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Perspective from four years ago

Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:38 pm
Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
2950 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:38 pm
Four years ago, I was alone in a hotel during Christmas. I didn’t want to live anymore and was court ordered to get alcohol and drug counseling along with other parameters. I had drugs and alcohol for warmth, no friends, only my father would talk to me. I lost my job. Lost my savings and investments,

I went to Louisiana where my father is and went to my first AA meeting. My life changed forever.

I have gained everything I lost back and received much, much more. My life is fulfilled beyond my wildest dreams. If you’re struggling with drugs or alcohol or both, there is hope.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37754 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:40 pm to
Congrats on your success. May you have many more years of it.
Posted by beulahland
Little D'arbonne
Member since Jan 2013
3985 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:40 pm to
You are not alone.
Posted by AZTiger7072
Tucson
Member since Oct 2011
2796 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:40 pm to
It’s that time of year….. I can accept both joy and family and these stories.

Good on you for fighting through and being here today!
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
20231 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:41 pm to
Atta boy
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
168955 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:41 pm to
Keep pushin
Posted by Tic44
Texarkana, Arkansas
Member since May 2015
1861 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:43 pm to
GOD is real. Keep praying and believing.

DO RIGHT and fear not
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37605 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:46 pm to
Amen brother. I have a similar story.
AA saved my life
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Member since Sep 2013
35050 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:47 pm to
Awesome congrats to you and best wishes to keep it rolling. Merry Christmas.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14785 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:55 pm to
quote:

went to Louisiana where my father is and went to my first AA meeting. My life changed forever.


Hell yea bro. Nothing better that sobriety. It sucks at first but things get better as that dust cloud gets cleaned up and the day light comes through
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37228 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:56 pm to
quote:

Nothing better that sobriety.


Eh, I just drink and eat edibles responsibly
Posted by Lexis Dad
Member since Apr 2025
5671 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 9:56 pm to
Congrats on your sobriety and Merry Christmas
Posted by TexasTiger33
United States of America
Member since Feb 2022
14770 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:03 pm to
Congratulations to you and thank you for sharing your story

Merry Christmas
Posted by RandySavage
9 Time Natty Winner
Member since May 2012
34870 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:06 pm to
Congrats brother, Merry Christmas and thank god for your pops
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14785 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:06 pm to
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Mingo Was His NameO


frick off dbag.
Posted by OneSaintsFan
St. George, La
Member since Jan 2009
1842 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:07 pm to
Congrats man! Thats an awesome accomplishment!!
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
889 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:36 pm to
Wish I could give more upvotes
Posted by Floyd Dawg
Silver Creek, GA
Member since Jul 2018
4924 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:40 pm to
My wife (no pics) is 600+ days into her journey and our relationship has never been better. God bless you each day along your journey.
Posted by PGAOLDBAWNevahBroke
Member since Oct 2025
96 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:44 pm to
God bless baw. Humans have an amazing ability to heal and bounce back. Glad your dad was also there for you.

Merry Xmas
Posted by RazorBroncs
Possesses the largest
Member since Sep 2013
15813 posts
Posted on 12/24/25 at 10:56 pm to
quote:

You are not alone.


Definitely not.

I was about 10 seconds away from ending it all on Christmas Eve about a decade ago. Had gun in hand and loaded, safety off and ready to go. Then my phone rang like a miracle, it was my niece who was 5 or 6 at the time calling on her mother's phone to ask if I would be at Christmas the next morning.

At the time I had ostracized myself and vise-versa from my family and hadn't heard from any other member of my family about Christmas plans. After my fiancee died I had turned hard to opioids and was literally homeless, and didn't care to maintain relationships with anyone. My niece and I had a special relationship when she was born to about 5, as my sister had her when she was very young and I spent a lot of time raising her.

10 years later my wife and I just celebrated our 5th anniversary, our beautiful son just turned 3, we have a house we own near the beach full of amazing gifts and that same niece that literally saved my life along with parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, everyone. She doesn't know her impact and probably won't until she's much older, if ever.

The amount of love that's in my heart and life is the most stark contrast to that time imaginable, I never thought I'd be here. Just seeing my son laugh his arse off because he gets to jump on his new trampoline instead of being scolded for jumping on the couch or bed is one of "those" moments.

Merry Christmas everyone, especially those that have been at rock bottom and look around to see they now have everything

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