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re: Insufferable C-word (who happens to be Asian) questions if her bf has an asian fetish

Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:21 am to
Posted by RollTide1987
Augusta, GA
Member since Nov 2009
65147 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:21 am to
I have a thing for Middle Eastern women but that doesn't mean I have a fetish for them. I'm simply more attracted to women with olive skin and darker hair.

This girl is crazy and if the guy had any sense, he'd break up with her after reading the article. But he's probably a soy boy and okay with her complicated and borderline prejudice insecurities.

This post was edited on 2/4/19 at 8:24 am
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22497 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:22 am to
Internalized racial insecurity is unattractive. This dude should run far away from the crazy.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425599 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:23 am to
you would care if she disgraced abbeville, frgyuen
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:26 am to
Only homos don't have an Asian girl fetish....
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
58054 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:27 am to
I don’t trust anyone who wears a huge beanie in 70 degree weather.
Posted by bbrownso
Member since Mar 2008
8985 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:30 am to
quote:

He came into my life during a period when I had sworn off men. I had been in relationships my entire adult life and just wanted to focus on myself. “Single for five years!” I declared my goal proudly. Eleven months later, he showed up at my door.
. . . .
As I started to consider lifting my relationship ban, that old white ghost came back again: the whispers of Asian fetish. He has a pattern of dating Asian women. Do you know how many Asian girlfriends he’s had? He just might have an Asian fetish.

Notice, she is insecure and lost her mind.

quote:

“What the frick?!” I demanded of him.

“I’ve never seen it that way!” he insisted. “I grew up in Cupertino, so most of my classmates were Asian, and not all of my girlfriends have been Asian … but yes, most I guess. I just never thought about it.”

I rolled my eyes at the luxury white men have to not think about race in their daily lives. I, on the other hand, started obsessing over it. I couldn’t be the girlfriend of someone who had an Asian fetish because that would make me complicit in a pattern that was rooted in violence and colonization. I was busy trying to be a progressive, independent woman and an Asian fetish boyfriend did not fit the bill.

Again, looks like she's the one with the issues.

But let's look a little deeper into the article:
quote:

It took me a little while to figure this out, but once I became more settled in college, I met my first Asian boyfriend, who ended up being my husband. Sadly, he also became my ex-husband. This relationship was followed by one with another Asian male.

I'm shocked. Absolutely shocked.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39514 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:30 am to
Her BF is everything she ever wanted. He works, is kind, smart, attentive, funny and takes her batshit cray with a grain of salt. He not only tolerates it, he tries to help her understand, and work through it.

She begins pushing things further, examining her relationship with a microscope. She finds a make-believe blemish, then picks at it until it needs stitches.


Why is he still hanging out on this slippery slope? Run Baw, run!!
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425599 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:31 am to
yeah i almost quoted the part about her ex-husband. that seems like a much more interesting story (why can't i date asian men and be happy?). i bet $10 that he was "boring" (or some variation of that meme)
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66598 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:32 am to
quote:

Why is he still hanging out on this slippery slope?


:racist:
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:39 am to
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but also unfair portrayals of Asian men throughout history


Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30673 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:41 am to
quote:

I’m a white guy and i have a white girl fetish. It’s called attraction and it’s the basis of every relationship.

Somehow this is now thought of as racism
Posted by PigKahuna
Mud Pit
Member since Jan 2019
72 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:41 am to
He is way more good looking than she is. She should count her blessings and STFU.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109914 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:42 am to
quote:

Do Asian women have a reputation for being good at pillow talk by the way? Because I feel like I’m killing it.


If by pillow talk you mean me stuffing a pillow in your face to get you to shut the frick up, then yeah I guess so.
This post was edited on 2/4/19 at 12:31 pm
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27584 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:43 am to
As a white male, I would sleep with an Asian woman. I would not have kids with her.

If I had a boy and he was a tiny hairless my little pony worshiping twat, I'd never forgive myself.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109914 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:47 am to
quote:

This girl is crazy and if the guy had any sense, he'd break up with her after reading the article. But he's probably a soy boy and okay with her complicated and borderline prejudice insecurities.


His friends have to be pressuring him to break up with her after this article. If they’re not, then he has no real friends.
Posted by Charlie Arglist
Wichita, Kansas
Member since Nov 2012
5550 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:48 am to


I'd drop her arse like an A-BOMB.
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:48 am to
quote:

If I had a boy and he was a tiny hairless my little pony worshiping twat, I'd never forgive myself.


On the bright side, you know he'd have no problems with math.
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
3562 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:49 am to
Her fear is that if he's only interested because she's Asian (and the guy gives some pretty solid assurances to be honest) she's likely to be abandoned in favor of one of the many more attractive options available in area where they are plentiful. She's middle of the pack out there I'm sure. Overall, this feels like a long way to go for an engagement brag.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
58054 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:49 am to
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His friends have to be pressuring him to break up with her after this article. If they’re not, then he has no real friends.


San Francisco people are a different breed bro. They’re probably chastising him for whitesplaining and racism
Posted by bamagreycoat
Member since Oct 2012
5749 posts
Posted on 2/4/19 at 8:49 am to
Good morning little school girl, I’m a little school boy too.
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