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Fellow divorcees...did you know that your marriage was over, or were you blindsided?

Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:55 am
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
753 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:55 am
I figured mine was pretty much over but her having sex with guys behind my back sealed the deal.
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
17480 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:56 am to
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but her having sex with guys


At the same time?
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
753 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:57 am to
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At the same time?


Anything is possible at this point.
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
53993 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:57 am to
pics and phone number?
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
753 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:58 am to
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pics and phone number?


She's...hefty now and in a relationship.
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
18193 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:58 am to
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her having sex with guys behind my back


Should have turned around.
Posted by GeauxGoose
Nonya
Member since Dec 2006
2612 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:59 am to
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At the same time?


Posted by KennesawTiger
Your's mom's house
Member since Dec 2006
7617 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 9:59 am to
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She's...hefty now and in a relationship.


"If she cheats with you, you'll cheat on you."
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
41592 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:00 am to
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and in a relationship.


Well given her past history, it's more likely she'll be dtf while she's in one.
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
101682 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:04 am to
Thirty seven?!?
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
7275 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:05 am to
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She's...hefty now


We talking Sarah huckabee thick or Melissa McCarthy fat?
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13071 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:06 am to
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She's...hefty now and in a relationship.


She was in a relationship then. That shouldn't matter now.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
21722 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:07 am to
I’ll admit to being blindsided. We were working through some stuff, but getting served papers after 25 or so years of marriage and 7 kids was a shocker.

Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
4026 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:09 am to
We were having issues but did not realize how bad. She told me as I was leaving the house to get a colonoscopy…true story
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:10 am to
Gradually. And then SUDDENLY all at once. It was both shocking and inevitable. Completely unexpected and yet intuitively felt. Unthinkable and yet completely obvious. A tragedy and a Godsend. For both of us- all of that and much more, what 30 years from being adventurous kids to raising a beautiful family would be. It will always be a tragedy, a romantic comedy, a drama, a suspense, a horror film. Everything. Every human emotion and experience and virtue and sin. That’s what happens when two people who deeply love and build decide to be unloving and destroy. Divorce is EVERYTHING.

Edited for proper OT response: Unexpected. I found my wife Crystal in bed with my boss and his sons and three Los Angeles Lakers and killed them all with raw fury and some weaponized truck nuts. Ain’t nothing but a thing…
This post was edited on 8/13/24 at 12:17 pm
Posted by Jack Daniel
Gold member
Member since Feb 2013
27379 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:12 am to
You’re glorifying it too much
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
10335 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:13 am to
Blindsided.
- Went to work at 8am.
- neighbor called me at 9 saying there was a moving truck in my driveway.
- called the house, wife said she didn't see the moving truck
- called neighbor to see if she was sure - she replied YES
- 9:30 i get to my house
- wife gone and all her shite is gone
- hadn't seen the bitch since
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
130116 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:13 am to
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were you blindsided?


I was blindsided. Came home and found a note on the door "tired of living for everyone else, want to live for me". Opened the door to an empty house and bank account. Told that story on here a few times.
Posted by Woodlands Tigah
Tejas
Member since Mar 2021
850 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:14 am to
A friend of mine figured it out when upon returning home from a business trip everything was removed from the house.

And I mean everything... Ceiling fans, cabinet hardware, even the light bulbs were gone!
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 8/13/24 at 10:15 am to
Maybe. Maybe that was just my experience and how I see it a few years down the road in a more forgiving and philosophical way.
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