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Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:27 pm to deltaland
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It's more that I had all these friends and was successful at a young age and lived it up on top of the world and slept with all these women over the years.Now it's like a switch flipped and can't even get someone to answer a phone call. Just feel abandoned. And I got to the point I wanted to settle down seek more in life like start a family. And that won't happen not with my reputation, my decisions as a young wild man have ruined any positive future. I regret it all and feel like an empty shell of a human
Move and start new. Go somewhere and make a new reputation.
I was pretty depressed after my dad passed last year, and like you all of my old friends were married and we didn't hang out a lot, so I moved and have a new group of people I hang out with. We also all travel a lot. It's been great and helped me a ton. My next move is out of the country for a while I think.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:28 pm to deltaland
Coke is serious. Mr. Perfect died from coke and he was perfect.
But I get you man. Honestly I stopped reading at page 3 but sounds like things aren't so bad.
But I get you man. Honestly I stopped reading at page 3 but sounds like things aren't so bad.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:29 pm to CalcuttaTigah
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To me, the challenge of remedying/pushing through all these issues and sticking it to your business parter would be enough for me to get up everyday.
It's not really his fault. Things were running fine until our manager we hired got caught fricking a 12 yr old. We fired him immediately. But vast majority of our cash flow in the company was with contracts with the MS Dept of human services. And we lost a lot of contracts due to that. Only positive is we do have work again to do but we ran out of operating money. Trying to sell shares to gain investment to get going again, I'm not sinking any more money into it or signing on any more loans I've done enough. Hope we get lucky, otherwise it's bankruptcy route
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:32 pm to deltaland
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I'm only 27 and not married no kids. Trying to find a friend to go somewhere with me and my friends are still my friends don't get me wrong I've just reached a point where they all have kids or a wife now.
That's really a Southern thing FYI. Larger cities have tons of people your age and older that are in the same boat as you.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:32 pm to deltaland
I'm right there with you. Most days it is not why...it is why not.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:34 pm to deltaland
Where you live? I’ll do coke with you
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:35 pm to Cosmo
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Think of all the people in 3rd world shithole countries
Yeah but these dudes have never experienced anything besides shite.
If OP was living large and is crashing, that is hard to deal with.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:37 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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Seriously, you could probably go to Coast or Tupelo and get a fresh start. Or if you want to try a larger city, Nashville or Memphis.
I'm in catfish farming for my main career. It's what I love. The business I discussed was just a side thing. I'm stuck in this area because those cities have nothing to offer me on the money level I get doing this. It's all I really know I've done it my whole life because I don't have a college degree I dropped out with 1 year left. All my success came from hard work and going out getting it done using connections I had made.
I'd be lost in a big city tbh.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:38 pm to deltaland
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My line of work won't allow this due to it being a very regional industry. And I'm highly respected in the local business community. I'm on numerous committees for local organizations and for my age it's impressive. My work and all that is probably the only thing that keeps me going. I love it
Can all be rebuilt if the business you're in wasn't regional.
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I'd be lost in a big city tbh.
You never know. I went from a small town with a few thousand at most to L.A.
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 11:41 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:41 pm to deltaland
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Some random person, don't know who, paid for my entire 60 dollar tab. Wish I knew who, cause that literally just made my day cause they don't know how much that act of kindness just made me feel. I needed that
Wow. That is crazy and I would take it as a sign that there are good things that can happen to you in any situation. Like I said earlier, there are always people looking to help others out there.
As for your true good friends, tell them how you're feeling and see if you can talk to their wives or maybe send them a text or something telling them you're sorry about how you acted in the past, but you're trying to change some things in your life and miss spending time with your friends. If they don't want to hear it, at least you can feel like you tried something to help the situation.
You said something about needing to find a way to slowly get all of your cash out of your account without being too obvious in case you need to file for bankruptcy due to a business investment not doing well. Your situation isn't as bad as you think. There are people out there with no friends and no money at all. There are people out there that have put blood, sweat and tears into work, built a nice fortune and lost it all due to various circumstances. But those people usually have a good work ethic and find success again. At least you still have money to do what you want and pay the bills.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:41 pm to deltaland
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I'm in catfish farming for my main career. It's what I love.
Move to Vietnam and start farming Basa.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:44 pm to deltaland
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This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 11:54 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 11:44 pm to deltaland
If don't want people to see you as a party animal womanizer than the solution is easy. Stop going to bars every weekend chasing women. Are you even willing to do the complete 180 that it will take to get the desired results you wish for? You need to start going to a church or if you are a non-believer, get heavily involved in some type of charity like Habitat For Humanity. Spend your weekends involved with that stuff instead of pity partying yourself into deeper depression. People will have to see a serious change in your priorities before they feel you have anything in common again. You don't have to be married for this to happen. They and their wives just need to see that Delta is a grown up now who takes on admirable initiatives. Acting like you are still 20 is not something they find in common with you. Within 2 years of doing this, the right woman will probably just fall into your life. But you have to make a decision to do a complete 180 first.
Posted on 1/15/18 at 12:30 am to deltaland
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I lived on top of the world for awhile
problem #1... which follows with
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long time friends won't talk/hangout
then
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lost the girl I dated for years
all of these "problems" are fixable, you just have to man up and take care of yourself instead of letting external factors dictate your life
Posted on 1/15/18 at 12:50 am to deltaland
Most of my long time friends won't talk/hangout anymore.
frick em'
I've lost the girl I dated for years that I wanted to marry.
frick her
I signed off on a new company vehicle for my business partner and co signed the company credit card. Well he basically just stopped working and collection agencies are calling me and I just don't give a frick I'm not paying I can't afford it and I'm not letting them take all the money I've saved from my own hard work.
Doesn't sound like anything you and a good lawyer can't figure out.
I'm at the point I'm just rat holing cash out of my account and blowing it on coke and partying alone
Stop that.
I want to just end it all.
None of this is worth that, man. All of this shite will pass.
I just like everyone around me has been using me all this time
Life lessons. Learn from them and move on.
frick em'
I've lost the girl I dated for years that I wanted to marry.
frick her
I signed off on a new company vehicle for my business partner and co signed the company credit card. Well he basically just stopped working and collection agencies are calling me and I just don't give a frick I'm not paying I can't afford it and I'm not letting them take all the money I've saved from my own hard work.
Doesn't sound like anything you and a good lawyer can't figure out.
I'm at the point I'm just rat holing cash out of my account and blowing it on coke and partying alone
Stop that.
I want to just end it all.
None of this is worth that, man. All of this shite will pass.
I just like everyone around me has been using me all this time
Life lessons. Learn from them and move on.
This post was edited on 1/15/18 at 12:51 am
Posted on 1/15/18 at 12:51 am to Darth_Vader
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I know there have to be people who call you family, who love you. Think of what your death would do to them.
Why did 3 people downvote this? You want him to die?
Posted on 1/15/18 at 12:52 am to SATNIGHTS
I've been looking for a project car. I love mechanic work and I need something to occupy my free time and use up disposable income on something productive.
I want a 67 impala or a 1970 Chevelle but frick they're hard to find in decent shape for a reasonable price
I want a 67 impala or a 1970 Chevelle but frick they're hard to find in decent shape for a reasonable price
Posted on 1/15/18 at 12:58 am to stout
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Larger cities have tons of people your age and older that are in the same boat as you.
Yea but I've visited cities. My style and attitude is straight delta to the core. I don't feel comfortable anywhere else I love it here
Posted on 1/15/18 at 1:05 am to deltaland
seriously dude, I don't think anyone is immune to falling down at some point in life. I've seen even the biggest, most self-assured men get knocked off their high horses all the way down to the bottom over the years. There are some great counselors out there that can clear your head at times when you just can't. Please do yourself a huge favor and seek help. You'll be glad you did This will eventually pass and there's no reason to suffer when there are solutions available. Ending it all is never the right answer... no matter what. Hoping the best for you.
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