OT parents: would you rather catch your HS senior child smoking pot or drinking?

Is the weed or alcohol mine?

Drinking.

I don't have kids but I will let them drink in high school as long as they don't drive.

Don't care if they smoke a little pot but I won't smoke a bowl with my kid.

probably rather catch them smoking

likely pot in most situations. Less of a hazard while driving and much less chance of making very poor decisions.

Drinking, because I let my kids drink at home as seniors in HS. I discouraged weed since it is illegal and could get them in more trouble.

If your child is a senior in HS and doesn't drink you raised a fricking nerd. If that would be a big deal to you lol.

Having two kids in high school, the proliferation of pot in the public high schools is complete. It is easier to get than alcohol.

Both are chemicals that effect brain chemistry and can have adverse effects on developing kids. I'd rather my kids didn't do either of them, but I'm not naive enough to think that they won't. If I had to pick, I think it'd be pot, but in moderation.

And in will fly the marijuana buzzards who have nothing better to do than swoop around all day and bite at people who don't like weed.

I have no children that I am aware of, but in the distant future if I end up reproducing I would far and away rather catch my hypothetical spawn stealing beers from the fridge. There will be no weed in my house, not because I give a shite about what grown adults like to do in their spare time but because I think it's nasty.

I kind of want to catch my son banging his gf. She's cute.