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Fellow divorcees...did you know that your marriage was over, or were you blindsided?
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:55 am
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:55 am
I figured mine was pretty much over but her having sex with guys behind my back sealed the deal. 

Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:56 am to Jenious
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but her having sex with guys
At the same time?
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:57 am to Saskwatch
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At the same time?
Anything is possible at this point.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:58 am to redneck
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pics and phone number?
She's...hefty now and in a relationship.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:58 am to Jenious
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her having sex with guys behind my back
Should have turned around.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:59 am to Jenious
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She's...hefty now and in a relationship.
"If she cheats with you, you'll cheat on you."
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:00 am to Jenious
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and in a relationship.
Well given her past history, it's more likely she'll be dtf while she's in one.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:05 am to Jenious
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She's...hefty now
We talking Sarah huckabee thick or Melissa McCarthy fat?
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:06 am to Jenious
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She's...hefty now and in a relationship.
She was in a relationship then. That shouldn't matter now.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:07 am to Jenious
I’ll admit to being blindsided. We were working through some stuff, but getting served papers after 25 or so years of marriage and 7 kids was a shocker.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:09 am to Jenious
We were having issues but did not realize how bad. She told me as I was leaving the house to get a colonoscopy…true story
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:10 am to Jenious
Gradually. And then SUDDENLY all at once. It was both shocking and inevitable. Completely unexpected and yet intuitively felt. Unthinkable and yet completely obvious. A tragedy and a Godsend. For both of us- all of that and much more, what 30 years from being adventurous kids to raising a beautiful family would be. It will always be a tragedy, a romantic comedy, a drama, a suspense, a horror film. Everything. Every human emotion and experience and virtue and sin. That’s what happens when two people who deeply love and build decide to be unloving and destroy. Divorce is EVERYTHING.
Edited for proper OT response: Unexpected. I found my wife Crystal in bed with my boss and his sons and three Los Angeles Lakers and killed them all with raw fury and some weaponized truck nuts. Ain’t nothing but a thing…
Edited for proper OT response: Unexpected. I found my wife Crystal in bed with my boss and his sons and three Los Angeles Lakers and killed them all with raw fury and some weaponized truck nuts. Ain’t nothing but a thing…
This post was edited on 8/13/24 at 12:17 pm
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:12 am to Lsupimp
You’re glorifying it too much
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:13 am to Jenious
Blindsided.
- Went to work at 8am.
- neighbor called me at 9 saying there was a moving truck in my driveway.
- called the house, wife said she didn't see the moving truck
- called neighbor to see if she was sure - she replied YES
- 9:30 i get to my house
- wife gone and all her shite is gone
- hadn't seen the bitch since
- Went to work at 8am.
- neighbor called me at 9 saying there was a moving truck in my driveway.
- called the house, wife said she didn't see the moving truck
- called neighbor to see if she was sure - she replied YES
- 9:30 i get to my house
- wife gone and all her shite is gone
- hadn't seen the bitch since
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:13 am to Jenious
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were you blindsided?
I was blindsided. Came home and found a note on the door "tired of living for everyone else, want to live for me". Opened the door to an empty house and bank account. Told that story on here a few times.
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:14 am to Jenious
A friend of mine figured it out when upon returning home from a business trip everything was removed from the house.
And I mean everything... Ceiling fans, cabinet hardware, even the light bulbs were gone!
And I mean everything... Ceiling fans, cabinet hardware, even the light bulbs were gone!

Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:15 am to Jack Daniel
Maybe. Maybe that was just my experience and how I see it a few years down the road in a more forgiving and philosophical way.
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