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re: Kid who is 180 degrees from you politically
Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:54 pm to BlackHelicopterPilot
Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:54 pm to BlackHelicopterPilot
I ask the question because I am raising my daughter to think for herself. If she ended up agreeing with me on everything because of the way I raised her, then I would consider myself to be a massive failure as a parent.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:56 pm to GAAtty70
Why? Are you a failure as a person? No? Then you should want your kid to act just as you have.
I am just now starting to notice a trend with Dem supporters that came from the same place I did. Same upbringing, surroundings, etc.
All the ones that fricked up their lives early on, are Dems. Why? Because everyone deserves a second chance and who are we to judge? The ones paying for it, that's who.
I am just now starting to notice a trend with Dem supporters that came from the same place I did. Same upbringing, surroundings, etc.
All the ones that fricked up their lives early on, are Dems. Why? Because everyone deserves a second chance and who are we to judge? The ones paying for it, that's who.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:02 pm to Ollieoxenfree99
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Why? Are you a failure as a person? No? Then you should want your kid to act just as you have.
Not at all. But I know people who are liberal who are highly successful as well.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:04 pm to Ollieoxenfree99
Serve as a role model for your kids. Don't rely on someone else raising your own kids. I never had to depend on some coach or anyone else for that matter to raise my sons. Spend time and be involved in their lives and you will have a great influence on them.
This post was edited on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm to GAAtty70
Our son was very progressive in his late teens, early twenties....as was I.
He is more conservative and much better attuned than I am. Always love him, as for liking, hmmmmmmmm. He is a fine young man.
Both girls very grounded, conservatives
He is more conservative and much better attuned than I am. Always love him, as for liking, hmmmmmmmm. He is a fine young man.
Both girls very grounded, conservatives
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm to GAAtty70
Liberal=failure as a person.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:08 pm to Ollieoxenfree99
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Liberal=failure as a person.
The main one I was thinking about is a good friend. I would never vote for him for dog catcher, but by every measure a complete success in life....and a damn fine human.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:11 pm to GAAtty70
Its hard. My father raised two boys...one is a staunch conservative and the other graduated with a poetry degree
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:15 pm to GAAtty70
quote:Only if they make an arse of themselves in one of these ridiculous protests or they sound vacuous in their arguments.
would you be greatly disappointed?
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:22 pm to bhtigerfan
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In summation, I would hate my kid and send them off to military school to break their arse.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:24 pm to GAAtty70
Personally, I'd try to figure out what makes him lean left in his views.
I have friends that I know are good people, but they are staunch Democrats.
But they are also not my kids and I'm not responsible for them.
I have friends that I know are good people, but they are staunch Democrats.
But they are also not my kids and I'm not responsible for them.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:38 pm to Ollieoxenfree99
I'm not conservative enough for my father. He thinks because I disagree with him on the 4th amendment I am left of Bernie.
Keep in mind, if I could get rid of one amendment, the 19th would be a finalist. But my father is a strange, legalistic man who believes any difference is terrible. He's no better than extreme leftists but just on the other side.
Keep in mind, if I could get rid of one amendment, the 19th would be a finalist. But my father is a strange, legalistic man who believes any difference is terrible. He's no better than extreme leftists but just on the other side.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:50 pm to GAAtty70
My father was an old school democrat. He basically just hated all rich people and “the man” because he was never rich and never “the man” although he would never admit that was why. He was too obsessed with virtue signaling and resentment of the success of others to realize that the Democrat Party is really no longer for the hard-working, lower to middle class American at all.
My sister and I, and our husbands, and all the grandchildren, are all conservative and Trump fans.
The last 10 years up until he died a few months ago were very difficult and strained because of his political views. He watched CNN 24/7. We basically couldn’t talk about anything; not because any of us would argue with him but because he always had to blame everything on republicans.
If you mentioned that it rained a lot that day, it was the republicans’ fault because we were all science deniers [forgetting, of course, that amongst his trump-loving progeny were professional degrees, national merit scholars, valedictorians, med school students, etc...]. If you said there was a lot of traffic, it was because the republicans were taking all the money for themselves. There was no innocuous subject we could even talk about because he would somehow turn it into a political issue and mutter comments.
It was very sad.
My sister and I, and our husbands, and all the grandchildren, are all conservative and Trump fans.
The last 10 years up until he died a few months ago were very difficult and strained because of his political views. He watched CNN 24/7. We basically couldn’t talk about anything; not because any of us would argue with him but because he always had to blame everything on republicans.
If you mentioned that it rained a lot that day, it was the republicans’ fault because we were all science deniers [forgetting, of course, that amongst his trump-loving progeny were professional degrees, national merit scholars, valedictorians, med school students, etc...]. If you said there was a lot of traffic, it was because the republicans were taking all the money for themselves. There was no innocuous subject we could even talk about because he would somehow turn it into a political issue and mutter comments.
It was very sad.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:54 pm to GAAtty70
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Would it have an impact on time spent together
I sure hope I’m smarter than to let politics keep me from what little time I have with my kids on this earth. I could spend another 50 plus years with my kids and it still wouldn’t be long enough so no, politics will not impact what precious time I have with my children.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:58 pm to GAAtty70
My child’s voter card came in and she registered Dem. I told her to start paying for her own shite.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:03 pm to GAAtty70
My oldest is going through her bleeding heart phase right now, but she’s fresh out of college at her first job. She’s already shocked at how much of her paycheck the government gets. I can see the attitude shifting.
But she’s my kid. Even if she’s a millennial hippie for the rest of her life, she’s still my kid. We’ll treat each other respectfully.
But she’s my kid. Even if she’s a millennial hippie for the rest of her life, she’s still my kid. We’ll treat each other respectfully.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:23 pm to Squid
Both of my kids are conservatives with a strong work ethic. I'm a conservative, but I never tried to influence them politically. It didn't surprise me though considering no one in my family is a liberal except for my little brothers' daughter (notice I don't call her my niece). She's gay (I have no issue with that), but she's taking hormones and is about to have "the operation". She wants to be called "Jake". I just can't wrap my mind around that kind of illness.
But to answer the OP, I would love my children no matter what, but if they were liberal I'd steer clear of any political talk with them...or else I'd have to have them Clinton'd.
But to answer the OP, I would love my children no matter what, but if they were liberal I'd steer clear of any political talk with them...or else I'd have to have them Clinton'd.
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:33 pm to GAAtty70
I’m a hard right Ted Cruz/Rand Pauler. My sister thinks Bernie is the second coming. My parents are Jeb/Rubio type Republicans. We get along well enough. Except my sister is a giant mooch.
I stopped going to Thanksgiving with my dads’s Folks because my 2 year old heard the N word right after the election. I couldn’t stand almost all of his presidency but I don’t want my kids to learn racist shite at that age.
My kids have asked a lot about Beto signs since they’re everywhere. 8 and 11. I tried to explain how I differ from his opinions strongly but also I arrived at that on my own and how being compassionate as “Christians” or in the name of “fairness” one could agree with Beto on some points. I don’t because I won’t vote for all that “compassion” because it results in higher taxes for my fellow Texans and I don’t feel like I should vote to raise their taxes for my conscience.
I don’t expect them to have the same views. But I do want them to have common sense.
I stopped going to Thanksgiving with my dads’s Folks because my 2 year old heard the N word right after the election. I couldn’t stand almost all of his presidency but I don’t want my kids to learn racist shite at that age.
My kids have asked a lot about Beto signs since they’re everywhere. 8 and 11. I tried to explain how I differ from his opinions strongly but also I arrived at that on my own and how being compassionate as “Christians” or in the name of “fairness” one could agree with Beto on some points. I don’t because I won’t vote for all that “compassion” because it results in higher taxes for my fellow Texans and I don’t feel like I should vote to raise their taxes for my conscience.
I don’t expect them to have the same views. But I do want them to have common sense.
This post was edited on 9/25/18 at 9:37 pm
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:48 pm to GAAtty70
If my kid doesn’t challenge me I will question paternity! 
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:51 pm to CoachChappy
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My brother is a Bernie bro and says Obama wasn’t left enough. I still love him. We don’t talk politics. When he tries to throw comments, I shut him down with the quickness. Mainly with “you still keeping that tax cut money?”
My situation to a tee!
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