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re: Did you live with your spouse before marriage? Would you recommend it?
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:17 pm to tiggerthetooth
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:17 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Data shows co-habiting before marriage indicates a higher chance of divorce.
Source?
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Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:18 pm to Thundercles
If dating is anything like it used to be… when you get to that point, you’re spending multiple overnights in a week together. So you get to know what it would be like without actually having to move in together.
It’s nice to have that separate space still where you can have all your stuff the way you want it. So no I would not recommend it, you have the rest of your life to live with them. Play house before you have to
It’s nice to have that separate space still where you can have all your stuff the way you want it. So no I would not recommend it, you have the rest of your life to live with them. Play house before you have to
This post was edited on 11/15/23 at 1:20 pm
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:19 pm to Thundercles
Yes and yes.
It's one thing to date and occasionally stay over at a person's place. It's an entirely different thing when you share where you live.
Something that you may not have noticed or mostly ignored can very quickly become a huge issue when you are actually living together.
Think of it this way; when you were in college did you ever decide to live w/one of your friends and then realize once you did that you really did not like that person at all? The exact same thing can and often does happen when people marry who never lived together.
It's one thing to date and occasionally stay over at a person's place. It's an entirely different thing when you share where you live.
Something that you may not have noticed or mostly ignored can very quickly become a huge issue when you are actually living together.
Think of it this way; when you were in college did you ever decide to live w/one of your friends and then realize once you did that you really did not like that person at all? The exact same thing can and often does happen when people marry who never lived together.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:19 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Data shows co-habiting before marriage indicates a higher chance of divorce.
I would guess because the people who dont live together before marriage are very religious and do not divorce bc they view it as a sin
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:19 pm to Thundercles
Not only did we live together but we lived with other couples
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:20 pm to Thundercles
The sext is great, until you put a ring on it.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:20 pm to Thundercles
yes, but we were engaged, and we did not tell our grandmothers. 
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:21 pm to Thundercles
for 3 years before we got married yes. I would yes - lets you learn about each other that you may not see or figure out just dating.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:21 pm to tgrbaitn08
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Not only did we live together but we lived with other couples
kinky
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:22 pm to Thundercles
No. We barely dated, either. Neither of us had sex prior to marriage.
I feel like that's the "right" (both practically and morally) way to do things.
10 year anniversary is next month.
I feel like that's the "right" (both practically and morally) way to do things.
10 year anniversary is next month.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:23 pm to Thundercles
We lived together before we got married for a few years then once we got married we didn’t live together for a year after we got married.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:24 pm to Thundercles
Living with someone prepares you as well as anything for marriage. Highly recommend.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:25 pm to Thundercles
We lived together pretty quickly after we started dating and married 6 months to the day after our first date
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:25 pm to Thundercles
Yes. I lived with your spouse.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:31 pm to FlyinTiger93
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The sext is great, until you put a ring on it.
Are yall marrying women who hate sex or something?
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:31 pm to Smeg
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Good thing is that he forgives sin, right?
Does he forgive willful, flippant, and unrepentant sin? Romans 6 has a lot to say about this.
This post was edited on 11/15/23 at 1:35 pm
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:32 pm to BengalOnTheBay
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No. We barely dated, either. Neither of us had sex prior to marriage.
I feel like that's the "right" (both practically and morally) way to do things.
10 year anniversary is next month.
Christ. Did your parents pick you guys out for one another, too? Did your wife's family have to offer a dowry?
This post was edited on 11/15/23 at 1:32 pm
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:34 pm to Thundercles
Yes and yes
The old saying “the first year of marriage is the hardest” isn’t accurate anymore if you live with each other before. I firmly believe that saying came about because nobody knew each other’s living habits before they got married. Nowadays you’ve had time to adjust to each other
The old saying “the first year of marriage is the hardest” isn’t accurate anymore if you live with each other before. I firmly believe that saying came about because nobody knew each other’s living habits before they got married. Nowadays you’ve had time to adjust to each other
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:34 pm to mmmmmbeeer
I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first.
Posted on 11/15/23 at 1:36 pm to HillarysITGuy
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Does he forgive willful, flippant, and unrepentant sin? Romans 6 has a lot to say about this.
Im sorry sky daddy, can i come to heaven now?
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