re: Wanting To Give Up and let the Coronavirus Defeat Me

My friend it's never too late to find love. You're still a relatively young man. I mean 35 years old may be old in your mind but trust me you're still a young man. Bottom line I'm sure there is a nice young woman out there just a lonely as you are, and most likely she wishes she could meet a special person.

Have you considered joining a Church community? Many Church communities have a singles club. They socialize and do all kinds of fun things. In time you will form lasting friendships and you'll begin to feel much better about yourself and your situation. Also I found that working in social ministries at my Church has given me many many wonderful hours of peace and happiness. I moved around a lot in my job and the first thing I did when I moved to a new town was seek out the local Church, and their social ministry. The most recent ministry was working in a ministry that provided free meals to the homeless. Trust me, there are people out there who are really suffering, lonely, and feel abandoned.

Besides as you get involved in ministry you will acquire a reputation as a good compassionate person and that gets around a community. Then most likely that "special person" will one day appear out of the mist (figuratively speaking). But most important you will find there are people who are just as lonely and hurting as you are.

You're honest and you're hurting. I'm sure there is a young lady out there more than willing to love and affirm you. A person who needs you just as much as you need her.

Good luck!

Get on a legit Web Site and find a nice young lady

Go outside for a run, get some exercise. Maybe listen to a humorous podcast about toilet paper hoarding or something while you run. I'm pretty sure parks and such are still open.

Dude you need to plan something exciting. Plan a trip.

Just because you cant go now doesn't mean you can't plan it now.

It will give you something to look forward to. Being single has it's advantages. Use them. Do exciting shite.

Honestly just stop being a pussy and get some perspective. You know how many people who died prematurely of cancer, car accidents, murders, etc. Would give anything they could have to still be here alive even in in this shitty situation?

We will get past it. The entire world is going to learn something from this mess. We have been fortunate in our lives to not have been forced to enter the draft or deal with any other major catastrophes that put the entire world on hold. We were well overdue for something to happen. We will learn from this and things will eventually be better than before this whole thing started.

Geaux play in the street

Well, the good news is that this will all pass at some point and everything you’ve listed as a problem is something you can fix.

So, yeah, maybe instead of whining to a bunch strangers you could start listing out the things you want to change and then go live the life you want when this passes.

Or indulge in more self-loathing and seek attention on the internet. Up to you I guess.

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I'm completely lost at this point and have no clue what to do. While I won't commit suicide (trust me I don't have the guts to do it, lol) part of me would be okay just falling asleep and not waking up. My dreams are better than my reality. So many of the people who are dying from the Coronavirus shouldn't die, they have so much more to offer the world than I do. If I could transfer the Coronavirus from them to me I absolutely would.

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Go volunteer somewhere. Seriously. It will help you have a purpose, let you accomplish something, and even give you some community

Get some exercise daily. Lower your alcohol intake.

35 isn’t old. Stop throwing yourself a pity party and make the life you want.