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re: Beef with girlfriend. Curious to hear from both genders about who's right/wrong.

Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:20 pm to
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
54171 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:20 pm to
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But I'm about to show her the door if she doesn't let it go.


No, you’re not.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
5013 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:20 pm to
Oh great you just conjured up Walt and Tigergurl.
Posted by PillPusher
Gulf Coast
Member since Oct 2009
5721 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:21 pm to
Dude, help your friend move. She’ll have a birthday every year I promise. And she probably won’t even know you’re not there unless someone points it out.
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
27894 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:21 pm to
Which one do you get to sleep with afterwards? Go with that one
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27305 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:21 pm to
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This means that my friend has to move out the same weekend as her sisters party.
I told her that I can't make the party because I'm going to help him move.


Unless one or both of these require several hours of travel each way, why can't you take a break for a couple of hours from helping your friend move to go to the birthday party?

If the only answer to that is "because it's not necessary and I won't feel like dealing with the party after sweating my arse off helping my buddy move", then yeah, you're being unreasonable.
Posted by MasterDigger
Member since Nov 2019
2172 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:22 pm to
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Her sister is turning 21, so I guess that's supposed to make it a big deal.
She won't even remember that you weren't there.
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
16670 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:23 pm to
You chose poorly. A good GF would totally understand your situation. Your friend that you're helping move will be in your life alot longer than her
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
8271 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:23 pm to
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He doesn't have time to line up movers. He just agreed to contract, cash buyers, they want to close asap and occupancy in 7 day


What??

You said the party is in a few weeks, plenty of time to line up movers
Posted by Naked Bootleg
Member since Jul 2021
1863 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:23 pm to
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If you bitch out on a friend you've had for life for your bitch arse girlfriend, just give her your cock and balls in a glass jar now because they ain't yours no more. This is one of those early tone setters..not gonna lie. Eta: her doing this has about 10% to do with you not coming and 90% on whose running shite. If you know, you know.


This, all of this, is the damn truth.
Posted by jbird7
Central FL
Member since Jul 2020
5302 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:25 pm to
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Why can't you do both?


Yeah I don’t see why you couldn’t do both. Help your buddy move during the day and go to the party at night.
Posted by Hateradedrink
Member since May 2023
1346 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:25 pm to
She’s going to bar hop with her sister, get drunk, and cheat on you if you don’t go.

Whether or not you care requires introspection.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108819 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:25 pm to
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But I'm about to show her the door if she doesn't let it go.


Smart man... don't put up with that shite
Posted by Hateradedrink
Member since May 2023
1346 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:26 pm to
This is what an actual man would do.

Suck it up and pull a double.
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
3182 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:26 pm to
I would rather get a root canal than help somebody move. I don’t even move myself.
Posted by Lambchops11
Member since Jul 2013
603 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:26 pm to
Unless you have a history of choosing to do other things over her, you’re in the right.

Need to ask yourself how much you care about her if you’re willing to show her the door so easily.
Posted by 14&Counting
Eugene, OR
Member since Jul 2012
37774 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
Have to side with the girlfriend here. You already told her you would attend and it’s her sisters big 21 birthday so a special occasion that you are blowing off to help your buddy move? Not a good enough excuse.
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
50249 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
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she is just shite testing me, trying to prove she can control me
Posted by pankReb
Defending National Champs Fan
Member since Mar 2009
64821 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
Hire him some movers.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
27305 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
quote:

I would rather get a root canal than help somebody move. I don’t even move myself.


Have done both; would rather have another root canal
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
16046 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:27 pm to
I am a female and I am on your side. Your friend has a time sensitive situation and has helped you before. You can take your girlfriend and her sister to a nice restaurant the next weekend.
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