about a "whoopsie daisy" that happened before they were together. I'm not even suggesting the wife says invite him for THanksgiving, but just to understand that it is the decent thing to do.
"a day I've long feared"....AKA You knew
"her family believed it was mine due to hair/skin"....AKA you knew
"I was only 18"....AKA you knew and didn't man up
"I'm not taking a paternity test"....AKA you know and still don't man up
"her family loves drama, the lived for it". "I have not talked to them in 30 years". .....So many red flags your throwing out about yourself
I find it hard to believe that a grown man with 7 kids would this selfish and scared of something that happened before he was married.
I also find it very worrisome that a father of 7 kids cannot figure out a better way to tell a 30yr old man that he was (involved) with his mother, using any other words besides "
quote:" as he's said on here multiple times already.
banged your mom in multiple positions
He says it's not good for anybody. Well fella simple fact is that is not just your choice, especially given the fact the ONLY innocent person in this is the one that is reaching out. Go ahead, ghost him, again, we'll all be here waiting to hear you come back and complain about him being a POS after he takes it in his own hands and blasts you all over facebook for your whole family to see and find out that way.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:07 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Ok, i read the update, but the fact remains that this kid could be yours and if his brother is contacting you, he probably knows about it. Your situation hasn’t changed based on the new info.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:12 pm to Ed Osteen
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lol no you didn’t, you were threatening to fight random people on the internet over this shite.
Telling someone what you would do if they had the courage (they don't) to say something in person that they flippantly say online isn't threatening to fight. It's just the truth. I hope that one day that guy does talk to the right person that way and gets natural consequences.
As for the details, most of it was exact, I just tweaked a couple things for entertainment purposes on an otherwise boring Friday night.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:17 pm to Rick9Plus
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Your situation hasn’t changed based on the new info.
The overall situation hasn't changed, but the immediate situation has. Maybe no one said anything to the guy and hoped telling his brother would create whatever family turmoil they were hoping for. I think I squashed it. There isn't a potential son reaching out, for now anyway. If he did, I would tell him the same thing I told his brother.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:19 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Telling someone what you would do if they had the courage (they don't) to say something in person that they flippantly say online isn't threatening to fight
But i do have the courage. You keep pussing out. You post something definitively and I'm saying let's get it on.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:25 pm to Oates Mustache
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You keep pussing out.
Do I? Or did you butt into a conversation?
I'm in Brentwood Tennessee, how about you?
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:30 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Brentwood Tennessee
That's a really nice area, I love Tennessee.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:39 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
If the husband gets a DNA test and the kid isn’t his, they will just come at you more. I’d at least tell your wife but that is just me. You might be in some shite with her if they start to bug you more
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