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re: Staying friends with a girl

Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:12 am to
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
67824 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:12 am to
quote:

Staying with a friends girl


this will get you kilt, baw.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
16404 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:13 am to
I could but doesn’t sound like you can because as you have said

quote:

I’m a pussy cause i know...
Posted by Paluka
One State Over
Member since Dec 2010
10763 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:14 am to
quote:

So avoid my friends when they’re with her?


Not necessarily. I don’t know if you are mature enough to be in the same space as her. If you can send a clear message and maintain emotional distance then hang out with your group. This requires you to be honest with yourself.

You can always hang out with your friends without her or expand/change your social group. It will change in the future anyway.
Posted by bamapoet
North Alabama
Member since Nov 2011
534 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:15 am to
Remain, "friendly" with her, not friends. When you get dumped, you should move on with your life. Move on with a productive life, one that you improve since you got dumped. A girl doesn't dump you because of your feelings, how much you love them, etc. A woman dumps someone because how the man makes them feel about themselves. Something you were/ were not doing that made the woman feel less about herself. Move on, be friendly towards her, and live a productive life.
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
8418 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:21 am to
She probably didnt like you bc you're a "nice guy".

Women don't like that shite.

They want to be treated bad and fricked hard.

I'd just bang all her friends if I was you.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
113152 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:25 am to
In my experience it’s impossible to open a new door until you close the last one completely
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:27 am to
I only tried once(I actually broke up with her) and it didn't work out.


On the flip side, my aunt has been divorced from her first husband for 30 years now and they're still best friends.
Posted by ConfusedHawgInMO
Member since Apr 2014
3524 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:27 am to
You will screw it up because you will try to bang her again or at a minimum get drunk and cry if she doesn't at least give you a handy. I mean that's what I heard would happen.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
10662 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:27 am to
Just to clarify...she broke your heart, but you don't want to date her?
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:29 am to
Workout, learn to code, trade stonks.

Profit
Posted by L1C4
The Ville
Member since Aug 2017
14081 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:32 am to
Try and get with another girl in the group or bring a new girl around her and watch her get jealous.
Posted by Methuselah
On da Riva
Member since Jan 2005
23350 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:34 am to
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hooked up with or dated

These are not identical. Could be the root of your problem that you've conflated them.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
35843 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:38 am to
quote:

Heh 3/4 of the girls


yeah after seeing this thread I’m going to go with this didn’t happen
Posted by jfw3535
South of Bunkie
Member since Mar 2008
4858 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 9:46 am to
I believe it's spelled C-U-C-K-O-L-D.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23762 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 10:02 am to
Only stay friends if she’ll set you up with someone later. Learn to be a wolf dog, not a pet dog.
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3425 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 10:03 am to
I'm married but tried the can always be friends with girls type thing. It doesn't work. Just let it go man.
This post was edited on 12/28/20 at 4:37 pm
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
7265 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 10:07 am to
quote:

If you hooked up with or dated a girl for almost a year, really really liked her, and she broke up with you could you stay friends with her? What if she is part of your friend group? Would you exclusively hang with your friends when she wasn’t around?


It's a bad idea if you broke it off. It's a catastrophically horrible idea is she left you.

Basically, you should never talk to her again and go about your life. As for her mixing with your friends, they'll get the message and things will be sorted appropriately. Don't simp.
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
16399 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 10:11 am to
Did you frick her?
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
92724 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 10:46 am to
My current gf has become good friends with my old slam piece who was just a FWB deal. It was weird at first but now it’s not. Former FWB never got jealous or tried anything on me once me and current gf got together so it’s no big deal. We are all friends now
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5540 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:18 pm to
I swear
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