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Crying over the death of a celebrity

Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:49 am
Posted by Geekboy
Member since Jan 2004
5050 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:49 am
This Matthew Perry thing got me thinking again about people that actually boo-hoo over the death of a celebrity.

Let me tell you something, if you are a person that does this…..get help. Trust me when I tell you, there is something wrong with you.

You did not know this person personally. You have zero idea what they are like as a person. You were never in a personal relationship with them. They weren’t family, they weren’t even a friend.

You have friends from the past that have died and you didn’t cry about them. But you cry and sob over someone you don’t know???

If you know someone like this….cut and run immediately! This is an unstable person. This is a very weak person. I would even suggest a person like this is not really in touch with reality.

I get being bummed about certain famous deaths. I got really bummed out when Jimi Hendrix died. I was bummed when Reagan died. I mean really bummed! But did I cry? frick NO! I didn’t know them personally.

There are celebrity deaths that suck and I get feeling a sense of momentary depression and loss because they actually did contribute in a way that made your life more enjoyable……but to act like a loved one in your life died is truly bizarre.

Please, get a fricking grip.

Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
12903 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:51 am to
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Let me tell you something, if you are a person that gets angry when other people show emotion in their own way…..get help. Trust me when I tell you, there is something wrong with you.
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22763 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:51 am to
Don’t tell me what to do before the sun comes up. Matthew was my friend and I’ll cry if I want to. Cry if I want to.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
33838 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:52 am to
Does anyone other than 12 year old girls do this?
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 6:55 am
Posted by ocelot4ark
Dallas, TX
Member since Oct 2009
12458 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:53 am to
Okay boomer
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263331 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:54 am to
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there is something wrong with you.


Posted by heatom2
At the plant, baw.
Member since Nov 2010
12821 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:54 am to
This whole post screams that you are the one who needs therapy.

Why are you so angry about other peoples feelings?

quote:

You have friends from the past that have died and you didn’t cry about them. But you cry and sob over someone you don’t know???


Pure projection.

Lets not pretend like someone crying over a death hurts anyone. They may not be crying specifically over the celebrity's death, it may bring up other memories or just remind us of the fragility of life and the passage of time.

quote:

Please, get a fricking grip.


You first.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64658 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:55 am to
I think those people are just becoming more aware of their own mortality in that moment. That celebrity likely was involved in something they enjoyed greatly when they were younger at a more simple time in their life.
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 6:56 am
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
18905 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:55 am to
What about people who cry over a fictitious character in a movie dying or just having a difficult time? Should they be institutionalized or neutered?
Posted by PrimeTime Money
Houston, Texas, USA
Member since Nov 2012
27351 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:57 am to
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I get being bummed about certain famous deaths. I got really bummed out when Jimi Hendrix died. I was bummed when Reagan died. I mean really bummed!
And when some people are really bummed, they cry.

Why do you think you’re any different just because your emotions were a little different? You clearly said you felt something when those celebs, who you didn’t know, died. So clearly their death had an emotional impact on you whether you actually shed a tear or not.

Get off your high horse.
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 6:59 am
Posted by FlagLake
"Da Ship"
Member since Feb 2006
2352 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:57 am to
I don’t think most people are crying over the death of the actual person. They are crying over the death of a part of their life. Maybe that celeb was in a movie that reminds them of a happier time or an actual loved one that they have lost.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
120032 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:57 am to
I got a lot of downvotes and anger over my comment about the sticky.

I don't get it, but people love their celebrities.
Posted by TheBaker
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2004
4357 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:57 am to
Try this...you worry about you. A lot of people cried when JFK was assassinated, as well as when Elvis died. Just a suggestion as I don't give a $hit, but it may be worth a try.
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 7:00 am
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
14930 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:59 am to
quote:

Let me tell you something, if you are a person that does this…..get help. Trust me when I tell you, there is something wrong with you.



Don't know anyone that does this. What do I win?
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51521 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 6:59 am to
Have you seen someone cry over Perry’s death?
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131581 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:00 am to
Who gave you the authority to be the feelings police?
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38716 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:01 am to
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Let me tell you something, if you are a person that does this…..get help. Trust me when I tell you, there is something wrong with you.


Why should I trust you?

You didn’t even mention Elvis in your diatribe.
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 7:04 am
Posted by FlagLake
"Da Ship"
Member since Feb 2006
2352 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:01 am to
You were alive and old enough to remember Jimi Hendrix dying yet you cuss like a sailor and have the screen name Geekboy on a message board. Seems someone your age would be a little more mature.
Posted by jscrims
Lost
Member since May 2008
3567 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:01 am to
I was sad when Kobe died but mainly because I thought about his daughter dying with him. It made me think about my kids and I choked up about that thought. If that makes me soft, then I’m very doughy.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
55259 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:04 am to
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You did not know this person personally. You have zero idea what they are like as a person. You were never in a personal relationship with them. They weren’t family, they weren’t even a friend.

You have friends from the past that have died and you didn’t cry about them. But you cry and sob over someone you don’t know???


I find the odd at least in the modern generation.

Guy cried when Kobe died but did not want to pay respects to a family member that had passed because they would moss a party.

I find it more commonplace.


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