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re: You find out your SO cheated in a previous relationship

Posted on 10/24/17 at 8:41 pm to
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36247 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 8:41 pm to
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mostbesttigerfanever



“How about you stop being such a f****t.”
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30636 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 8:43 pm to
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Once a cheater probably always will be 


Always is strong, but I would think it would be more likely than someone who never had cheated. Never understood guys that seriously date women they cheated with. One of my best friends married one of them.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9209 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:08 pm to
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters


People are still pretty stupid at 22, so I wouldn't give this one alot of weight if she is solid now.

The only concern would be if this is one of those "tip of the iceberg" deals where there are alot more cards that can fall out of that deck.

You could show no judgment on it whatsoever and give it a little time. Then open up more conversation about it. Make it cool to talk about and see where it leads you. You might get a glimpse of the whole picture then. Then you can make a decision on the long term possibilities with her.
This post was edited on 10/24/17 at 9:17 pm
Posted by Hoovertigah
Fayetteville
Member since Sep 2013
3064 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:14 pm to
My hs girlfriend cheated on her boyfriend with me and I cheated on my girlfriend with her... we ended up together and we got married 3 years later and have been married for almost 23 years. We never cheated again. Ever.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75392 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:15 pm to
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We never cheated again. Ever.


That you know of
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25467 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:17 pm to
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She’s probably only telling you this because she’s already cheating on you. There’s no reason for her to tell you something like that

Yep, she's just greasing the skids.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
19837 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:21 pm to
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She’s probably only telling you this because she’s already cheating on you. There’s no reason for her to tell you something like that


quote:

Yep, she's just greasing the skids.



Well that settles it, she's a cheating hoe.. Coax her into anal and leave.
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:33 pm to
If my multi year gf told me this (married now), I would seriously consider ending it. And that's coming from someone who typically didn't break up with chicks well after I should have
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19431 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:34 pm to
That depends, How’s her slot?
This post was edited on 10/24/17 at 9:34 pm
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:36 pm to
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My hs girlfriend cheated on her boyfriend with me and I cheated on my girlfriend with her... we ended up together and we got married 3 years later and have been married for almost 23 years. We never cheated again




quote:

Ever.


Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:10 pm to
Would deeply and permanently shake my trust of her pretty much regardless of the circumstances. I would always be looking for possible suspicious circumstances.
Posted by StarSaint
lafayette
Member since Nov 2006
7490 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:22 pm to
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My hs girlfriend cheated on her boyfriend with me and I cheated on my girlfriend with her... we ended up together and we got married 3 years later and have been married for almost 23 years. We never cheated again. Ever.


I'm not sure how to break this to you....
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64677 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:28 pm to
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters


Yeah I wouldn't worry about that too much.

I cheated on a gf in college on spring break. I was 21 and the girl was infinitely better looking than my gf. My gf also kinda sucked and we were just kinda together. I'd never consider cheating on my wife now or when we were dating as I've always cared for her.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15406 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:33 pm to
Shits going around. I know two married people who just found out their husbands were cheating. Shits getting real
This post was edited on 10/24/17 at 10:33 pm
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83862 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:38 pm to
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If she told you after a few years then there's a reason she didn't tell you sooner. Kinda like a check raise, you're fricked.
Posted by CCTider
Member since Dec 2014
24260 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:39 pm to
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters


I wouldn't hold that against someone in their early 20s, a decade later.

Though cheating is a weird thing. Men are more angry about a woman having sex with another man. Women tend to be less upset about a one night stand, than being cheated on emotionally. I've known several that said they could deal with their man getting laid on a business trip. But if they're forming a relationship with another woman, even without sex having occurred yet, it would be more hurtfulb to them.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8264 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:10 pm to
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Never understood guys that seriously date women they cheated with. One of my best friends married one of them.

Been there, done that. Learned the hard way that my dick ain’t nothing special.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:41 pm to
The part that's interesting is her claim she didnt really like him (guy she cheated on) although they were together a year.
Posted by GarmischTiger
Humboldt County
Member since Mar 2007
6623 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:48 pm to
You poor bastard.

Cut your losses.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47607 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:55 pm to
No cheaters. Geez, she wasn’t married and cheated? That’s worse.
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