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Terrible 2's: Toddlers Hitting & Throwing Tantrums
Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm
Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm
I've got a two year old that decided to start hitting kids at daycare last week and being put in time out. He's had 3 "bad" days. Never been much trouble until last week when it's like a switch flipped (I don't think he's ever been in time out before). Daycare asked if anything has changed at home or in his routine because it's noticeable that he's being a little shite (nothing has). They say it's normal, but they, like us, are interested to find out why it's happening and what we can do to change it.
Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers? In front of us it's easy. We can talk to him, put him in time out, take away a toy, etc.. To be honest it's never really a problem at home. But no clue how to stop it at daycare. Especially since by the time we can talk with him about it, he has no clue what we're referring to anymore.
I realize OT probably isn't the best place to learn how to raise a kid, but with the degenerates here, I'm sure someone's popped out a little devil.
Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers? In front of us it's easy. We can talk to him, put him in time out, take away a toy, etc.. To be honest it's never really a problem at home. But no clue how to stop it at daycare. Especially since by the time we can talk with him about it, he has no clue what we're referring to anymore.
I realize OT probably isn't the best place to learn how to raise a kid, but with the degenerates here, I'm sure someone's popped out a little devil.
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 3:04 pm
Posted on 1/11/17 at 12:59 pm to KG6
Daycare = Trashy
eta: I'm no help since my kids didn't hit anyone. My nephew used to hit my son though but his parents were/are weak pushovers. (not saying you are, but sometimes that's the problem I imagine).
eta: I'm no help since my kids didn't hit anyone. My nephew used to hit my son though but his parents were/are weak pushovers. (not saying you are, but sometimes that's the problem I imagine).
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 1:04 pm
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:01 pm to KG6
normal lasts at least into their teens.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to KG6
Might as well just accept that he's going to be an alcoholic and unemployable drop-out.
Call it a mulligan and make another baby.
Call it a mulligan and make another baby.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:02 pm to KG6
Yea 2's suck....basically because of what you said by the time they get home they have no clue what you are talking to them about. You almost just have to depend on the caregiver to take care of this.
If it's still happening at 3 it is easier to talk to them about what happened during the day then.
If it's still happening at 3 it is easier to talk to them about what happened during the day then.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:03 pm to KG6
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(I don't think he's ever been in time out before).
Exactly. He does what he wants at home and cant do whatever he wants anywhere. He gets in trouble so he lashes out. Classic bad parenting
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:05 pm to KG6
Do not waste your time with "talk". Swift action is the only answer. And letting some other kid kick his butt.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:08 pm to KG6
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Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers? In front of us it's easy. We can talk to him, put him in time out, take away a toy, etc.. To be honest it's never really a problem at home. But no clue how to stop it at daycare. Especially since by the time we can talk with him about it, he has no clue what we're referring to anymore.
Supervised play time with other kids in the evenings or on the weekends may help. Something similar to his daycare makeup if possible, but the point is that he needs to learn to play with kids his age without resorting to hitting him. If he does it while you're casually watching, you can address it immediately. If he doesn't do it, reinforce the positive behavior and tell him that is how you want him to act.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:09 pm to KG6
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I've got a two year old that decided to start hitting kids at daycare
penitentiary is rough.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:12 pm to KG6
Ours is doing the same sort of thing, but instead of hitting, he's biting. It's the same thing with us, he doesn't do it at home and if he does we correct it immediately. The problem with us is he is an only kid, so he has no interaction with kids around his age except at daycare and we don't get to see that.
They all go through these stages and it's frustrating but all we can do is correct him when we see it and teach him right from wrong.
They all go through these stages and it's frustrating but all we can do is correct him when we see it and teach him right from wrong.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:13 pm to KG6
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Terrible 2's
Haha... 2s are a joke... wait till they hit 3...
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:15 pm to KG6
My 2.5 year old is an a-hole about half the time these days, but never at daycare. I wish he'd flip it.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:30 pm to KG6
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Any advice on what you can do? Anyone go through this with their toddlers?
My oldest went through this but she was on the receiving end. The little shite would bite her. I told her to kick him.
She did and the problem was solved.
Seems to be a phase with kids
terrible two's are nothing compared to the terrible teens
Posted on 1/11/17 at 1:34 pm to KG6
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Three is worse than two.
this X 1000000000000
This post was edited on 1/11/17 at 1:34 pm
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:02 pm to KG6
Keep him in a kennel all weekend. Worked for ours.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:07 pm to KG6
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KG6
If you want this thread to hang around you're going to have to change the title to something more descriptive.
Posted on 1/11/17 at 2:30 pm to KG6
I promise 2 is nothing. Wait until 3 years old.
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