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re: Should conservatives be putting more emphasis on getting married, having children?

Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:14 am to
Posted by Flats
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:14 am to
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That and yeah, they didn’t wanna sit at the damn house all day. So sorry.



Then maybe having kids isn't the best choice. I think it's fine if women want a career, it's fine if they want to stay home and raise a family. If you want to "have it all", it's going to come with some stress. Just like most men's working world, actually.
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
26952 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:15 am to
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So you blame women for wanting to have a career?


You said...

"Gotta have the kids, take care of The kids, have a great marriage and now work too?!"

When you want to complain careers are something you "gotta do". When people offer solutions to that problem, all of a sudden careers are an empowering choice.

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

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And if you haven’t noticed, there are lots of households now that need that double income. It’s the whole reason women started working more.


Incorrect. It wasn't spurred on by economics. Feminism is to blame.

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That and yeah, they didn’t wanna sit at the damn house all day. So sorry.


Sit around all day? I know what you mean but you are not doing yourself any favors.
Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:21 am to
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lots of households now that need that double income


Because women entered the workforce and lowered the pay of men.
Posted by Champagne
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:28 am to
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That and yeah, they didn’t wanna sit at the damn house all day. So sorry.


Subtle brag "I have a house".
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:30 am to
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Im actually a women so I know how this works a little bit ;) I’m married w/ children and love it, but damn it’s tough. I know women who feel that is what they are supposed to do, and it was fed to me my whole life. It’s not a feminist lie, women are handling too much. Gotta have the kids, take care of The kids, have a great marriage and now work too?! The stress is too much for some women and I completely get that. It’s not meant for everyone.



So you think the default should be to forego the family and keep work?
Posted by geauxcoco
Greenville, SC
Member since Apr 2007
12243 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:36 am to
Future divorce? everybody’s situation is different. My husband actually really wanted to be a teacher. And I knew that a decent amount of the financial burden would come on me. And I’ve been able to figure that out. Because I wanted him to be able to do what he wants to do as well. And I really enjoy my business as well. I did have to make a choice when I married him that I would take on a chunk of the financial burden if we wanted to have kids. Which we did. Pretty sure my husband is happy I was willing to make that sacrifice. You don’t know shite is the moral of this story.
Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:39 am to
Posted by White Bear
AT WORK
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:57 am to
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I need to film myself pushing a mower up our backyard slope in 100 degree weather while my wife is inside watching Love Island. My face is so sweaty I can pretend some of it is tears.
Quit being a pussy.
Posted by geauxcoco
Greenville, SC
Member since Apr 2007
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 8:58 am to
I think that every woman should just make that choice on their own. Not every woman should be told they have to do one thing. Let them decide.
Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 9:01 am to
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Let them decide.


OK.

But don't program them that the choice of wife and mother is a bad one.

It's a vital role.
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
26922 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 9:02 am to
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Not every woman should be told they have to do one thing.


Who is telling them what they have to do?

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Let them decide.

I'm pretty sure that happens now, but if they're married I hope the husband is part of that decision.
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 9/1/23 at 9:03 am to
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I think that every woman should just make that choice on their own. Not every woman should be told they have to do one thing. Let them decide.

But then, the man would have to trust the woman enough to allow her to make decisions for herself and the family. frick that. Conservatives don't even want women to be able to vote or make decisions regarding healthcare. You must submit to your man and be his servant. Now!
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
26922 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 9:08 am to
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decisions regarding healthcare.


Kill dem babies!

If women should have unilateral control over whether or not they have a baby, men should have unilateral control over whether or not they want to pay for it. You get pregnant, you let the man know, and if he wants he can have a financial abortion, just like the woman can abort his child without his input. You choose to have the kid you do so without his wallet. This is all about muh rights, correct?
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
26952 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 9:57 am to
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Quit being a pussy.


Study up on irony.
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
Member since Dec 2013
76732 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 10:05 am to
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women are handling too much. Gotta have the kids, take care of The kids, have a great marriage and now work too?!




Moms and wives are the real heroes.
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
26952 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 10:08 am to
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I think that every woman should just make that choice on their own. Not every woman should be told they have to do one thing. Let them decide.


Agreed. Making your own decisions is part of being an adult.

As is accepting the consequences of your decisions...
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
26952 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 10:10 am to
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Conservatives don't even want healthy people who are not draftable to be able to vote or kill babies.


Bit more accurate.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
19097 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 10:36 am to
While I agree with your premise, I can't understand why a young, successful man would potentially subject himself to the whims of our gynocentric legal system.
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
25123 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 10:58 am to
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Its hard not to see this combined with the influx of immigration (illegal and legal) and seeing a complete civilization collapse and takeover.



If our immigration was a strictly merit based policy, it wouldn't be a problem. If we are importing more ghettos like the demprogs want, it will be a major problem.

The left isn't having children so that's good, but they are seducing all children with their toxic nonsense. Conservatives need to create their own schools to shelter their kids from leftist propaganda and coercion.

Yeah, have more kids too.
Posted by AUstar
Member since Dec 2012
19228 posts
Posted on 9/1/23 at 11:00 am to
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Its hard not to see this combined with the influx of immigration (illegal and legal) and seeing a complete civilization collapse and takeover.


This is the left's goal and always has been.
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