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re: UPDATE: Question for Guys Under 30 Who Are Not Married
Posted on 12/11/18 at 7:40 am to metalfacedterrorist
Posted on 12/11/18 at 7:40 am to metalfacedterrorist
She’s getting blasted by a BBC when you’re not around.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:03 am to Hoovertigah
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You treat her like a shack up unpaid whore. She’s giving you all of her and she is unsatisfied. Commitment, ring, a date, or gtfo. No girl grows up hoping to be in this situation. Romance bro, you stopped dating her. You climaxed the relationship way too early. She’s depressed because you have nothing else to offer
And this is what typically happens when you move too fast. They are already at this point 3 months in.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:05 am to jsquardjj
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A) she is not getting off. Plenty of girls haven’t had their first orgasm by 22 even, and sex is more of a chore for those. Once she is getting off regularly, she will start initiating.
B) She is just not that into you or very selfish. Even if the sex isn’t great, a girl that is falling for you will put out all the time because she wants to make you happy.
There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting sex and having it as a high priority. Yes she should feel obligated to have sex if it something you need and she has already given it up. If she doesn’t care about that now, she is not going to value your other priorities later in life.
All of this. Women check out before they get out. She's already thinking about getting rid of you and possibly already actively seeking other men, if not already sleeping with other men.
Learn how to give great cunnilingus. I can not overstate how big a difference in your sex life this one thing can make.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 8:12 am
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:06 am to metalfacedterrorist
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I'm 1 for 6 during the last week or so. Several times I've tried to initiate things and she stated that she was not in the mood
You should marry her, then you'll get it once or twice a year.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:06 am to metalfacedterrorist
You are on deck because someone else is in the batters box.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:11 am to metalfacedterrorist
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I tried it again in the morning and we got into an argument. She claimed that all I seemed to care about was sex and that she doesn't always feel like having it...blah, blah, blah...asked me if she should feel obligated to have sex with me...blah, blah, blah...it's perfectly normal to not want to have sex, etc.
I had the exact same thing happen to me at the same age, except we didn't live together. She even used pretty much the same words above.
She was fricking someone else.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:13 am to metalfacedterrorist
Eject handle dude.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:14 am to metalfacedterrorist
Of you’re with a woman under 30 and not married and having these problems, it’s not going to get better once you put a ring on it.
Run away.
Run away.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:17 am to metalfacedterrorist
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I'm 1 for 6 during the last week or so. Several times I've tried to initiate things and she stated that she was not in the mood. I figured she was either stressed or tired.
Honest answer here. She’s not connecting with you EMOTIONALLY.
Men, connect PHYSICALLY ... women, not so much.
If you can find a way to connect with her —- again, emotionally, you will get more opportunities to become physical with her.
Take her out on a date. Pretend you just met and are starting out. Whatever it was that initially allowed her to be attracted to you, do that again.
Often times, “this” gets lost in marriage. Find ways to communicate better. Do all of these simple —- not necessarily easy — things, and you’re relationship will improve.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 8:26 am
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:21 am to DuckManiak
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Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:24 am to metalfacedterrorist
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However, she made it seem like I had these immense expectations for her sex drive. Honestly, is it wrong to expect to get laid 3-5 times per week when you are in a monogamous, non-marital relationship with a 22-year-old woman who has no children and is a college student?
You have a long road ahead of you buddy.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:24 am to Dam Guide
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Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:26 am to metalfacedterrorist
You arent doing something right and its not good for her.
Figure out how to frick better or move on.
You can't plead a case for shagging. I mean, you can, but that's just sad.
Figure out how to frick better or move on.
You can't plead a case for shagging. I mean, you can, but that's just sad.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:27 am to Loaner1231
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Learn how to give great cunnilingus. I can not overstate how big a difference in your sex life this one thing can make.
Bingo. Drives women crazy if you are good at this. Start off doing that well and she’ll boink your brains out.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:33 am to jsquardjj
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Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:41 am to Will Cover
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Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:44 am to metalfacedterrorist
quote:yeaaaah don’t do that
I continually compliment her and tell her how much she means to me.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 8:45 am
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:44 am to metalfacedterrorist
So you're just treating her like a frick buddy?
Just start ignoring her and spending less time with her. See how she reacts to that.
Just start ignoring her and spending less time with her. See how she reacts to that.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 8:50 am
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:45 am to metalfacedterrorist
If she is 22 & doing this she probably isn’t in to you, as harsh as that sounds. She doesn’t know what she wants outside of being in a relationship. And to her that doesn’t really matter who she is in the relationship with, as long as she’s in one.
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:50 am to Lester Earl
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If she is 22 & doing this she probably isn’t in to you, as harsh as that sounds. She doesn’t know what she wants outside of being in a relationship. And to her that doesn’t really matter who she is in the relationship with, as long as she’s in one.
That's not necessarily true. Some bitches just don't like to frick. She'll probably hit sexual peak in 10 years just when OP's sex drive starts to tank.
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