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Married OTers: How much did your wedding cost and did you stay out of debt?

Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:45 am
Posted by PurpGold 14-0
Member since Nov 2012
3801 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:45 am
Backyard shotgun weddings and eloping in Vegas does not count.

Fiance is freaking out about the cost associated with a small wedding (50 guests). I'm chalking it up to her being a woman and that they all freak out during this process. How'd you guys stay out of debt?
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171512 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:45 am to
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How'd you guys stay out of debt?


paying for your own wedding is NF
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
60524 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:46 am to
Weddings are a huge waste of money in my mind. You pay for all these people to come eat and drink and then don't see most of them very often.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38495 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:46 am to
Have no idea what mine cost. Inlaws paid that bill.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
84281 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:46 am to
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How much did your wedding cost


about $8k total, the photog was half the costs

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did you stay out of debt?


of course, I'm not a moron
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28653 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:48 am to
Wife's Dad and Stepdad split the cost for our wedding. So yes, I stayed out of debt, and they each did as well.
Posted by bayoudude
Member since Dec 2007
25169 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:48 am to
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. How'd you guys stay out of debt?


Family paid for it. We got married at a Sandals resort in St. Lucia. We went down just the two of us and got married and spent 5 days down there. When we got back we had a party at her parents house with pirogues of beer and Jackie Clement did jambalaya, fried fish and red beans. The sandals part was around $6k and the party after was about $2500. Still cheaper than the traditional church with reception after thing.
Posted by LasVegasTiger
Idaho
Member since Apr 2008
8164 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:48 am to
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eloping in Vegas does not count.


I don't regret doing this one bit.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
33862 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:48 am to
I stayed out of debt because I didn't pay for it. I guess it was pretty expensive.

This post was edited on 1/30/14 at 9:50 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129104 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:49 am to
13k total (includes everything and our travel costs for our destination wedding).

This post was edited on 1/30/14 at 9:54 am
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
48739 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:49 am to
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How much did your wedding cost


No idea. Her dad paid.Like he's supposed to.

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did you stay out of debt?


From the wedding? Yes. From being married? No.
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
6086 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:49 am to
About 8500. That was 12 years ago. The mother in law insisted on paying since my wife is only child. It worked out great.
Posted by MrPappagiorgio
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2009
41122 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:49 am to
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How'd you guys stay out of debt?


kickass parents/in-laws


When I saw how much it cost I shat bricks



Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
73253 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:50 am to
neither of our families are poor

that helps
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
59295 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:52 am to
I'm guessing everything was about $16,000. This was 15 years ago and I think the prices have more than doubled since then.
Wife's grandmother had savings bond she cashed in for us.

The whole wedding market is a big racket these days. Decent reception halls over over $60 a person. Rings, dress, cakes, flowers, limos, police escort, photographer, flowers, etc, etc.
Unless you are doing a po-dunk community hall with your family cooking, it will cost a small fortune.
Posted by Mrtommorrow1987
Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2008
13244 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:53 am to
250 guests about 60-65 k total my wifes dad paid for everything.
Posted by SippyCup
Gulf Coast
Member since Sep 2008
6260 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:53 am to
Her Mom gave us 10, my parents gave us 10 and we put up 25ish.

NO Debt


Add that to what I paid for the engagement ring and the money board would have a stroke.

edt..the honeymoon to Maui is included in that total.
This post was edited on 1/30/14 at 9:56 am
Posted by SpicyStacy
stout's fave
Member since Aug 2010
13343 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:55 am to
Plantation wedding with 250+ ppl... paid 0... family paid for it
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98083 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 9:56 am to
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How much did your wedding cost

not gonna say

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did you stay out of debt?

of course i did, didn't cost me a dollar
Posted by ehidal1
Chief Boot Knocka
Member since Dec 2007
37205 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 10:01 am to
I would easily elope or do it at a resort. Save yourself (or someone else) the money. It's not worth if just to have pictures to look at.

The hard part is getting the female out of the 'storybook wedding' mindset.
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