Three women on trial for using sex toys on passed out man

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The use of sex toys, lube and mascara by three women on an unconscious drunk man at a “Dirty 30” themed birthday party was put forward as “good-natured fun” by the defence as a jury trial began in the Timaru District Court on Monday.

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Crown prosecutor Callum Mitchelmore said the complainant had drunk too much at his girlfriend’s party, and gone to bed, fully clothed, to sleep it off.

Mitchelmore said the girlfriend, and two of her friends, then wrote “lewd comments” on him with mascara pen, and then used two sex toys, inserting them between his butt cheeks while he was asleep. There was no suggestion of penetration.

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“One squirted lube onto his butt area.”

Mitchelmore said while this was happening, one of the defendants was encouraging what was going on by taking photos and a short video.

“She posted those videos the next morning to a group chat, in which they laughed and joked about the night before.

“She even remarked in response to the photo ‘OMG, we are horrible, laughing face emoji’.”

Mitchelmore said that at one stage, the man’s girlfriend had climbed on top of him, “straddling his buttocks and pretending to ride him like a horse while another defendant filmed the interaction, and they both laughed”.

Further lewd writing and penises were drawn on the man’s back and buttocks.

Mitchelmore said the sex toys were placed, at separate times, between the complainant’s buttocks, one upright, another laying vertically at the top of his pants that were being held partially down.

“All the time this was happening, the complainant was out cold, fast asleep, and in no position to consent to what occurred, nor could anyone have had an honest belief that he was consenting.”

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When the complainant eventually woke up, he became concerned at the wet and sticky substances on his body. His girlfriend “giggled” when asked about it before she showed him some of the photos that had been shared in their group chat.

The relationship ended about two months later, before the man made a complaint.

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The women, all aged 32, and have interim name suppression, each face three charges of indecently assaulting the same man who was passed out on the bed of his girlfriend at the time.

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