re: 5 Reasons My Kid Is Not Spending The Night With Your Kid

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Where is the dad in this whole situation?

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if he's smart....somewhere, anywhere else.

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You are a gun owner.

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You swear like you’re getting paid per word.

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You scream at your kid. 

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You drink a lot and often.

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You are a racist. 

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1) Disagree, but I would want to know if the house I send my kids to had a gun and if it was locked up.
2) Agree
3) Agree, people who scream at their kids are trashy.
4) Agree, don't want my kids around somebody who is getting blitzed while my kid is there.
5) Agree

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LOOK AT MY VIRTUES! LOOK AT THEM! LOOK!

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That's what I was going to say. She(ya) starts by saying she is not saying she is better but that is exactly what she is saying. Piece is political.

One reason why you won't have to worry about your kid spending the night at anyone else's house.

1. You.

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was hanging out at my buddy's house one time when we were 13-14 years old. He said something smartass to his dad and his dad backhanded him.

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By chance, do you recall this happening a 2nd time?

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I was hanging out at my buddy's house one time when we were 13-14 years old. He said something smartass to his dad and his dad backhanded him.

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And I bet the buddy never did again.

I come from a house where I learned a lot of lessons via the belt, or whatever was handy for my dad in absence of a belt.

I probably did the same thing your buddy did at that age....I think I smarted off to my mom exactly one time in front of my dad. That mistake was never made again.

I would be uncomfortable with my 8 year old spending the night at his friend's house when his parents kept a gun in the house. Unless the parents could convince me it was properly stored and kept safely away from the kids.

The swearing thing would annoy me, too. I don't want my kid to sound like he just came home from pirating on the high seas.

I wouldn't want my kid around a parent who screams at their kid, either. Disciplining is different than verbal abuse. But to broaden that, I wouldn't want my kid around an abusive parent of any kind.

The drinking thing is less of an issue for me other than it makes you incapable of caring for your kid and my kid if something happens while they're there.

I, too, don't want my kid around a parent who flings the n word around.

All of these actually seem reasonable to people who are parents.

she needs to be honest with herself that no one wants her weird arse kid at their house overnight anyways so sure you can write in your mommy blog about something that probably isn't ever going to happen.

Of course they have a joint facebook account...

With a mother like that, it's likely nobody is asking that kid for a sleepover anyway.

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In our home we are accepting of all races, religions, and sexual orientation.

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I bet if push came to shove this mom isn't letting her kid go stay with transgendered couple with the adopted kid down the street no matter how much virtue signaling she does.