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re: What would you do if your daughter told you she is now a he and is trans?

Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:26 pm to
Posted by You_R_Here
Member since Mar 2021
345 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:26 pm to
I’m not rewriting my will.
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
25379 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:26 pm to
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I know several kids that are trans that are from solid, southern, Christian, 2-parent households.


I know a couple and neither was a surprise. I don’t know any who were normal in their mid to late teens and suddenly decided to start sucking dick at college.

There are no absolutes but parents can greatly impact the odds.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
84691 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:28 pm to
It existed ppl just feared the societial backlash. Which they should.

Any sexual activity or thought should remain in the bedroom by and between consenting adults. It’s a problem when society tries to normalize the behavior.
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
7285 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:30 pm to
It existed so far on the fringe that you could grow up never hearing about it. Now the children are inundated
Posted by Turbeauxdog
Member since Aug 2004
23721 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:36 pm to
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I know several kids that are trans that are from solid, southern, Christian, 2-parent households.


No, you don't.
Posted by AUstar
Member since Dec 2012
18459 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:39 pm to
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What would you do if your daughter told you she is now a he and is trans?


Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:40 pm to
My daughter in the 4th grade says to me the other day she has a friend who says he's gay but thinks he's just pretending to get attention. She doesn't care that he is gay or not but just thinks it's an act.

Talk to your kids, they'll get it.

Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
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Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:41 pm to
Posted by Turbeauxdog
Member since Aug 2004
23721 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:43 pm to
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She doesn't care that he is gay or not but just thinks it's an act.


Failed parenting
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
7048 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:46 pm to
The reality is that the people on this forum would love and accept their kids.

No one is cutting their kids out of their life or forcing a kid over 18 into therapy.

Younger possibly but doubtful. Just like people on here don't cut out women who have abortions from their life even though they claim it's "murder"

People accept people when they are part of your life and you care for them
Posted by Turbeauxdog
Member since Aug 2004
23721 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:48 pm to
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The reality is that the people on this forum would love and accept their kids. No one is cutting their kids out of their life or forcing a kid over 18 into therapy. Younger possibly but doubtful. Just like people on here don't cut out women who have abortions from their life even though they claim it's "murder" People accept people when they are part of your life and you care for them


Get a straight jacket for this guy.
Posted by Esquire
Chiraq
Member since Apr 2014
13582 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:53 pm to
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Move to a country where traditional values are still cherished and protected.


I hear the Middle East is wonderful this time of year
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
7285 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:53 pm to
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The reality is that the people on this forum would love and accept their kids.
I'm probably not gonna stop loving them. But I consider trannies the ultimate victims of a miserably broken culture. I would feel absolutely failed like I instilled zero grounding, confidence in who she was and this happened because she was so unsure/hateful of who she was, when who she was was an incredible creation of God. I failed God. I would feel tremendous sadness and guilt.
This post was edited on 2/27/23 at 10:55 pm
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
7048 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 10:58 pm to
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I'm probably not gonna stop loving them. But I consider trannies the ultimate victims of a miserably broken culture. I would feel absolutely failed like I instilled zero grounding, confidence in who she was and this happened because she was so unsure/hateful of who she was, when who she was was an incredible creation of God. I failed God. I would feel tremendous sadness and guilt.


No you most likely wouldn't.

You would have your own child that you have known all your life genuinely and honestly tell you they are the gender or non binary human they are.

And most likely - if you aren't a monster - you would help them in their life however you could.

Because it's your kid.
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
7285 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:00 pm to
I would help them by guiding them away from that horrible decision and trying to instill what I failed to.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
49788 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:00 pm to
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Poland?


That’s a good one.

Remember, it’s not just your child. It’s also who your child associates with and, God willing, eventually joins together.

You want to be in a place where the chances of interacting with riff raff are as little as possible.

They need to share your values.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
49788 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:02 pm to
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I hear the Middle East is wonderful this time of year


Pass.
Posted by SammyTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2009
75825 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:10 pm to
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I would say “see ya”. It would be devastating, but keeping zi around would be a slow death.


Conditional love is cool.

Bet you have opinions on schools keeping this information from parents.
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
7285 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:25 pm to
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Bet you have opinions on schools keeping this information from parents.
Pedophiles and groomers are drawn to sex education. It's rife with them. They molest and groom your child preying on their undeveloped mind into a "lifestyle." They don't have to tell you, they own your kids apparently. You just know they specifically target kids from traditional religious households. This is the reality you support. What a monstrous world we live in.
Posted by SammyTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2009
75825 posts
Posted on 2/27/23 at 11:27 pm to
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Pedophiles and groomers are drawn to sex education. It's rife with them. They molest and groom your child preying on their undeveloped mind into a "lifestyle." They don't have to tell you, they own your kids apparently. You just know they specifically target kids from traditional religious households. This is the reality you support. What a monstrous world we live in.


Yeah take your kids to church theh will never get molested there.

I replies To a poster that said they would kick their child out the house. Can’t have that opinion and pretend this is about the well-being of children.
This post was edited on 2/27/23 at 11:28 pm
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