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re: Is there anything more pathetic than a Man staying with a Woman that has cheated on him?
Posted on 12/4/23 at 3:59 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Posted on 12/4/23 at 3:59 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
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I only date beautiful women.
It is my goal to never get married.
Not much upside to marriage for men, all risk and no reward.
A person who thinks they can live a lonely existence has truly never been alone.
I wish you the best youngster.
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Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:03 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Georgia is a no-fault state, meaning it doesn't matter what one spouse has done to wrong the other, you're splitting shite up 50/50.
So say a man works for 10-20 years building up his 401k, making all the right financial decisions, etc. and his stay-at-home wife screws around on him. Divorce is the obvious recourse but she walks away with half of his shite, and likely an alimony payment, too!
Personally, there ain't no damn way I'm giving a woman half MY money as a reward for her being a piece of shite. I'd stay married and do what I want. She files? I wouldn't sign.
Legislatures need to fix this sort of shite...it's nearly as bad as paternal rights in matters of custody.
So say a man works for 10-20 years building up his 401k, making all the right financial decisions, etc. and his stay-at-home wife screws around on him. Divorce is the obvious recourse but she walks away with half of his shite, and likely an alimony payment, too!
Personally, there ain't no damn way I'm giving a woman half MY money as a reward for her being a piece of shite. I'd stay married and do what I want. She files? I wouldn't sign.
Legislatures need to fix this sort of shite...it's nearly as bad as paternal rights in matters of custody.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:04 pm to McMahonnequin
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How is it any healthier for your child to live in a home where the 2 adults despise each other? Kids should never be the sole reason to get married nor to remain married
Had a friend go through this. He couldn’t stand the idea of not being with his kids every day but he told me the biggest reason was he couldn’t fathom his kids being around another father figure (boyfriend or stepdad). When you’re helping to raise a kid, you can influence them a lot, good or bad. He said he just couldn’t live knowing some other dude was with his kids half the time. I get it. Fact is, it’s a terrible situation. They are still together and seem happy enough. Would he have been happier leaving? Who knows?
Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:05 pm to WonPercent
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I'd start a bank account on the side that she didn't know about and I'd frick her two best friends to even the score.
Even in a marriage you both 100% trust each other and love each other I'd still recommend a side account. Only your most trusted friend or parent needs to know and thats where it ends.
Just my 2 cents on this.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:07 pm to WonPercent
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I'd start a bank account on the side that she didn't know about
Community property, baw.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:13 pm to mmmmmbeeer
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So say a man works for 10-20 years building up his 401k, making all the right financial decisions, etc. and his stay-at-home wife screws around on him. Divorce is the obvious recourse but she walks away with half of his shite, and likely an alimony payment, too!
Just watched this first hand in 2020.
The one thing I never thought about is all the women who were married before this dual income transition was made. They have no skills.
So while she walked away with half (moron because she let him keep the house) she cannot live the rest of her life on what she was given. I doubt most women could. She has no money management skills, never did any of the work with the bills etc. It was like she was completely unprepared for the world at 55 years old.
The rest of her life will be a struggle.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 4:16 pm to jizzle6609
quote:Unless she looks good. Some 50-60 yr old widower will scoop her up, if so.
The rest of her life will be a struggle.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 5:11 pm to jizzle6609
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women who were married before this dual income transition was made. They have no skills.
I heard this as well from the same friend I mentioned above. Wife has no skills and he knew she would struggle. So he knew she would find another man to make life easier and then his kids have another man in their lives.
I would also think imagining your kids seeing the mom struggling to make a living wage would affect you as well. It would me.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 5:19 pm to McMahonnequin
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Never truly understood the "staying together for the kids" angle. How is it any healthier for your child to live in a home where the 2 adults despise each other? Kids should never be the sole reason to get married nor to remain married
The odds of the ex Mrs shacking up with a pedo aren’t exactly slim these days.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 5:23 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
I won’t knock someone for staying… but it just wouldn’t be in me to be able to pretend I could let that shite slide… couldn’t do it…
Posted on 12/4/23 at 5:44 pm to jizzle6609
quote:apparently you have no idea how that part of the law works.
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I'd start a bank account on the side that she didn't know about and I'd frick her two best friends to even the score.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 6:30 pm to jizzle6609
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A person who thinks they can live a lonely existence has truly never been alone.
They exist. I used to work with a guy… retired military… and after he got a divorce, he swore off marriage or steady girlfriends. He’s lived alone quite comfortably ever since, and seems to prefer it that way. He does what he wants, when he wants. Some guys are just cut in that mold.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 6:47 pm to jizzle6609
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A person who thinks they can live a lonely existence has truly never been alone.
I wish you the best youngster.
I can be in a lifelong monogamous relationship without signing a government contract that forever allows half of my life savings to walk out the door at any minute.
I've seen too many men financially destroyed by divorce.
I'm not signing that contract.
I don't need the U.S. Government's seal of approval to make my relationship real.
Women are more knowledgeable about divorce laws than men, that's why women push for marriage.
That's why so many women refuse to sign prenups, because it's all about the money.
That's why in California so many women file for divorce right after the 10 year mark, because that means alimony for life.
Women know what they're doing, guys are suckers for falling for it.
This post was edited on 12/4/23 at 6:57 pm
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:00 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Some Years ago, Dr Gupta of FOX Morning News made the statement,"Sex outside of marriage should not break up a good marriage".
Good Marriage?
I suppose maybe in his culture they marry for business, not love and commitment.
I once worked with a guy who came from India. He told me, Marriages were arranged by the families and not by romance.
Good Marriage?
I suppose maybe in his culture they marry for business, not love and commitment.
I once worked with a guy who came from India. He told me, Marriages were arranged by the families and not by romance.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:11 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
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I can be in a lifelong monogamous relationship without signing a government contract that forever allows half of my life savings to walk out the door at any minute.
No quality woman is going to be satisfied co-existing in a lifelong relationship with a guy. Too many options and she knows the lifespan of her sexual market value.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:13 pm to shutterspeed
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I can be in a lifelong monogamous relationship without signing a government contract
The gays have been doing it for decades.
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No quality woman is going to be satisfied co-existing in a lifelong relationship with a guy. Too many options and she knows the lifespan of her sexual market value.
If you’re good looking enough and rich enough, of course she will. Sorry you’re ugly and poor.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:15 pm to SixthAndBarone
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If you’re good looking enough and rich enough, of course she will. Sorry you’re ugly and poor.
You're even more naive than the subject of the OP.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:18 pm to TheIndulger
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One day you’ll realize it’s a vapid way to live. You aren’t Leo DiCaprio, you’re just a chode trying to look cool on the internet
Leo doesn't seem like a content person. Ain't no way those bitches like him like that.
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:23 pm to shutterspeed
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No quality woman is going to be satisfied co-existing in a lifelong relationship with a guy. Too many options and she knows the lifespan of her sexual market value.
I've refused to marry women that pushed for marriage & I've never had a woman break up with me.
So much for that theory.
The reason women push for you to sign the marriage contract is for financial security.
She knows that once you sign that contract that she can leave at any time and take half of everything.
Amazes me how many guys cave and sign.
Mostly guys that can't get women and are afraid that they will never get another.
Sad.
I've always said that if she is willing to leave you forever unless you marry her, then obviously you don't mean that much to her and it was all about the money.
This post was edited on 12/4/23 at 8:28 pm
Posted on 12/4/23 at 8:25 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
I did it and it was 100% because of my kids. It’s easy to say oh I would do this or wouldn’t do that but being put in that situation and have your kids begging you to come back it hits differently. Good news is I did finally leave her, best decision of my life but I can see why someone would stay.
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