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Parents with young kids...how much "work" do you make them do?
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:37 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:37 am
I have a niece and nephew who are who are 9 and 12 and while they're good kids and have normal chores like helping with dishes and cleaning their rooms, I don't think they really do any work around the house like my brother and I used to have to do when we were kids. And I think my brother asks more of them than most parents do of their kids nowadays.
When we were kids, starting around age 7 or so, some of the work we were expected to do included:
- Wash dry and put away the dishes after dinner
- Pick up sticks, cut the grass, and edge the lawn
- Wash the cars inside and out
- Rake the leaves
- Shovel the driveway and walks (including the part at the end where the plow went through
)
- Help put in the dock and boats and take them out
- Help with anything construction related...framing, roofing, staining, etc
- Haul, split, and stack firewood
- Pull ferns from the the woods on our lot (dad thought they housed mosquitoes...we'd get $.01 for every 2 pulled)
While it sucked at the time, it also taught me a lot of lessons I've benefited from in my adult life around having to do hard work, learning how to work and problem solve, doing a good/thorough job (dad would make sure of it), and feeling the pride from accomplishing something. After splitting and stacking a tree's worth of firewood, often in the fall, we'd have frozen pizzas and coke and light a fire, which felt great.
I don't have kids myself but what I see of kids today is that they aren't expected to do these types of things. It's also why I think many kids these days don't know how to work and expect to just show up and be rewarded.
What say you OT, you got your li'l baw and bawettes out there clearing the back 40?
When we were kids, starting around age 7 or so, some of the work we were expected to do included:
- Wash dry and put away the dishes after dinner
- Pick up sticks, cut the grass, and edge the lawn
- Wash the cars inside and out
- Rake the leaves
- Shovel the driveway and walks (including the part at the end where the plow went through
- Help put in the dock and boats and take them out
- Help with anything construction related...framing, roofing, staining, etc
- Haul, split, and stack firewood
- Pull ferns from the the woods on our lot (dad thought they housed mosquitoes...we'd get $.01 for every 2 pulled)
While it sucked at the time, it also taught me a lot of lessons I've benefited from in my adult life around having to do hard work, learning how to work and problem solve, doing a good/thorough job (dad would make sure of it), and feeling the pride from accomplishing something. After splitting and stacking a tree's worth of firewood, often in the fall, we'd have frozen pizzas and coke and light a fire, which felt great.
I don't have kids myself but what I see of kids today is that they aren't expected to do these types of things. It's also why I think many kids these days don't know how to work and expect to just show up and be rewarded.
What say you OT, you got your li'l baw and bawettes out there clearing the back 40?
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 8:52 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:43 am to Chucktown_Badger
Not enough that’s for sure.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:44 am to Chucktown_Badger
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
Did your parents make sure you got your union mandated smoke break at least?
Did your parents make sure you got your union mandated smoke break at least?
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:47 am to Chucktown_Badger
2 Boys 11-12. We make them do house chores without allowance. They should not be paid for doing daily things such as dishes, coffee, clean room etc. Now I do pay them to cut grass (4 acres for $20
) and weed eat around the bamboo on my property which is another $20. We also pay them to wash vehicles, boat, etc. They will randomly sell lemonade on the side of the road and do pretty well during the summer. They are currently saving together for a 4 wheeler with the agreement that I pay half and they pay half. The thought is to make them work for something they will be proud of as long as they have skin in the game.
If they want something, BB gun or whatever, they have to work, save, and use their own $.
P.S. Yes i know 4 acres is a lot
but with my mower it takes 1.5hrs with very little obstructions.
If they want something, BB gun or whatever, they have to work, save, and use their own $.
P.S. Yes i know 4 acres is a lot
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 9:09 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:51 am to TigerFanatic99
quote:
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
I was 9. My mom has home video of us negotiating with my dad to take us fishing if we finished the yard before he got home from work.
A guy gave my dad a riding mower but it died if you stopped so someone had to be on it when you jumped it off and you couldnt touch the break until you were done. We figured out a way to use that thing for two years.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:51 am to TigerFanatic99
quote:
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
My brother was 3 years older than me so I'd pick up the sticks while he was mowing. The edger was not a power one. It had a wheel with teeth on the end that you had to jab down the edge of the sidewalk
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 8:53 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 8:54 am to sonoma8
quote:
The thought is to make them work for something they will be proud of as long as they have skin in the game.
Your kids will lap their competition as they get older.
quote:
They will randomly sell lemonade on the side of the road and do pretty well during the summer.
I'm sure they do this but the key is to not have the ice sitting in the lemonade melting and watering it down.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:11 am to Chucktown_Badger
I came out of the womb with a chainsaw and started pulpwooding at 6 months.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:11 am to Chucktown_Badger
Mine is 6. I make him always pick up his toys at the end of the day, he has to clean his room (although we do help him organize his toys). If i am doing something and i need help, i will ask him to come help. I guess the biggest "chore" he has to do is to clean up after himself and keep his areas clean.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:23 am to Chucktown_Badger
A quarter better bounce off their beds or shite hits the fan.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:33 am to Chucktown_Badger
13 and 7 year old daughters
13 - unload dishwasher and clean cat litter
7 - doesn't really have own chores yet
They both have to maintain their rooms and put up their own clothes. The 7 year old is really good about this. The 13 yr old...not so much
Random "chores" would also include things like picking up sticks, raking, cleaning their bathrooms, etc, but these are not daily things
They would probably have to a lot more around the house if my wife wasn't SAH
13 - unload dishwasher and clean cat litter
7 - doesn't really have own chores yet
They both have to maintain their rooms and put up their own clothes. The 7 year old is really good about this. The 13 yr old...not so much
Random "chores" would also include things like picking up sticks, raking, cleaning their bathrooms, etc, but these are not daily things
They would probably have to a lot more around the house if my wife wasn't SAH
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 9:35 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:41 am to tigafan4life
quote:
Mine is 6. I make him always pick up his toys at the end of the day, he has to clean his room (although we do help him organize his toys).
My son has sons who are three months, just turned two and three and a half. He makes the two older ones clean up their mess before they leave our house. And it is usually a prodigious mess. It’s funny watching him goad that two year old into picking up toys.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:51 am to Chucktown_Badger
Kids at 6 and 4, I just make them pick up after themselves and put their dishes in the sink.
Goal is just to have them respect the house they live in and the people they live with. More things will be introduced as they get older. Just trying to instill a mutual respect for others is our goal.
Goal is just to have them respect the house they live in and the people they live with. More things will be introduced as they get older. Just trying to instill a mutual respect for others is our goal.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:54 am to Boss13
we had 2 girls now 29 and 26. they never lifted a finger around the house.
and the 26 y/o still doesn't.
and the 26 y/o still doesn't.
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 9:58 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:57 am to TigerFanatic99
quote:
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
Did your parents make sure you got your union mandated smoke break at least?
I started cutting grass when I still couldn't reach the top bar. I had to stand in between the bars and push using the middle bar.
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 9:58 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:57 am to TigerFanatic99
quote:
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
Shite baw, definition of children, when I was young, seemed to be "legal slave labor"(I'm kidding). I wasn't running an edger until 9 or 10, but I was pushing a mower at 7.
Edit to say: I started my kids at lawn work about the same age. They had a self-propelled mower to do edge work, but didn't start with the riding mower until 10ish.
This post was edited on 4/24/26 at 9:59 am
Posted on 4/24/26 at 9:59 am to Chucktown_Badger
One my 2 yo twins is a champ. He'll fight you if you try and help him clean up. Picks up after his brothers, collects trash, etc.
Of course, he'll also just randomly open a bottle of anything and pour it out on the floor and then demand you get him supplies to clean it up. So there's that.
Of course, he'll also just randomly open a bottle of anything and pour it out on the floor and then demand you get him supplies to clean it up. So there's that.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 10:00 am to TigerFanatic99
quote:
I call bullshite that you were pushing a push mower and running a edger when you were 7.
My parents’ rule on the mower was age 11.
They pulled a fast one on my brothers and me. Built it up like it was something special like being able to drive.
Couldn't wait until I could mow. Of course, since I was the youngest, the job never got passed on again until I graduated highschool and moved away.
Posted on 4/24/26 at 10:01 am to sonoma8
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2 Boys 11-12. We make them do house chores without allowance. They should not be paid for doing daily things such as dishes, coffee, clean room etc
Depending on how complicated your coffee order is, you probably should at least give them a tip
Posted on 4/24/26 at 10:04 am to Chucktown_Badger
“Pulling ferns”. Somebody got played.
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