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Anyone marry the only person they've slept with?

Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:40 pm
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
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Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:40 pm
Or know someone who has. Do you/they regret it?

I have a friend who is about to get married to the only girl he's had sex with. Sex isn't everything, but you only live one time, and I cannot fathom using that one life to do one of the best things in the world with one person only. Not knowing what else is out there or you could have experienced would be tough.

Anyone in that situation, what's your perspective?

ETA: I'm not saying he shouldn't do it or others shouldn't. Just curious if others in that situation consider that aspect.
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 1:00 pm
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56518 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:41 pm to
I can't marry myself.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
87178 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:41 pm to
If he's happy, wgaf?
Posted by lsugrad35
Jambalaya capital of the world
Member since Feb 2007
3309 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:42 pm to
I'm sure he'll be fine. He's got nothing to compare it to so he doesn't know what he's missing.
Posted by Willie Soileau
Member since Aug 2016
47 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:43 pm to
If she's his only one, she is also the best he's ever had.
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
12950 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:43 pm to
Not a big deal. Some people just don't like to run around with a bunch of different people.

Why get married at all if you can't imagine "doing one of the best things in the world" with one person only?
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 12:45 pm
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:43 pm to
Statistically speaking, the fewer sexual partners you have before marriage the less likely you are to get divorced.
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
64974 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:44 pm to
would you rather a great wife who cooks and cleans and is a good mother and gives you all the sex you want. but she isn't great at it.

or

a bitchy money hungry wife that can't boil water and only gives you incredible sex once a year


which is better?
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
18006 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:44 pm to
I know a guy who did. They were high school sweet hearts. She cheated on him with her crossfit trainer.

He divorced her and went and found some strange.
Posted by Skillet
Member since Aug 2006
113148 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:44 pm to
you only get one chance at that and i failed miserably.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56518 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:44 pm to
quote:

Statistically speaking, the fewer sexual partners you have before marriage the less likely you are to get divorced.



Is this true for both genders? I know it is for women, but I can't recall seeing anything about it for men.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13430 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:44 pm to
quote:

the fewer sexual partners you have before marriage the less likely you are to get divorced.

Aw shite.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
61480 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:45 pm to
i don't know. I think it would be pretty amazing b/c there have been many I wished I never would have slept with.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171949 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:46 pm to
I know a girl who's getting married whose number is above 150. Everytime she gets drunk, she starts crying about how her fiancé never fricks her anymore. If that's not an impending divorce, I don't know what is.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:46 pm to
Who knows, I just made it up anyway.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56518 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:47 pm to
quote:

Who knows, I just made it up anyway.



It's real, I've seen the data. I just can't remember if it was women only, mixed, or if there were data tables for each.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85366 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:47 pm to
quote:

Anyone marry the only person they've slept with?



my wife

quote:

Do they regret it?


probably
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 12:47 pm
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56518 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:48 pm to
quote:

I know a girl who's getting married whose number is above 150.


Jesus Christ on a cracker, who would marry that?
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27422 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:48 pm to
No

I smashed a bunch and now my wife is not as good in the sack as several others so it sucks.

It's like if you didn't know the difference you wouldn't know

It's all the best thing ever though
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
21284 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 12:48 pm to
I did. No regrets.

Having open communication about sexual preferences and curiosities is critical to maintain happiness regardless of how experienced a couple is before marriage.
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