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re: UPDATE: Question for Guys Under 30 Who Are Not Married

Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:51 am to
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30561 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:51 am to
Break up with her man. Ain’t no time for that. It won’t get better if she’s already being defensive about it
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:53 am to
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cunnilingus


I'm 35 years old and this is the first time I've ever heard this word. Have I been living a sheltered life?
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18051 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:53 am to
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I continually compliment her and tell her how much she means to me


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spend most of my free time with her.

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I've even embraced being friendly with her dog and helping out with him, despite the fact that I'm not much of a dog lover.


You have made yourself too available and women don't always respect men who do this. Some women need a firm hand and, go dark for a few days and back off and she may come around.

Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:54 am to
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was 3-5 times a day at that age.

Now married and 34 it’s 3-4 times a year. sad

Sweet god...
Some of you live a miserable life
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:54 am to
you need to GTFO with the quickness, not even married and she's withholding? yeesh!
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278326 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 8:57 am to
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That's not necessarily true. Some bitches just don't like to frick. She'll probably hit sexual peak in 10 years just when OP's sex drive starts to tank.


Baw, if she is turning you down 85% of the time, you’re either not good in bed or she isn’t in to you.

You mentioned stressors, what does she do for a living?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:04 am to
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Have I been living a sheltered life?

more like you've been in a lifelong coma
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103046 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:16 am to
If sex is that important to the OP he should find a different partner who wants to do it all the time. Also be prepared for her to get tired of how you do it and leave you for a man with a bigger snake.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:16 am to
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Baw, if she is turning you down 85% of the time, you’re either not good in bed or she isn’t in to you.


Yeah, you're probably right.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112312 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:17 am to
Have you eaten her scrum? Seems like a quick fix
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30054 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:17 am to
As counterintuitive as it sounds, this
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I continually compliment her and tell her how much she means to me


and this

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I spend most of my free time with her.


is probably the problem. You need to make yourself less available. Don’t be her little house bitch. Find some hobbies, hang out with other dudes, don’t give her all of you. Treat her well and stay faithful to her, but you gotta give her some space. At this point, from an emotional perspective, you’re pretty much just like one of her girlfriends. Take a guys trip with your buddies or something bruh.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 9:23 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:21 am to
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Yeah, you're probably right.

if you're not trolling, you seriously need to move on, if sex is important to you that's never going to work out, people tend to downplay its importance in a relationship, probably the ones going without trying to rationalize, but sex is a yuuuuge part of our marriage and is treated accordingly
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
4334 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:22 am to
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This girl turned me down more in 1 week than my ex did in 3 years.


Bud, you've been with this girl for only 3 months. Get a new one.

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I get the impression that she is at least a bit selfish or has fricked up priorities. We always stay at her place because of her dog. Any time I have a convenient reason for not wanting to hang out (e.g., school or work), she gives me shite or wines and pleads until I cave. 

She expects me to spend time with her while she has school work going on, but then when I try to get physical she says that she's too stressed out or preoccupied with school. 


What is making you waste time trying to please this girl after only 3 months? All of this because you want an official girlfriend and don't want to date anymore?

If so, that's lame as hell and you deserve the shite she is going to keep giving you.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 9:30 am
Posted by the4thgen
Dallas, tx
Member since Sep 2010
1778 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:25 am to
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Now married and 34 it’s 3-4 times a year. sad


CLicked on this thread praying not to see this. Getting married in june at 33 and we seem to be tracking in this direction.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:27 am to
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Getting married in june at 33 and we seem to be tracking in this direction.

it's a big mistake, run while you can baw!
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:28 am to
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This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 11:45 pm
Posted by meaux5
New York, NY
Member since Sep 2010
11010 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:31 am to
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Ultimately, it feels like I'm doing plenty enough on my end and she fails to reciprocate my efforts.


brother, you need to leave.
Posted by Muff
The dirty south.
Member since Oct 2014
526 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:32 am to
based on this thread you created, and the other about the dog and can't frick cuz room mate.

I'm thinkin' you might be eat up with the dumb arse. How can arse be worth it, if you ain't gettin it already?

too many fish in sea hoss. Find one that you're more compatible with.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12449 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:37 am to
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Question for Guys Under 30 Who Are Not Married


I saw this thread going a different direction
Posted by Supravol22
Member since Jan 2011
14411 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 9:39 am to
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At 22, if she isn’t in the mood very often, it’s only gonna get worse as she gets older.



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