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re: Took daughter to the Dr....good gracious

Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:32 pm to
Posted by TH03
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Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:32 pm to
That’s what I was getting at. I’ve seen people advocate for government parental aptitude testing, mandatory marriage before having kids, etc which are far from conservative takes and are scary.
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
40711 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:33 pm to
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More assumptions!!




Normally men who are of good quality don't just turn violent or abusive. All I'm saying is that before settling down and making babies with a guy a woman should first make sure he's mature and responsible.


Now if this is the rare case where there were no behavioral warning signs, then my apologies.
Posted by YawBaw7
Your Mom's house
Member since Jan 2017
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Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:35 pm to
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Okay so how? You haven’t presented a solution. You’ve stated the end goal and who needs to get there. Nothing about how.


You can start by cutting way back on government assistance. Thus discouraging women from being negligent and becoming single mothers who rely on welfare/food stamps/medicaid to raise their illegitimate kids
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171114 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:36 pm to
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You can start by cutting way back on government assistance. Thus discouraging women from being negligent and becoming single mothers who rely on welfare/food stamps/medicaid to raise their illegitimate kids


This is the answer.
Posted by PearlJam
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Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:37 pm to
What do we do with the innocent, illegitimate kids that can't eat, can't get medical care and don't have a place to live?
This post was edited on 9/12/18 at 1:39 pm
Posted by here4thepopcorn
Houston
Member since Aug 2018
209 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:39 pm to
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You can start by cutting way back on government assistance. Thus discouraging women from being negligent and becoming single mothers who rely on welfare/food stamps/medicaid to raise their illegitimate kids


Or maybe be a little bit more forceful on the MEN who don't pay for these children and leave the mothers with no source of income.

You guys are all blaming the women. What.The.Hell. Do ya'll not know how babies are made? The men have some responsibility in this as well.
Posted by here4thepopcorn
Houston
Member since Aug 2018
209 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:40 pm to
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What do we do with the innocent, illegitimate kids that can't eat, can't get medical care and don't have a place to live?


Give them to YawBaw to parent.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11276 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:40 pm to
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You can start by cutting way back on government assistance. Thus discouraging women from being negligent and becoming single mothers who rely on welfare/food stamps/medicaid to raise their illegitimate kids


You need to make this tandem with incentivizing birth control if women are only having kids to get handouts.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171114 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:43 pm to
Make benefits contingent on finding and keeping employment. The whole living indefinitely off benefits is a cancer.
Posted by Duckhammer_77
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Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:44 pm to
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Shands in Gainseville

ah, north Flarda. explains it. Yeah, that area of the country is a special kind of trashy.

specimen:
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171114 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:44 pm to
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Or maybe be a little bit more forceful on the MEN who don't pay for these children and leave the mothers with no source of income.


Add that too. And incentivize contraception for women.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:45 pm to
I had to bring someone to the hospital the other day and holy frick that place and bless those who deal with it every day. The amount of sorry arse people who were in there with obviously very minor ailments was disgusting. There was a punk arse tattooed up white dude bitching at the clerk about him being sick and it taking to long to get help. He definitely wasnt paying for shite. I hope I never have to go there again its tough to keep your mouth shut in such a place.
Posted by Jester
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
34462 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:47 pm to
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Sounds like you go to the poor people doctor. Or live in the ghetto.



Posted by YawBaw7
Your Mom's house
Member since Jan 2017
414 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:47 pm to
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Or maybe be a little bit more forceful on the MEN who don't pay for these children and leave the mothers with no source of income


Nope. This is again confirming the stereotype. This only encourages more single parent households.

Husband/Wife start arguing/fighting more after 10 years of marriage. No kind of abuse or anything, but wife just says frick it, I'm going to get a divorce because I'm not as happy as I was when we first got married.

And she knows that she will get custody of the kids and that the father will be required by law to give whatever percentage of his income for child support. It's too easy.
Posted by Jester
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
34462 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 1:48 pm to
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You can start by cutting way back on government assistance. Thus discouraging women from being negligent and becoming single mothers who rely on welfare/food stamps/medicaid to raise their illegitimate kids


Also, allowing these women reasonable access to abortions would reduce the problem.
Posted by here4thepopcorn
Houston
Member since Aug 2018
209 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 2:05 pm to
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Nope. This is again confirming the stereotype. This only encourages more single parent households. Husband/Wife start arguing/fighting more after 10 years of marriage. No kind of abuse or anything, but wife just says frick it, I'm going to get a divorce because I'm not as happy as I was when we first got married. And she knows that she will get custody of the kids and that the father will be required by law to give whatever percentage of his income for child support. It's too easy.


That is NOT how it is. I'm happy you're in a happy marriage but I can tell you one thing, not ONE woman I know that is a single mom wanted to be freaking single and alone with kids. NOT ONE. We planned on marrying our spouses forever. It didn't work.

You are ridiculous to think we want to go days without seeing our kids for a paycheck. Do you have any clue what it is like not to spend a holiday with your kids because its mandatory for them to see their father? I CRIED FOR THE ENTIRE DAY. You think I wanted my daughter and son to not be in a stable environment with both happy parents? The fact is, it didn't work.

I didn't just get into a fight with my ex-husband one day.
Posted by LSUMIKEVVX
Member since Sep 2018
500 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 2:13 pm to
LBJ wtf Try our last prez and his shitty inzurance planz!
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64432 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 2:13 pm to
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Do you have any clue what it is like not to spend a holiday with your kids because its mandatory for them to see their father? I CRIED FOR THE ENTIRE DAY.



Complain because you never get a break, then when you get a break, you cry all day.


You need Wellbutrin daily and klonopin for the really bad days. Not even being sarcastic.



Posted by Jester
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
34462 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 2:15 pm to
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That is NOT how it is. I'm happy you're in a happy marriage but I can tell you one thing, not ONE woman I know that is a single mom wanted to be freaking single and alone with kids. NOT ONE. We planned on marrying our spouses forever. It didn't work.

You are ridiculous to think we want to go days without seeing our kids for a paycheck. Do you have any clue what it is like not to spend a holiday with your kids because its mandatory for them to see their father? I CRIED FOR THE ENTIRE DAY. You think I wanted my daughter and son to not be in a stable environment with both happy parents? The fact is, it didn't work.

I didn't just get into a fight with my ex-husband one day.



Posted by here4thepopcorn
Houston
Member since Aug 2018
209 posts
Posted on 9/12/18 at 2:24 pm to
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Complain because you never get a break


I'm pretty sure I never complained one second in here about never getting a break. I said it was a hard job and some single moms don't ask for it.

I actually said I chose it and wouldn't change it for anything.

I complained about idiots who think all single moms are crack whores just wanting a paychecks.
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