Any of you fellas on the dating sites

Find a woman who knows how dating sites work and have her coach you. There is a learning curve

Those sites are loaded with women with no desire to date. They only want the attention and self-esteem boost.

According to the dating sites' own reports, women swipe left on 95% of the men.

Bumble was the only one worth a shite. Seemed like classier broads on there. Girls have to talk first, making them feel in control and safer, thus vulnerable

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Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?

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Unfortunately, that just means they’re too busy texting the guys they are interested in. Women will drop everything and go anywhere for the man they really want.

They are only too busy for YOU lol

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Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?

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She's going on other dates or letting other dudes pipe her then texts you back on days where she didn't have anything scheduled. You need to move from messaging or phone calls to in person as fast as possible. There are 100s of dudes messaging her per day. (Most) Women on dating apps have no interest in texting or talking on the phone for a week before a meetup.

Remember; women on average, find 80% of men to be physically unappealing and are all chasing the same men. They’d rather share a high quality man than hang out with the leftover men. Whereas men are far less discerning . Which means she has already received 27 hits today while you got one. If you are getting slow-played , if there is no genuine urgency, the odds are she is just not that into you. If she likes you, you will know. She won’t be hit or miss, she will set her sites on you and it will be unmistakable and she will be matching you text for text. Remember, you can’t manufacture attraction, it has to be real. Don’t chase what isn’t there.

My unsolicited advice, get off the dating sites.I fell in love with a girl I met on a dating site, but overall I think it it better to meet women organically where your vibe and personality and intelligence and verbal game and playfulness can really shine.

Also, remember the odds go back in your favor once the relationship is established because while she is the sexual gatekeeper, you will be the relationship gatekeeper. You get to decide if the relationship is long term once the connection is genuine and mutual.

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Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?

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Go for a date ASAP on apps. Like, within the first 10 minutes of texting. Spend as little time on the phone as possible before the first date. Write a message that’s funny that stands out, but fits with your personality. Don’t be needy and don’t “care” about the outcome because 95% of these people aren’t worth most of our time anyway.

Mine would be something like this: “(name), I would fight 3 mountain lions in a McDonald’s bathroom for you.” Then some blah blah for a few minutes. Ask her out to drinks and give her a few options for which evenings. If she can’t do it, ask her when she’s free. If she says something boring or non-responsive like “I’ll let you know”… move on, she’s an entitled bitch who already views you as low priority.