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re: Do you like being waited on at restaurants?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:00 am to braves21
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:00 am to braves21
For dinner, yes. For lunch, counter service is cheaper and quicker. I'm dreaming of a counter service Mexican restaurant for lunch. Order at the bar, fill your drink, and pick up your order when called.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:24 am to braves21
You must be talking about fast food or a Buffett
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:26 am to braves21
The best experience is sitting at a bar with another person and having a bartender who understands to keep his/her distance while knowing to look out for empty glasses/when its time to order. I enjoy the hell out of that.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 9:34 am to jfw3535
You just cut my point in half. I tip all the time even for just coffee.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 9:53 am to MightyYat
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I don't like sitting at a table or booth and having a server wait on just me. It's weird.
When I'm alone, I prefer a bar, too. I don't mind a table, but prefer the bar. Quicker service and more social.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 9:59 am to jfw3535
The actual reason tipping exists is pure bullshite. However, I’m also a believer that if you don’t want to tip when eating out, don’t go out to eat.
I avoid trying to eat out unless we have a gift card because it’s expensive enough already. There’s no reason tipping should exist at all.
I avoid trying to eat out unless we have a gift card because it’s expensive enough already. There’s no reason tipping should exist at all.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:00 am to MightyYat
well I can honestly say that I do not really remember being served when by myself.
My sister eats alone all the time, but I do not frequent sit down places if alone.
More fast food or get it and go...Meat and 3 types or Chinese.
I eat in my car a fair amount of time. I do not even eat in fast food places alone usually.
My sister eats alone all the time, but I do not frequent sit down places if alone.
More fast food or get it and go...Meat and 3 types or Chinese.
I eat in my car a fair amount of time. I do not even eat in fast food places alone usually.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:07 am to Tridentds
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Yes. As long they are not intrusive.
Agree
And good waiters know this.
Like don’t start picking up plates until everybody at the table is finished
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:20 am to Rohan Gravy
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Like don’t start picking up plates until everybody at the table is finished
That's not being a good waiter.
If my buddy is finished to my right and the waiter passes by the table, don't just leave the empty plate there because I'm eating slow.
No good restaurant does this
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:31 am to jfw3535
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I hate you already.
You literally quoted half of what my point was. Go away.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:34 am to Deactived
Wrong
I was a professional waiter in a very high end restaurant for many years
This is proper service 101
Posted on 2/22/24 at 10:47 am to Deactived
Ouch. This is painfully wrong.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 11:34 am to Deactived
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No good restaurant does this
Yes they do, ya dummy.
It is awkward to be the only person eating, so nicer restaurants will leave plates until everyone is done.
Maybe not so much when patrons start stacking their stuff all up and creating a pile.
This post was edited on 2/22/24 at 11:44 am
Posted on 2/22/24 at 11:45 am to LouisianaLady
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Maybe not so much when patrons start stacking their stuff all up and creating a pile.
Which no one should ever do.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 11:47 am to wesfau
Eh, it's a hard habit to break if you waited tables. Casual and even mid-tier servers practically jump for joy when you do it, so it can be hard to remember to turn it off in nicer dining.
Fortunately, servers in nicer places tend to notice you're done early enough to swoop in.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 12:04 pm to braves21
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I don’t. If I’m on my own I definitely rather order up front and fill my own drink. I’m a cheapo and don’t tip unless it’s warranted.
did they airdrop your meal from heaven?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 12:07 pm to tigerterrace
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I eat in my car a fair amount of time.
Well that’s trashy.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 12:08 pm to wesfau
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Which no one should ever do.
Im a great stacker. Especially at sushi places. That wasabi stickiness allows for a tower of random sized plates
Posted on 2/22/24 at 12:22 pm to PeteRose
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When I was young, yes. Not so much now. I dread the idea of going to a restaurant and strike up a fake conversation so the waiter can bring me my food.
Why on earth are you having a "fake conversation" with your server? Unless you consider the normal human behavior of exchanging initial pleasantries to be a conversation. After that, what are you talking about?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 12:26 pm to LouisianaLady
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Yes they do, ya dummy.
It is awkward to be the only person eating, so nicer restaurants will leave plates until everyone is done.
I was about to disagree with Jones myself. This is a big pet peeve with some of my family, particularly with my Mom, Dad and my nephew when we've gone on some restaurant trips. It certainly happens in casual restaurants, but when it happens in a nice restaurant, we all look at each other in disbelief. We have been known to politely ask that they wait until we have all completed the course before they start leaning over the table removing dishes. It's annoying to be trying to complete your dish with wait staff clearing the table. It's also uncomfortable for those who have not finished eating.
I get the other side of the argument that people don't want to sit with a dirty plate in front of them, but I think that's weak.
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Maybe not so much when patrons start stacking their stuff all up and creating a pile.
This makes me cringe.
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