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How many of you are still friends with your ex-wives/girlfriends, did you have kids?

Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:05 pm
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161244 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:05 pm
Friend is still hanging out with his ex-wife although they had no kids. She is dating someone new so this is really fricking odd to me.
Anyone else still friendly with an ex even though you did not have kids with them?
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71744 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:06 pm to
Just your mom
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71744 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:09 pm to
But to answer your question, my BIL married a girl I dated before.

Glad I got my wife

Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8399 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:10 pm to
How old are you baw? I have friends that I dated. I know lots of people who got divorced and became civil afterwards.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47538 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

Anyone else still friendly with an ex even though you did not have kids with them?



I'm friends with my 2 exes. It's because of the kids but we often find ourselves at parties, tailgates, birtday dinners around each other. We share Facebook posts, send videos to each other of the kids, etc.

They also both love my gf of 7 yrs(longer than either marriage) and appreciate what she does for their bebes.
I'm very blessed for the pleasant dynamic and I am grateful.
This post was edited on 4/14/18 at 1:15 pm
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:14 pm to
Not friends with, but on friendly terms if we have to communicate.
I would never hang out with her though, frick that. That's weird.
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30300 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:19 pm to
One of my best friends is an old girlfriend. We dated for maybe two years back in the late 90’s. Fought all the time, just real immature. Broke up, moved on. She got married and it didn’t work out and we re-connected afterwards as friends and still are to this day: she’s remarried now and I even stood in her wedding. I’m good friends with her husband too, of course. We’ve still had our ups and downs and it’s very obvious that we’d never work dating but we make great friends. It helps that her husband is a great guy and very cool with our friendship. Now, the girls I’ve dated in the past haven’t always been cool with me being friends with an ex, but that’s just because I seem to date catty, insecure women. Maybe that’s all females, I don’t know. All I know is that I’ve had some degree of pushback from everyone I’ve dated about our friendship.
This post was edited on 4/14/18 at 1:21 pm
Posted by L1C4
The Ville
Member since Aug 2017
13258 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:25 pm to
Have 2 ex's. Hope I never see them again.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8193 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:30 pm to
frick no. My ex-wife is taking up oxygen a beagle could be breathing. As a matter of fact, the only reason she IS breathing is because she isn’t worth me spending the rest of my life in prison.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20275 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:32 pm to
I am still very good friends with two ex-girlfriends.

Have not explained this to my new girlfriend yet though....
Posted by Tigerdev
Member since Feb 2013
12287 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:43 pm to
No. But to be honest I can't be friends with attractive women. I know myself.
Posted by cj35
Member since Jan 2014
6153 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 1:44 pm to
ex-wives/girlfriends to friends with benefits? yes, plenty
This post was edited on 4/14/18 at 1:45 pm
Posted by AA77
Member since Jan 2016
3797 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 2:20 pm to
Friends with only one of my ex gfs she ended up marrying a friend of mine. We dated in college, she's about the only one of my exs that I still have contact with regularly, but I'm friendly with the rest when I bump into them.
Posted by stuntman
Florida
Member since Jan 2013
9124 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 2:31 pm to
Not friends, but an ex gf of mine still calls/texts me every year for my birthday.

This is 8 years in a row now. Kinda strange, to say the least.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9674 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 3:14 pm to
Very civil with my ex. We have 1 child. It makes life much easier. I look at friends who always fight with their ex over kids and I thank Heaven we get along. Plus, like mikelbr said, we have bday parties, sporting events etc... we all sat together at a Volleyball game this morning. It works.
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
1524 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 4:26 pm to
Nope. One ex with a kid between us. I view her as a coworker I can't stand, but have to do my best to get along with her for the sake of the team (our daughter). I'm counting down the years to when I don't have to deal with her at all anymore. Only 10 more years to go!
Posted by WinnPtiger
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2011
23923 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 4:42 pm to
it sounds like your friend is still tagging his ex
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2514 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 4:42 pm to
I have no desire to stay in contact with any of my exes.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 4:49 pm to
I am friends with all my exes (except one) but am still close to my stepgirls and grans by them

While in a marriage I also made a point to create friendships with their ex-wives. It was based upon communication and respect our mutual love of the kids/grandkids.

Hewever, in my current relationship, my guy was married to a psycho goldigger. So there will be no friendship there nor will her children (my guys stepkids) ever be welcome in my house. Their loss
Posted by austintigerdad
Llano County, TX
Member since Nov 2010
1884 posts
Posted on 4/14/18 at 4:57 pm to
Family member in the clergy who counsels a crap load of fighting couples gave me the correct advice early-on.

1. If you can include your current woman in everything you do and communicate with the ex, you'll probably be OK.

2. If not, stay the hell away from your ex.
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