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Terrible 2's: Toddlers Hitting & Throwing Tantrums

Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
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Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm
I've got a two year old that decided to start hitting kids at daycare last week and being put in time out. He's had 3 "bad" days. Never been much trouble until last week when it's like a switch flipped (I don't think he's ever been in time out before). Daycare asked if anything has changed at home or in his routine because it's noticeable that he's being a little shite (nothing has). They say it's normal, but they, like us, are interested to find out why it's happening and what we can do to change it.

Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers? In front of us it's easy. We can talk to him, put him in time out, take away a toy, etc.. To be honest it's never really a problem at home. But no clue how to stop it at daycare. Especially since by the time we can talk with him about it, he has no clue what we're referring to anymore.

I realize OT probably isn't the best place to learn how to raise a kid, but with the degenerates here, I'm sure someone's popped out a little devil.
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 3:04 pm
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43296 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm to
Daycare = Trashy








eta: I'm no help since my kids didn't hit anyone. My nephew used to hit my son though but his parents were/are weak pushovers. (not saying you are, but sometimes that's the problem I imagine).
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Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
7868 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:01 pm to
normal lasts at least into their teens.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13267 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to
Might as well just accept that he's going to be an alcoholic and unemployable drop-out.

Call it a mulligan and make another baby.
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
32249 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to
Beat his arse
Posted by LSU316
Rice and Easy Baby!!!
Member since Nov 2007
29330 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to
Yea 2's suck....basically because of what you said by the time they get home they have no clue what you are talking to them about. You almost just have to depend on the caregiver to take care of this.

If it's still happening at 3 it is easier to talk to them about what happened during the day then.
Posted by iAmBatman
The Batcave
Member since Mar 2011
12382 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to
quote:

Terrible thread titles
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68443 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:03 pm to
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(I don't think he's ever been in time out before).


Exactly. He does what he wants at home and cant do whatever he wants anywhere. He gets in trouble so he lashes out. Classic bad parenting
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
9424 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:05 pm to
Do not waste your time with "talk". Swift action is the only answer. And letting some other kid kick his butt.
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48340 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:06 pm to
Three is worse than two.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85420 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:08 pm to
quote:

Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers? In front of us it's easy. We can talk to him, put him in time out, take away a toy, etc.. To be honest it's never really a problem at home. But no clue how to stop it at daycare. Especially since by the time we can talk with him about it, he has no clue what we're referring to anymore.


Supervised play time with other kids in the evenings or on the weekends may help. Something similar to his daycare makeup if possible, but the point is that he needs to learn to play with kids his age without resorting to hitting him. If he does it while you're casually watching, you can address it immediately. If he doesn't do it, reinforce the positive behavior and tell him that is how you want him to act.

Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
28908 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:09 pm to
quote:

I've got a two year old that decided to start hitting kids at daycare

penitentiary is rough.
Posted by jojothetireguy
Live out in Coconut Grove
Member since Jan 2009
10488 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:12 pm to
Ours is doing the same sort of thing, but instead of hitting, he's biting. It's the same thing with us, he doesn't do it at home and if he does we correct it immediately. The problem with us is he is an only kid, so he has no interaction with kids around his age except at daycare and we don't get to see that.
They all go through these stages and it's frustrating but all we can do is correct him when we see it and teach him right from wrong.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11145 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

Terrible 2's


Haha... 2s are a joke... wait till they hit 3...
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63406 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
My 2.5 year old is an a-hole about half the time these days, but never at daycare. I wish he'd flip it.
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28083 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers?


My oldest went through this but she was on the receiving end. The little shite would bite her. I told her to kick him.
She did and the problem was solved.

Seems to be a phase with kids

terrible two's are nothing compared to the terrible teens
Posted by bnb9433
Member since Jan 2015
13784 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:34 pm to
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Three is worse than two.



this X 1000000000000
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 1:34 pm
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10513 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:02 pm to
Keep him in a kennel all weekend. Worked for ours.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85420 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:07 pm to
quote:

KG6


If you want this thread to hang around you're going to have to change the title to something more descriptive.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
24641 posts
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:30 pm to
I promise 2 is nothing. Wait until 3 years old.
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