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re: Life changes quick
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:09 am to lepdagod
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:09 am to lepdagod
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problem is my wife is her mother... the person she hates more than anybody in this world she’s turning into... her father told me about her mom”Something going to always be wrong when nothings wrong... some people just like that ... at times she can be the sweetest person in the world... than all of a sudden it’s like the sky falling ...
So what’s her reasoning for the divorce? Surely you’ve talked at this point since last night.
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Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:09 am to lsunurse
Good luck to you nurse.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:12 am to lepdagod
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Nope... had a great day and everything...
She’s cheating on you..
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:12 am to ZIGG
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put your money in a South Dakota trust.
I would love you to elaborate
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:15 am to SECdragonmaster
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Heed the advice here and lawyer up. Your wife does not love you. Your wife does not live your kids Your wife only loves herself. She only cares about meeting her own needs and then what is left over can go to others. Any person who’s solution during or after a divorce is “immediate dating” is a ME FIRST person. (If they have kids). Both parents first concern in a divorce should be maximizing time with children.
This is the absolute truth.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:17 am to TchoupitoulasTiger
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Getting Divorced Checklist Retain an attorney. Again... Retain an attorney. Immediate action items: 1) Secure and/or change all passwords. End all open sessions of social media. Make all of this private. 2) On your cell phone bill-if you have a joint account- pay the extra $ for detailed billing. Document communications with Jody. 3) If you are a W-9 employee and have direct deposit- change this. Open a new account at a different bank and deposit your salary there.Transfer money for shelter, transportation, children as necessary. Establish a new checking account with an address that is not your home address. (If she has access to your mail then you don’t have control) 4) Have a detailed copy of your tax returns going back 4-5 years. 5) Change mailing address/ enable paperless documents w/ new passwords for financial accounts. 6) Reduce/eliminate 401k contributions until judgement of divorce. IRA’s are ok to continue. 7) Inventory your home like you would for homeowners/flood insurance. 8) She has a window of opportunity to wreck your credit. Don’t let her. 9) Document, Document, Document Jody...even if it’s simply location tracking of her whereabouts. This will come into play for spousal support payments. 10) File first. Establish the date of separation... every day does count.
This needs its own "sticky" folder on the help board..
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:18 am to TigerMatt225
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I found out I’ve been getting jodied by a Puerto Rican that works in one the clinics that she goes to. Talk about a punch in the gut.
Im sure it hurt you, too.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:18 am to dukke v
quote:no you were bending her over the back steps while your in-laws were inside making Thanksgiving dinner...
like I was doing it in the fricking pantry while everyone else was eating dinner.....
Don’t question my OT memory Gramps!!
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:20 am to SuperSaint
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no you were bending her over the back steps while your in-laws were inside making Thanksgiving dinner.
Jerry, Jerry
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:23 am to TigerMatt225
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, I found out I’ve been getting jodied by a Puerto Rican
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:23 am to Tiger2287
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I feel bad for what some guys go through with divorces. I let me husband keep everything, except me car. I didnt even ask for child support, as he gets the kids every other week. He just had to pay dor our divorce and pay split the cost of the things that is for the kids NEEDS. Im not gonna punish someone for a failed relationship
Don’t know what caused your divorce, but you, ma’am, are a saint.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:24 am to SuperSaint
It was on the back steps.... of an apartment building... it’s was the cousin and nobody ended up finding out.
Your OT memeory sucks.
Your OT memeory sucks.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:24 am to Hot Carl
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Im sure it hurt you, too.
ISWYDT
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:25 am to SuperSaint
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no you were bending her over the back steps while your in-laws were inside making Thanksgiving dinner...
Yes he bragged about the sis in law. It was never the cousin.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:27 am to stout
Go back and listen to the podcast I did with SFP. It’s all right there.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:28 am to dukke v
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This post was edited on 10/18/21 at 4:07 pm
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:29 am to lsunurse
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I meant it more so in that he let his ex get the best of him.
Yeah, I know what you're saying, and my comment wasn't necessarily directed at you. I get that once the divorce gets underway, then more times than not, that does become a competition to see who can get the better judgement for themselves. I have no issue with that.
But I know people who are in active relationships or married and it seems like they're always pitted against the SO or spouse. Like I have a buddy who didn't eat anything for over 24 hours because he was determined to make his wife pick a restaurant for dinner. I was like, "WTF dude. That is some insane behavior." He said there was no way he was going to back down and they have an argument about who is going to pick every single time they go out. Another couple I know use their elementary school children against each other and are in an open competition to see if they can get the kids to "love" one of them more than the other. fricking childish and insane.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:30 am to lsutiger2010
Funny. This was back in 1981...... and the cousin wanted it where the sun don’t shine.......,.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:31 am to lsunurse
Posted on 7/5/20 at 11:33 am to IAmNERD
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Like I have a buddy who didn't eat anything for over 24 hours because he was determined to make his wife pick a restaurant for dinner. I was like, "WTF dude. That is some insane behavior." He said there was no way he was going to back down and they have an argument about who is going to pick every single time they go out.
The OT really makes me realize how normal my relationship is with my wife sometimes
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