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re: Dating as a 40 Year Old Man, How Realistic is it?

Posted on 4/16/24 at 2:34 pm to
Posted by HogPharmer
Member since Jun 2022
1404 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 2:34 pm to
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At 22 she married a 41 year old? How long did you two date before getting married?


Probably 5 years
Posted by TexasHand
Mississippi
Member since Sep 2013
977 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 2:38 pm to
Gym and have fun man…. Live your life and you will have plenty of options. Single women are around ever corner, have fun, live, step out of your comfort zone and your age may just surprise you. Consider it an advantage…. use that advantage and send it! You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19467 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 2:51 pm to
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Where is this happening??


Everywhere I lived, this includes large east coast cities, to the mountain west.

Dating has only gotten easier as I've gotten older. I have more options now than I did at 21.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 2:58 pm to
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If you’re attractive, have money and in shape you can have anything


What if you have none of these?
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34930 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 3:03 pm to
Then you can have cheap hookers
Posted by UCFACTS4LIFE
Member since Sep 2018
823 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:05 pm to
42 nailing a 21 year old life is good for awhile.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
41266 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:19 pm to
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42 nailing a 21 year old life is good for awhile.



It actually sounds horrible......
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
27873 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:29 pm to
Drive to an upper middle class suburb on a Saturday and find the soccer fields

Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48970 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:35 pm to
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It actually sounds horrible......

I can understand older guys finding much younger women more attractive, but I couldn't imagine hanging out with a 21 yr old on a regular basis. Her brain isn't even fully developed yet.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3650 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:42 pm to
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I can understand older guys finding much younger women more attractive, but I couldn't imagine hanging out with a 21 yr old on a regular basis. Her brain isn't even fully developed yet.



Im 45 and neither is mine .
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
34117 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:46 pm to
21 is a good side piece
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48970 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 4:51 pm to
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Im 45 and neither is mine .

I'm 46 and have a daughter almost that age and another one almost 18.

At some point, a current 21 year old might have been in high school with both of them
Posted by tirebiter
7K R&G chile land aka SF
Member since Oct 2006
9345 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 6:33 pm to
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Crazy. I see crazy. She looks like the kind of woman who would douse you with gasoline in the middle of the night then set you on fire because she dreamed you were having an affair on her.


I believe Tom Petty wrote a song about her not coming around anymore...
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39969 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 7:16 pm to
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With all that said, is it really possible for me as a 40 year old man (or any man in their 40s) to meet a decent looking kind woman anymore or am I pretty much done for?

No, it’s not likely you will do well, because you couldn’t make time with a two-bit whore if you had a ten dollar bill. You are a defeatist; beaten before you even started.

The guys I know who are out there are swamped with women.
Posted by Chicageaux85
Midwest
Member since Mar 2019
2 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 7:46 pm to
OP's question was about where to meet women--not about building a career.
Some women work at a hardware store because GUESS WHAT...they'll stumble across more men there than at the book club.
Posted by POTUS2024
Member since Nov 2022
11682 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 7:51 pm to
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Dating as a 40 Year Old Man, How Realistic is it?


Didn't read - you should be crushing it out there.
Posted by Mordecai225
Member since Mar 2017
137 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 8:08 pm to
Get your passport and skedaddle.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30560 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 9:09 pm to
Just have confidence in yourself. The rest will take care of itself.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54794 posts
Posted on 4/16/24 at 9:13 pm to
Checking in page 13 tell me this guy got some poon and find a decent woman?
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
41266 posts
Posted on 4/17/24 at 8:49 am to
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I can understand older guys finding much younger women more attractive, but I couldn't imagine hanging out with a 21 yr old on a regular basis. Her brain isn't even fully developed yet.



I mean sure. A 21 yr old is going to naturally look better than a 40+ yr old, but you have to talk to them too. I can't imagine having any high level conversation with a 20 yr old. Half your age plus seven seems to be a good guideline.
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