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re: Kid who is 180 degrees from you politically

Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:54 pm to
Posted by GAAtty70
Member since Nov 2015
905 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:54 pm to
I ask the question because I am raising my daughter to think for herself. If she ended up agreeing with me on everything because of the way I raised her, then I would consider myself to be a massive failure as a parent.
Posted by Ollieoxenfree99
Member since Aug 2018
7748 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 7:56 pm to
Why? Are you a failure as a person? No? Then you should want your kid to act just as you have.

I am just now starting to notice a trend with Dem supporters that came from the same place I did. Same upbringing, surroundings, etc.

All the ones that fricked up their lives early on, are Dems. Why? Because everyone deserves a second chance and who are we to judge? The ones paying for it, that's who.
Posted by GAAtty70
Member since Nov 2015
905 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:02 pm to
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Why? Are you a failure as a person? No? Then you should want your kid to act just as you have. 


Not at all. But I know people who are liberal who are highly successful as well.
Posted by AU86
Member since Aug 2009
26257 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:04 pm to
Serve as a role model for your kids. Don't rely on someone else raising your own kids. I never had to depend on some coach or anyone else for that matter to raise my sons. Spend time and be involved in their lives and you will have a great influence on them.
This post was edited on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14725 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm to
Our son was very progressive in his late teens, early twenties....as was I.
He is more conservative and much better attuned than I am. Always love him, as for liking, hmmmmmmmm. He is a fine young man.

Both girls very grounded, conservatives
Posted by Ollieoxenfree99
Member since Aug 2018
7748 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:05 pm to
Liberal=failure as a person.
Posted by GAAtty70
Member since Nov 2015
905 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:08 pm to
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Liberal=failure as a person.


The main one I was thinking about is a good friend. I would never vote for him for dog catcher, but by every measure a complete success in life....and a damn fine human.
Posted by ChexMix
Taste the Deliciousness
Member since Apr 2014
25494 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:11 pm to
Its hard. My father raised two boys...one is a staunch conservative and the other graduated with a poetry degree
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78074 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:15 pm to
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would you be greatly disappointed?
Only if they make an arse of themselves in one of these ridiculous protests or they sound vacuous in their arguments.
Posted by Themole
Palatka Florida
Member since Feb 2013
5557 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:22 pm to
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In summation, I would hate my kid and send them off to military school to break their arse.


Posted by Ollieoxenfree99
Member since Aug 2018
7748 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:24 pm to
Personally, I'd try to figure out what makes him lean left in his views.

I have friends that I know are good people, but they are staunch Democrats.

But they are also not my kids and I'm not responsible for them.
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
20391 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:38 pm to
I'm not conservative enough for my father. He thinks because I disagree with him on the 4th amendment I am left of Bernie.

Keep in mind, if I could get rid of one amendment, the 19th would be a finalist. But my father is a strange, legalistic man who believes any difference is terrible. He's no better than extreme leftists but just on the other side.

Posted by amgslg
Member since Jun 2014
385 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:50 pm to
My father was an old school democrat. He basically just hated all rich people and “the man” because he was never rich and never “the man” although he would never admit that was why. He was too obsessed with virtue signaling and resentment of the success of others to realize that the Democrat Party is really no longer for the hard-working, lower to middle class American at all.

My sister and I, and our husbands, and all the grandchildren, are all conservative and Trump fans.

The last 10 years up until he died a few months ago were very difficult and strained because of his political views. He watched CNN 24/7. We basically couldn’t talk about anything; not because any of us would argue with him but because he always had to blame everything on republicans.

If you mentioned that it rained a lot that day, it was the republicans’ fault because we were all science deniers [forgetting, of course, that amongst his trump-loving progeny were professional degrees, national merit scholars, valedictorians, med school students, etc...]. If you said there was a lot of traffic, it was because the republicans were taking all the money for themselves. There was no innocuous subject we could even talk about because he would somehow turn it into a political issue and mutter comments.

It was very sad.
Posted by CajunSoldier225
Member since Aug 2011
8990 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:54 pm to
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Would it have an impact on time spent together


I sure hope I’m smarter than to let politics keep me from what little time I have with my kids on this earth. I could spend another 50 plus years with my kids and it still wouldn’t be long enough so no, politics will not impact what precious time I have with my children.
Posted by CC
Galveztown
Member since Feb 2004
15143 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 8:58 pm to
My child’s voter card came in and she registered Dem. I told her to start paying for her own shite.
Posted by Squid
Goodlettsville
Member since Sep 2006
1343 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:03 pm to
My oldest is going through her bleeding heart phase right now, but she’s fresh out of college at her first job. She’s already shocked at how much of her paycheck the government gets. I can see the attitude shifting.

But she’s my kid. Even if she’s a millennial hippie for the rest of her life, she’s still my kid. We’ll treat each other respectfully.
Posted by TheOtherWhiteMeat
Fort Smith
Member since Nov 2009
20485 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:23 pm to
Both of my kids are conservatives with a strong work ethic. I'm a conservative, but I never tried to influence them politically. It didn't surprise me though considering no one in my family is a liberal except for my little brothers' daughter (notice I don't call her my niece). She's gay (I have no issue with that), but she's taking hormones and is about to have "the operation". She wants to be called "Jake". I just can't wrap my mind around that kind of illness.

But to answer the OP, I would love my children no matter what, but if they were liberal I'd steer clear of any political talk with them...or else I'd have to have them Clinton'd.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31790 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:33 pm to
I’m a hard right Ted Cruz/Rand Pauler. My sister thinks Bernie is the second coming. My parents are Jeb/Rubio type Republicans. We get along well enough. Except my sister is a giant mooch.

I stopped going to Thanksgiving with my dads’s Folks because my 2 year old heard the N word right after the election. I couldn’t stand almost all of his presidency but I don’t want my kids to learn racist shite at that age.

My kids have asked a lot about Beto signs since they’re everywhere. 8 and 11. I tried to explain how I differ from his opinions strongly but also I arrived at that on my own and how being compassionate as “Christians” or in the name of “fairness” one could agree with Beto on some points. I don’t because I won’t vote for all that “compassion” because it results in higher taxes for my fellow Texans and I don’t feel like I should vote to raise their taxes for my conscience.

I don’t expect them to have the same views. But I do want them to have common sense.
This post was edited on 9/25/18 at 9:37 pm
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54755 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:48 pm to
If my kid doesn’t challenge me I will question paternity!
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
20773 posts
Posted on 9/25/18 at 9:51 pm to
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My brother is a Bernie bro and says Obama wasn’t left enough. I still love him. We don’t talk politics. When he tries to throw comments, I shut him down with the quickness. Mainly with “you still keeping that tax cut money?”



My situation to a tee!
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