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re: Article: "Rethinking monogamy today" about how non-monogamy could be healthy

Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:40 pm to
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9055 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:40 pm to
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Monogamy is the most natural thing on this planet.


If we're being brutally honest, no it's not. It's very unnatural.

However, because it is "unnatural" is what makes it a practice which civilized human beings engage in.

As an earlier poster said, wearing clothes and using technology is also unnatural.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 1:43 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
56034 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:41 pm to
Seriously, when will people open their eyes?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425838 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

However, because it is "unnatural" is what makes it a practice which civilized human beings engage in.

As an earlier poster said, wearing clothes is using technology is also unnatural.


Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66187 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:42 pm to

Young men and women today should not grow into adults believing it's okay to hop from swipe to swipe.

There is a deterioration of societal norms we are losing in so many areas and quite frankly, this is one at the top of the list. Fighting against all the new SJW Wars while ignoring how to mentor a new generation all your own is irresponsible.

Dad rant [on pause]
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55558 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:42 pm to
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Seriously, when will people open their eyes?



Someone important will have to frame the question.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124976 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:43 pm to
Yeah, that's why every type of non-traditional relationship is constantly shoved down our collective throats by the media.

It's why TV demographics don't reflect real world ones.

And it's working TBH.

Posted by bountyhunter
North of Houston a bit
Member since Mar 2012
6367 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:44 pm to
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I was a little bit surprised to see it front page on cnn.com.

I'm not. They already frick as many people as possible.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55558 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

Young men and women today should not grow into adults believing it's okay to hop from swipe to swipe.



I am very guilty of this. I know it's not a good thing and doesn't lead to any kind of productivity besides getting my dick wet, but then again I haven't been with anyone whom I feel is worth sticking around for (and that's probably because she's been dicked down too much). It's a vicious feedback cycle.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425838 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

Young men and women today should not grow into adults believing it's okay to hop from swipe to swipe.

There is a deterioration of societal norms we are losing in so many areas and quite frankly, this is one at the top of the list. Fighting against all the new SJW Wars while ignoring how to mentor a new generation all your own is irresponsible.


this is pretty impossible and the college male:female imbalance is going to keep it going heavily
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35584 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:46 pm to
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if you want to let other men bang your wife then dont be married any more or at all period

But if I'm not married how are other guys gonna bang my wife?
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:47 pm to
And people wonder why I say I would never enter a relationship or marry a woman with a high partner count

Because the more dicks a woman sees the less likely she will be able to bond to a partner. Ever heard of the thousand cock stare

I get shite on here on the OT because I "won't man up" and "make a slut my girlfriend or wife". No thanks
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51522 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:47 pm to
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quote:
've found that some may feel committed to each other yet still feel they have fundamental differences in sexual interests or desires


quote:

Um, isn't that something you should discuss BEFORE you get married?



Just to add on to this though, I think it is important to experience these things before marriage though, not just discuss.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425838 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:49 pm to
i think there is a balance. motivation plays a big deal

if a woman has a high number of partners b/c she's seeking attention, that's a worry to me. if she's been in a bunch of relationships and is just a sexual person? not a big deal. why it happened matters more to me

my mental requirements are already too high as is
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66187 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:49 pm to
quote:

this is pretty impossible and the college male:female imbalance is going to keep it going heavily


Just because there is an imbalance should not create a give-in mentality. Impulse control is something we all have to carry throughout life in any situation we inevitably face.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124976 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:50 pm to
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I get shite on here on the OT because



Of your presentation. You don't have finesse. You lack any sort of linguistic charm or an ability to work nuance and slowly bring people to your side.

Your style of argument is the equivalent of this.


Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
31963 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:51 pm to
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I think it's fricking stupid to be OK with your wife letting another guy frick her. /thread


unless you are a twisted Hotwife husband......and add kids to that mix. Now, THAT, is fricking pathetic. I guess its a good thing I can't understand that cuckold bullshite.

Yeah. I know of someone. He likes to fondle the idea of his financial prowess but has forsaken his wife and kids. How in the Blue Hell could a real man live with himself? (you know who you are, you pathetic cock roach)


ETA: this is not aimed at Darth...
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 1:54 pm
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111305 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:51 pm to
quote:

Monogamy is the most natural thing on this planet.

Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425838 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:51 pm to
quote:

Just because there is an imbalance should not create a give-in mentality

if you create an environment where males can get many sexual partners with minimal effort, they're going to go for it

especially during such a hormonal and experimental period of our lives
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35584 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:52 pm to
quote:



Of your presentation. You don't have finesse. You lack any sort of linguistic charm or an ability to work nuance and slowly bring people to your side.

I think he mainly gets shite on for the Nazi shite.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55558 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:53 pm to
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I think he mainly gets shite on for the Nazi shite.



Nazification is a slow-drip process. You don't go out launching cappucinos at strangers.
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