re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

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I came home to everything she bought in the last 5 years gone. And the kids rooms empty. What did I do? I threw a fricking party. Crawfish boil and chagrgrilled oysters.

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take note TT08, you're doing it wrong Baw

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bullshite! She cheated so any “oh I’m the poor victim” goes right out the window the moment she cheated. There is not a single good excuse for cheating. You are that unhappy….leave the marriage/relationship or go to couples counseling. Don’t become a cheating piece of shite.

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Show me on the imaginary doll where he put it inside the other girl. I’m guessing it was a combination platter involving all 3 holes.

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Good Luck

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Appreciate it. I feel like every day is a “dear diary” at this point. Publicly, I don’t think I give off the depressed vibe. On here, I definitely do. I find it therapeutic.

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I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.

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Stoicism. Look it up and quick being a giant puss.

Also, Eat some meat. Lift some weights. Go for walks. You'll be fine.

Real talk clinch your teeth and punch yourself in the face moderately hard just to feel something.

You’re numb and you’re cratering and that only gets worse unless you snap yourself out of it. Take a personal week and go to a jungle. Go to a beach. Take some time to get yourself out of your normal environment and go engage your senses in something bigger than you and take inventory of your life and what it looks like going forward.

Quit your job. Move somewhere else. You can teach anywhere. Just don’t stay in this rut

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My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.

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You will quickly learn the difference between friends and acquaintances, but even friends don’t want to be around someone who is constantly depressed or bringing everyone down.

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TexasTiger08

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I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.

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Our minds will tell us crazy things that simply aren't true. Most people with idle time on their hands will tend to think more negative than positive.

Do this. Don't quit, even if you fail many times. Focus on the positive and what is going right (yes, you have things going right for you, i.e. you woke up, you're breathing, you have a job, a roof over your head, etc.). We always seem to elevate the negative and discount the positive. You have to bring all your focus to the current and only on things you can control - which is you.

Ask yourself this important question. When you start criticizing yourself for past mistakes or seeing disaster around every corner, ask yourself, “Is there anything I can do right now to change the past or to positively influence the future?” If the answer is yes, do it and take action. If the answer is no, be at peace and let it go. You either have to take action or let it go. Everything else is self-harm.