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re: Staying friends with a girl

Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:19 pm to
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5446 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:19 pm to
Yes for 10 months.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5446 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:21 pm to
According to one of my friends the proper term is a “situationship”
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5446 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:22 pm to
I have already banged 2 of the other 3. 1 now has a boyfriend. I guess I could go for one of the other two...
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15631 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:30 pm to
By "friends" I hope you mean swing by for the quick tap when she's lonely.

Only legit reason for maintaining contact with an ex. I have interest in being "friends" with a woman. Just feels unnatural.
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49272 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:31 pm to
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:34 pm to
No. Once you're out, you're out.

Also she needs to frick on the first day, or she's wasting my time.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10311 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:49 pm to
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Women don't like that shite.

They want to be treated bad
No, we don’t.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:52 pm to
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she is just way too old for me.

quote:

I’m in my early 20s she is mid-late 20s


#1: What?

#2: I thought SHE dumped YOU. She said she's too old for you? Maybe you're immature.
Posted by GoldenGuy
Member since Oct 2015
10880 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:52 pm to
RA’d to have your username changed to justanicecuck
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
7998 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 12:53 pm to
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No, we don’t.


Yes you do.

Its subconcious.

Ever heard "nice guys finish last"?
That saying was not created for nothing.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10311 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 1:01 pm to
What are you 12? If someone dumps you, you get some self respect and keep moving.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
18445 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 1:10 pm to
If we were just frick buddies, sure. If I was invested into the relationship for the long term, then no.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23605 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 1:19 pm to
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If you hooked up with or dated a girl for almost a year, really really liked her, and she broke up with you could you stay friends with her?

virtually impossible to do... unless you "upgrade" from her and are happy with the new, better version...

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What if she is part of your friend group?

I wouldn't drop the friend group, but I'd maintain distance from said female at functions, just as to not possibly get any hopes up or set myself up for any disappointment...

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Would you exclusively hang with your friends when she wasn’t around?
that would be ideal, honestly, but almost impossible without you looking a certain way, along with making the others a little weirded out when both of y'all are there at the same time with the group...
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 2:07 pm to
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If you hooked up with or dated a girl for almost a year, really really liked her, and she broke up with you could you stay friends with her?


Nah. When someone dumps you, she's basically saying that she can do better than you. And by giving her what she wants (attention) while not getting what you want (that arse) you're confirming that she can do better.

You need to move on. Doesn't mean you have to be a jackass when you see her. Just be cordial, keep it moving and date other women. Go out and meet other women and watch how your desire for this one woman dwindles.

Only remain friends if you're not attracted to her anymore and you genuinely enjoy her company and have no expectation or desire for sex. Thinking you're going to gain her favor again by being in her friendzone is a flawed strategy. But hey, maybe blue balls is your thing.
This post was edited on 12/28/20 at 2:15 pm
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38786 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 2:15 pm to
When do you chase strange if you are hanging out with friends group


You need to bring skank to friend group blow it up
This post was edited on 12/28/20 at 2:17 pm
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
34820 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 2:23 pm to
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justaniceguy


BooKrewe alter
Posted by sportsaddit68
Hammond
Member since Sep 2008
5846 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 2:25 pm to
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So avoid my friends when they’re with her?


They aren't your friends if they are still hanging around her. They are her frick buddies.
Posted by texasmason
Dallas
Member since Apr 2019
1300 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 2:30 pm to
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If you hooked up with or dated a girl for almost a year, really really liked her, and she broke up with you could you stay friends with her?


Posted by Art_Vandelay
Member since Nov 2019
161 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 3:03 pm to
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BooKrewe alter


Nah, this guy claims to have done the sex
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
11350 posts
Posted on 12/28/20 at 3:41 pm to
You are a pussy and none of this is happening or you would get your arse kicked.
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