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What are the biggest sacrifices you have had to make as a parent?

Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:18 pm
Posted by FishinTygah84
LA
Member since Dec 2013
1993 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:18 pm
Was talking about it yesterday with a buddy of mine. We hardly get to play golf anymore since our kids have come. Said kids are 3 and under

I'd say ours (mine and my wife's (no pics)) would be:

-personal space
-a clean house
-a clean vehicle
-time at the fishing camp.
-time on a golf course
Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:19 pm to
money
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
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Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:19 pm to
quote:

What are the biggest sacrifices you have had to make as a parent?


That first child, but Moloch demands satisfaction.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:19 pm to
Wife's vagina
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17630 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:20 pm to
So let me get this straight - this is a thread complaining about losing the things you used to do because of children? Really?

Kids are the greatest gift one could have. It takes a short-sighted, narrow mind to complain that one's golf time is not as much as before because you have to take care of the kids. Good grief.

I'm a single Dad with no time to do the things and that doesn't bother me one bit. I prefer it this way. Some people.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18819 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:20 pm to
Time for your own stuff. I used to camp and do a lot out of recreational sports (softball, basketball, kayaking). It'll get better once they get older and I can introduce them to that stuff
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
36248 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:20 pm to
Not being a child any longer
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58567 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:21 pm to
$14k a year to send two to private schools hurts my wallet
Posted by StealthCalais11
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Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:22 pm to
I'd imagine the biggest is that your life would now come second to your child's. Hence why I don't have one yet - I'm too damned selfish
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
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99877 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:22 pm to
money
Posted by TheBaker
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2004
4360 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:23 pm to
Honestly nothing. A lot of those things I used to look forward to I'd easily much rather spend with my daughter. Watching her growing up is the best thing I've ever experienced.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30805 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:25 pm to
Money
Vagina
Wife's sanity
Quiet

Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:32 pm to
Financing abortions
Posted by El Magnifico
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Member since Jan 2014
7017 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:39 pm to
Time and money. Money I can regenerate. Time, not so much
Posted by PeterPeterP
Member since Jan 2013
781 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:40 pm to
Your entire life before you had kids. No more traveling whenever you want, no more sleeping like before you had kids (EVER), house is a constant mess that has to be cleaned, furniture is drawn on, things get hidden, quietness (doesn't exist with kids), watching what you want on TV when they are in the room, etc. But I wouldn't change it for the world.
Posted by ccomeaux
LA
Member since Jan 2010
8184 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:42 pm to
I wouldn't call anything I give up a sacrifice but as the parent of 4 with one being special needs, I have zero personal time. I think it's pretty normal for parents to give up anything that isn't central to the family while kids are in their formative years... at least that's what you should do if you want them to be wall adjusted adults.
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:45 pm to
At the time I said it was a sacrific but changing careers from something I wanted to be doing to a career that is better financially and time. So, I thought it wasn’t fair to me but in the end it’s been a great choice.

Everything else was expected.

I lived a very selfish lifestyle for 10 years, the least I can do now is sacrific some things.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18074 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:48 pm to
Quiet evenings with my wife

Money

Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48887 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

-a clean house -a clean vehicle


These are not sacrifices-these are laziness.

I sold my camp on the coast and the boat when mine were young because it was hard to get them all wanting to go and out in a boat all day since my wife fishes as well. Not really a sacrifice as I had it for years and it was time to move on anyway and I still fish when I want.

Money but that is just part of it too so I really can't say anything is an actual sacrifice-just change of habits as most of us do as we get older anyway. I gave up golf not for kids but because it was taking 5 hours to get a round in and I never have that kind of time.
Posted by arkiebrian
NWA
Member since Nov 2006
4167 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 1:04 pm to
Not moving away from this hell hole.
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