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PA high school football coach resigns after getting threats from parents

Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:20 pm
Posted by Kinderman
Member since Oct 2023
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Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:20 pm
2A coach in Pennsylvania is 28-6 with two league titles but has a group of players this year who are constantly disrespectful to the coaches. To discipline them, he told the players they wouldn't start the next game.

Parents found out and started making threats to the coach that he'll need security on the sidelines if their kid doesn't play, they slashed his dad's tires, then the school took the side of the parents. So he quit. The AD will coach the rest of the year.

Crazy story.



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According to a story by PennLive, when those players sat longer than they had initially been told for that game, school administrators sided with parents and suspended Sedesse as well as his father, who served as the team's defensive coordinator, for two games.

That, combined with what Stephen Sedesse said were threats made to his family and business and his dad coming out to his truck to tires that had been flatted, added up to a breaking point, and Sedesse submitted his resignation on Monday.

“We had tires flattened the other night, in my dad’s truck. We had a billboard painted with some derogatory words on it, pretty much the same one I used there about abuse and being abusive and stuff like that."

“I decided Monday morning that, if my business is going to get threatened, if my family is going to get threatened - it’s small school football - I don’t need to have that in my life," he told Channel 16 WNEP.

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Posted by MemphisGuy
Germantown, TN
Member since Nov 2023
13282 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:25 pm to
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has a group of players this year who are constantly disrespectful to the coaches. To discipline them, he told the players they wouldn't start the next game.

When I played... they'd of run until they puked every single practice and then run some more. And still not played the next game. And probably got lit up by the coach for good measure.
Posted by InkStainedWretch
Member since Dec 2018
4545 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:34 pm to
I would wager than in your day ... as it was in mine ... parents also would support the coach.

The problem is, it's not back then, it's today when parents think their little angels are incapable of being bad or wrong and are liable to show up with clubs or guns and follow up on threats. I don't blame the guy for bugging out, life is too short for that s**t and I'm sure he'll land on his feet in a better situation.
This post was edited on 10/14/25 at 9:35 pm
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
54535 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:43 pm to
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When I played... they'd of run until they puked every single practice and then run some more.


Always at the first practice, coach was trying to weed out the physically and mentally weak. Complain? 10 more sprints.
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
37924 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 9:47 pm to
If I coached another sport at the school I’d be dipping too. Let the AD coach everything
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
45577 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 10:02 pm to
Dat Delaware Punch NIL ain’t gonna come if junior is riding the pine
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21162 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 10:17 pm to
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has a group of players this year who are constantly disrespectful to the coaches. To discipline them, he told the players they wouldn't start the next game.


Out coach would visit our teachers every Friday and anyone that acted up, didn’t do homework, got sent out of class, etc…. Had to run the gauntlet the next week on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday.


If the behavior continued I 20’s would be added the next week
Posted by PowerTool
The dark side of the road
Member since Dec 2009
22784 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 10:33 pm to
His full resignation letter is at the original local news site:

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“This isn’t the first or last time in Schuylkill County that parents ran out a young coach. We live in a world where parents and children are friends, they lack discipline and when their child tells a coach to “go (f***) themselves,” the parent deflects that behavior on the coach, the coach is the problem. When a coach disciplines their child, they get threatened that if their kid doesn’t start they better have extra security on Friday night. Everybody always makes the statement my kid is a great kid, he wouldn’t act like that. I agree to an extent it is out of the ordinary for certain kids to act out of character but it’s my job to handle it so it doesn’t become an everyday occurrence.

“Football is hard and it’s a team sport. You can’t win with ego, not one player is bigger than the program. If you allow that, you don’t have a program anymore. But add in parent pressure, and in today’s world the kid gets away with it, the parent gets away with it and the coaches get left out to dry.


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I don't blame him with not wanting to put up with that shite for trying to coach a small rural school.
This post was edited on 10/14/25 at 10:35 pm
Posted by mizzoubuckeyeiowa
Member since Nov 2015
38898 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 11:06 pm to
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, it's today when parents think their little angels are incapable of being bad or wrong


The he didn't do nuthin'! Momma generation... Zero accountability starts at the top.
Posted by Jack Ruby
Member since Apr 2014
26297 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 11:12 pm to
Knew a HS baseball coach at a small town in the south. Parents confronted and cornered his family during a game once because their kid wasnt playing. He literally had to leave the game to go get between them because the situations was so bad and they were scaring his young kids and wife.

He left the school right after the season....
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
45677 posts
Posted on 10/14/25 at 11:26 pm to
Who wants to work for an administration like that?
Posted by Downeast12
Member since Jun 2022
873 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 3:53 am to
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Who wants to work for an administration like that?


Exactly my first thought. Congrats, now you’ll never hire an employee actually worth a damn ever again…but at least fat little 5’9 220lb Billy Bob will get to play 3 technique in a 2a game now.
This post was edited on 10/15/25 at 3:57 am
Posted by Stamps74
Member since Nov 2017
1312 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 4:42 am to
Admin looked the coach in the eye and said the grounds for your suspension is you sat the kids too long?

Is there more to the story from the admin side? Seems like a weak reason for a suspension.
Posted by OutOfNames
Member since Dec 2019
1011 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 6:53 am to
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Who wants to work for an administration like that?



Nearly every teacher in America has to, currently.
Posted by ColonelAngus
Huntsville,AL
Member since Aug 2023
765 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 7:14 am to
Ive coached jr & high school football, xc, & track. Dealt with uncle rico parents & bad attitudes. Kids get it from parents
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
7822 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 7:45 am to
Please let him get hired at a rival and then go on a run
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
8865 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 8:01 am to
I remember the only two times my parents got mad at a coach (I'm talking little league/dizzy dean/pop warner so nothing serious) was once during winter baseball our coach called a last minute saturday practice or scrimmage (can't remember which) but it was so last minute that he said it was voluntary.

We had made plans to be out of town so I didn't do it. The next game he benched me (I was the starting catcher so I was confused but sat). When my mom came up and asked I told her why and she went and asked the coach if it was true he said yes....she ask that what I missed was voluntary to confirm it...he said yes. She asked why was i being punished for missing something voluntary. He said because I basically abandoned my team and a real teammate would have shown up. A real consequence would have been me getting kicked off the team. She said that was ridiculous but she went back to the stands.

He was a tough coach but that was excessive for him. Although he did ban water from the dugout one game because we played poorly the previous game and had to earn the right to have water.

Some of the other parents believed that that weekend was either his late daughters birthday or anniversary of her death which he had obviously taken very hard and that's why he went overboard.

The other time was during pop warner during an early season practice I had been moved to a new position and was having problems learning it. So the head coach told me to stand back and watch how to do it....so they were about to run the play when the assistant coaches noticed that I was standing away from the play watching. He lost his absolute shite screaming that I needed to get my arse in on the play grabbing me and pulling me to the line. Somehow he missed a 40 something year old man on the line with a bunch of kids around. Even when the head coach explained to him the situation he still didn't care and was screaming. My mom decided that I wasn't going to play football that year after that. Luckily my dad wasn't at that practice.

Posted by Keltic Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2006
21416 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 8:51 am to
It's not just parents confronting coaches. A good friend, a former upper level high school head coach, said that parents confronting refs has been a growing issue as well. To the extent more & more of the experienced refs are retiring. Leading to all the negatives re the current state of poor refs in college football, basketball, too.
Posted by ChatGPT of LA
Member since Mar 2023
3938 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 8:56 am to
Why even speak to the parents? He's weak...doesnt deserve threats, but hes weak. I would ban the parents from the stadium until written apologies recieved, thru the police department.
Posted by PCRammer
1725 Slough Avenue in Scranton, PA
Member since Jan 2014
1770 posts
Posted on 10/15/25 at 8:57 am to
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it's today when parents think their little angels are incapable of being bad or wrong

Had this battle with my wife and our son during his Sr HS year on the basketball team. Son was usually the first off the bench and would play about half the game. Then there would be games throughout the season where he would not play for a single second, for a few games at a time. Wife was always pissed at the coach and wanted to say something but I had to remind her over and over that its most likely something our son was/wasn't doing at practice...but according to him he didnt du nuffin :) I know better than that. We never said anything to the coach nor did i even ask him as a father what my son was doing to get benched. That was between the coach and my boy. By the end of the year it had all worked out and he got back to playing about half the game. But if the wife would have had free reign she would have probably gotten our son benched the rest of the year.
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