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Any of you fellas on the dating sites
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am
Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am to RoosterCogburn585
nobody wants the too available uglies.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:42 am to RoosterCogburn585
Find a woman who knows how dating sites work and have her coach you. There is a learning curve
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:42 am to RoosterCogburn585
When you get that it's usually some ones wife. Don't be Jody
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:43 am to RoosterCogburn585
Those sites are loaded with women with no desire to date. They only want the attention and self-esteem boost.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:43 am to RoosterCogburn585
Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack.
Happy hunting.
Happy hunting.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:44 am to RoosterCogburn585
According to the dating sites' own reports, women swipe left on 95% of the men.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:44 am to RoosterCogburn585
quote:
Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?
Sad to admit I’ve been on them a long time and aside from hookups, never really found anything sustainable mainly bc I’m pretty picky
And here recently I’ve started dating a doctor from one. She’s very picky as well. She’s great and I’m mesmerized at how smart she is. She’s busy through the day saving lives and doing important shite and texts me when she can .
Was getting ready to give up on them but it only takes one. I really like where this is headed with this one .
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to RoosterCogburn585
Bumble was the only one worth a shite. Seemed like classier broads on there. Girls have to talk first, making them feel in control and safer, thus vulnerable


This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:50 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to GuidoVestieri
I would but I like lying to women in person.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to RoosterCogburn585
Years ago it was awesome
Now it's devolved into getting likes to boost esteem with no intention of meeting.
You gotta love the 5'3" fatty with 2 kids saying "If you voted for Trump, swipe right immediately"
Now it's devolved into getting likes to boost esteem with no intention of meeting.
You gotta love the 5'3" fatty with 2 kids saying "If you voted for Trump, swipe right immediately"
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:46 am to WonPercent
quote:tried it once upon a time in 2010 when i was divorced and looking to get back into dating scene.
Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack.
got turned down by at least a dozen 'ok i guess i could make this one work OT3.5' women

asked my OT10 hair dresser out IRL and we were married within 2 years and i've never been happier.
screw the dating sites. try talking to women IRL instead.
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:47 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:46 am to RoosterCogburn585
tell em to cut the BS, and that you make 925k and you're swinging a 7.5 incher, soft, do you want to be Tue or Thur and depending how that goes you might be able to get moved into the weekend rotation
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 11:33 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am to LaBR4
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that you make 325k

you're no OT baw
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am to WonPercent
Im talking about once you get off the app phase and the texting phase. So interested enough to give me their number, but not interested enough to actually converse once they do. Makes no sense.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to RoosterCogburn585
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Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?
Unfortunately, that just means they’re too busy texting the guys they are interested in. Women will drop everything and go anywhere for the man they really want.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to RoosterCogburn585
I had one 18 month relationship from a dating app with a successful and pretty woman. But most of the rest have been smash and dashes.
I don't really use them anymore and just pick up bar skanks for meaningless sex now. It's just as easy.
I don't really use them anymore and just pick up bar skanks for meaningless sex now. It's just as easy.
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to WonPercent
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Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack
I just couldn’t ever bring myself to do this. The girls who are on dating sites are either slutty, weird, screwed up, or a combination of the 3 and usually soft 7’s at best who are looking for a self esteem boost. The whole “impress me with your best line or I’m not responding” thing is so degrading and lame over the quality of women that hang out on dating sites and the quality of conversation you’d have with them IRL.
I’m in the camp that it’s way more fun to pick up a hobby that both men and women can do and hope to organically connect with someone that way. Bars and dating app girls are a waste of time and energy
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:51 am to RoosterCogburn585
They are only too busy for YOU lol
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:52 am to RoosterCogburn585
quote:She is either in a relationship, or into you, but not wanting you. When she messages you, do you reply within a few minutes or hour or two tops? She is either hiding you, or stringing you along. Women have the advantage on these apps and sites. You have to know going in that she has options, you might as well, but she has more options than she can respond too. If you can capture more than just her eye, but her attention as well, you should try and move off the site and to SMS/Facetime/etc before she gets pings with a guy who also caught her eye and might be more engaging with her.
only get a message every few days
Two options, she is already boo'd up and keeping options or looking for some side action. Or you aren't very engaging. If it's the former get out. If it's the latter then I'd probably start to open up my options because you might be able to get her into a conversation and back engaged, but chances are some else already has.
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