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re: When should you put your dog down?

Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:18 pm to
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64665 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:18 pm to
You just kinda know. I’ve always tended to make my mind up quick and schedule it maybe a few weeks/months before they hit absolute rock bottom in terms of suffering. I always try to schedule for the next day too. I find that timeframe where you’re waiting to do it worse than the event itself which while extremely sad isn’t as bad because you know your buddy isn’t suffering anymore. You can be there with them like they’ve always been there for you. It’s really the best gift you can give them at that point.

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He falls a lot because of his hip & spine issues


Only you know your dog but if mine start to fall/pace excessively during the night or have trouble laying down that’s pretty much when I’ve always known.
This post was edited on 1/19/22 at 9:24 pm
Posted by Jumpinjack
Member since Oct 2021
6485 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:21 pm to
I can relate. Not my call, but I loved that boy and did everything to make sure he knew that I was going to take care of him. He took care of us and the least I could do was to make his last days knowing that he was priority number one.

Stopped eating on Christmas day a couple of years ago. Carried him upstairs for two years, not a single regret. The last four days we stayed downstairs, thinking he was passing naturally. In the end he needed help, saddest day of my life. Family member that touched everyone to that ever met him.

RIP to the big bear boy
Posted by mytigger
Member since Jan 2008
14864 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:23 pm to
You’ll know when it’s time
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:23 pm to
OweO should have been culled from the herd 4 decades ago
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
11715 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:31 pm to
Our Dane, Thor, was experiencing similar - was 11 years old - and we declined the medication route and put him to sleep. We had similar situation before Thor and waited too long....were not going to repeat.

P.S. Had arranged area rugs to help with balance and loss of bowels...that was a heads-up
This post was edited on 1/19/22 at 9:35 pm
Posted by PhillyTiger90
Member since Dec 2015
10766 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:41 pm to
I’m dreading the day for my lab. He’s 7 but still in great health so I still got some time left with him

Usually the tell tale signs to start getting ready are increased accidents in the house and loss of appetite
Posted by Tigahs24Seven
Communist USA
Member since Nov 2007
12233 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:51 pm to
When he doesn't do dog things...play, walk on a leash, show interest in food...

Had to put my best dog EVER down on New Year's Day..I know how this feels...and how hard it is....
Posted by aTmTexas Dillo
East Texas Lake
Member since Sep 2018
15692 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 9:55 pm to
My vet says your dog will tell you and you will know. I can attest to this with our GRetreiver who did have a terminal condition. We took her to the vet and he felt like he had stabilized her for a while longer. We brought her home and she crashed. As much as we wanted her for some time longer we knew we had to let her go. And we cried. And we let her go the next morning.
Posted by Texas Ram
Member since Sep 2020
1120 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 10:07 pm to
Check out local pet hospice. Don't take him/her to a clinical vet to do it. Make sure they are in your arms and care when it happens.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71710 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 10:33 pm to
If you're asking the question, it's probably time.
Posted by ShermanTxTiger
Broussard, La
Member since Oct 2007
10921 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 10:57 pm to
If you love the dog, you will know when it's time. We said goodbye to our Golden two months ago. It is so hard.

Prayers sent.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37333 posts
Posted on 1/19/22 at 11:10 pm to
Struggling now.

16.5 yr old mutt. Got him 1 no after Katrina when I lost everything. He was 3 months old. He’s been with me through marriage, birth of kids, moves, etc.

He has days where he is full of spirit. But he can’t hold bladder is mostly blind and can’t sleep through night anymore. He’s super anxious and barks at random times of night.

I know it’s time. Honestly biggest fear is being judged by vet that I’m not doing / spending more to prolong his life.

In perfect world he would die at home with me.
This post was edited on 1/19/22 at 11:10 pm
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7367 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 12:18 am to
I’ve got a large dog with hip issues and nerve problems. His vet said he doesn’t have much feeling in his hind legs so pain isn’t an issue. Can walk with some assistance. Still has great appetite. He has some incontinence issues but not really bad. Basically his problems are affecting my quality of life more than his, and I feel he deserves for me to take any reasonable extra steps to compensate for his troubles. But once it’s clear his quality of life is suffering then it’s time to make that call.
Posted by jscrims
Lost
Member since May 2008
3567 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 6:54 am to
My dog just recently had to be put down in October. She was diagnosed last year with a tumor in her lungs and the vet said we will know when it is time. Any cough or weird sound coming from her for the next year made us think it was time.

Then one day, she couldn’t catch her breath and was constantly throwing up. My wife and I looked at each other, with tears in our eyes, and knew it was time. You will know when it is time, trust me.

I’m so sorry for you man. I still tear up 3 months later and don’t know when or if I will ever get over it. My 4 year old daughter just wrote my dog a letter and picture for her to have in heaven yesterday and I about lost it.
Posted by NatalbanyTigerFan
On the water somewhere
Member since Oct 2007
7639 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:06 am to
Whenever he wont stop barking or if he growls at you for no reason.
Posted by sonoma8
Member since Oct 2006
7678 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:08 am to
Put “paging LSUCoyote”, he is the neighborhood serial killer of this board
Posted by titmouse
a tree branch above your car
Member since May 2006
6382 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:09 am to
when he won't lick off the peanut butter no more
Posted by Piebald Panther
Member since Aug 2020
481 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:15 am to
Struggling with mobility to the point of having difficulty doing normal functions is the threshold in my opinion. Once mine started struggling just to stand to eat and became incontinent I knew it was time.

Even having no doubt that it’s time, doesn’t make it one bit easier.
This post was edited on 1/20/22 at 8:16 am
Posted by CHiPs25
ATL
Member since Apr 2014
2913 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:17 am to
When the police show up, they’ll take care of it for you.

In all seriousness, reading all these individual experiences we have all had with putting part of our family down brings tears to me eyes.

I read a quote recently about this exact thing and it said “throughout their life dogs main goal is to make you happy. They wait for you to come home, they wait for you to wake up, they wait for you to take them outside to play. At the end of their life, they look for you for comfort.” Never not be in the same room and not holding your buddy when it’s his time. He has comforted you for 17 years and the lest you can do is be there as his last memory, when it’s time.

I had a puppy that was diagnosed with lymphoma at 4 years old. Four fricking years old is when I lost her. I moved to Florida and left her with my parents so she could continue her treatments. I was 24 years old. For 17 years I have regretted not being there with her at the end. She gave me more joy in those 4 years and my response was to move out of state and not be there with her.
Posted by Mr Breeze
The Lunatic Fringe
Member since Dec 2010
6042 posts
Posted on 1/20/22 at 8:35 am to
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