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Posted on 3/5/20 at 5:35 pm to
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 3/5/20 at 5:35 pm to
Paw Paw had a thing for pecky cypress. Loved finding buried logs and digging them up.

I can't tell you how many times I had to work a comealong for hours as a child.

I'd literally work the lever back and forth until I couldn't move my arms. And then I'd just push back and forth on the comealong.

As a child, I wasn't a fan. I'd give just about anything to have the opportunity again.

My grandfather was a simple man. He never made it past the 4th grade. But he was german to his core. I learned more about physics and the application of force and leverage from him than I've learned in any engineering class. He taught me how to weld, rebuild a motor, drive anything with wheels, a few things without, and countless life lessons.

The most important: laugh freely, treat the respectful with respect, and always offer help.
Posted by Outdoorreb
Member since Oct 2019
2563 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 7:24 pm to
Great thread. Some stories almost bring a tear to my eyes because they hit close to home. I lost my dad when I was in my early 20’s, and I hate that my future kids will never know him.

A little off topic, but the last time I saw and talked to my dad was as we passed each other on the highway. We were talking on the phone, he was headed home and I was head to Orange Beach with friends. We waved at each other, and he called me to talk. I can’t remember if I told him I loved him when we hung up. He passed away 6 hrs later from a massive heart attack. I drove back home and wished like hell I would have stopped him to talk in person instead of on the phone.

You never know when someone’s time is called. It can happen when you least expect it, so don’t live with the regret of not telling a loved one that you love them. It could be your last opportunity.
Posted by Catahoula20LSU
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2011
2119 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 8:13 pm to
Walking out to the duck blind on Catahoula Lake before daylight and the ducks get up in front of you by the thousands. Something I will never forget. My dad loved to duck hunt. I remember killing my first duck that was flying. It was a big old greenhead coming in against the wind. Good times.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29640 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 8:41 pm to
Feeding dead chickens to live alligators on a friend’s property just outside of Zachary, circa 1982.

It was fun as shite and looking back, dumb as shite. It was in a pond and we walked to the edge and threw some chickens in. That bastard could have eaten me whole.
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
14068 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 8:43 pm to
My father became disabled due to a degenerative disease at 42. I was still young and my years fishing and hunting with him were short. 10 or 12.

He still never failed going to his friends camp with me and laying there hurting (his back) just so I could go hunting. His friends would take me, they are pretty much family. He'd stay at the camp but himself waiting our return.

I'm so blessed. It taught me a lot. I deal with a sometimes debilitating issue but I still make it a point to bring the kids camping and outdoors and suck it up. If he could do it then dammit so can I.

He was a fantastic outdoorman. Fish and hunt. Great duck Hunter. Lost his right eye and just picked up shootin left handed. Helps he ambidextrous.

Our last hunt was a marsh down big pasture road. He was wearing his green goose down jacket. Tons of water in the blind. Cold. We killed 13. 9 were green heads. I remember sitting there looking at his silhouette and him asking me what the hell I was looking at and to pay attention if i wanted to kill.

I never did tell him I just wanted to look at him and appreciate everything he did for me and how much I just wanted to enjoy the time with him and could give a frick about killing anything. He hurt so much and I knew how hard life was with him out of work and in constant pain.

Somehow my young self just knew it'd be our last duck hunt I guess..

Sorry for the diatribe. Great thread.

This post was edited on 3/6/20 at 5:34 am
Posted by jgthunt
Walker
Member since Feb 2010
2467 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 8:54 pm to
My dad died when I was 2 months old. My maternal grandfather died when I was 4. My dad's dad was a marine who served in the Pacific. Dude was a hard arse but a good guy. He was in a hunting club in liberty in the 70's til prolly 2000 or so. I remember one time he brought me and my brother for a weekend. I shot a doe with my 30-30 and hit her in the damn head. My brother shot 2 spikes thinking they were does. Cost him $200. Then to top it off I told my grandmother when we got home he stayed up all night playing cards and drank from some shiny thing in his pocket "cuz he was cold". Man he was pissed at us hahaha. Miss that old bastard.
Posted by Ol boy
Member since Oct 2018
2946 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 8:59 pm to
Dad didn’t hunt but my grandfather my moms dad and my uncles his sons would take me like I was their sons.
Best memory is sitting in the floor of a pirogue with my uncle pushed up in the rosceauxes next to my grandpaw. The smell of fresh community coffee just poured waiting on the sun to rise.
I had strict instructions that by all means I would only sit and shoot and only could shoot the ones that landed or were crippled I was 7-8 at the time. I can remember them not bringing me any water to drink and by around 10-11 they would break down and give me a sip of beer like they were trying to keep a prisoner alive lol.
Man I would give 10k dollars to make one more hunt with them two and shoot pooldeuxs on the water and have a sip Budweiser.
Posted by KemoSabe65
70605
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Posted on 3/5/20 at 9:14 pm to
Ya had till Budweiser
Posted by SouthdownsTiger4178
Member since Jun 2018
1951 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 9:16 pm to
Toledo Bend fishing trips with my Dad. We'd usually stay for a week at a RV park lakeside. We'd go bass fishing early every morning, then he'd usually take a siesta and let me take our bass boat out on my own during the day. It was magical. We used to catch so many fish we would use a automated fish cleaning device. It was magical.
Posted by Arbengal
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
3015 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 11:00 pm to
This is probably the greatest thread I have read on TD since joining. I’ll have to get my composure tomorrow before I can join in. Stories so very close to home that I cannot believe it. Thank you all for the fantastic stories. It is why we all love hunting and fishing! People that have done neither just can’t understand it. It’s not their fault, they just haven’t had these priceless experiences.
Posted by MeatHead1313
Member since Aug 2019
183 posts
Posted on 3/5/20 at 11:47 pm to
My Dad was never a big fisherman, and really only enjoyed it while either drinking a bunch with friends or when he was catching. Always heard stories of how many fish they'd catch back in the day while I was growing up. That said, he did take me a few times as a kid which is what helped get me hooked on fishing. Best memory I have is catching my first fish when I was 5. Small sand whiting which we let go. Still remember how happy that catch made me.
Never got to fish with my Dad's Dad unfortunately. He loved it, but growing up just never had the chance. By the time I got my license and was able to go when I want he was suffering from alzheimers too bad to be able to go.
Posted by reds on reds on reds
Birmingham
Member since Sep 2013
4209 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 5:44 am to
Was fishing with my dad and my two younger sisters probably 15 years ago when I was 12ish. He caught a sheepshead and flipped it in the boat and the thing was flopping all over the boat and my sisters were screaming bloody murder and one of them was up on the center console and the other one ended up damn near on top the t top. One of the funniest things I’ve ever seen.
Posted by reds on reds on reds
Birmingham
Member since Sep 2013
4209 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 5:49 am to
Another story I’m just remembering. Was fishing with my grandpa and my dad when I was 10 in my dads boat at the time (21’ Bay Champ with a 250). We were fishing out of hopedale and I got to drive the boat to the spot. We were in Loutre and a bass boat was passing us up and I didn’t like that so I looked over and then hammered down. Almost threw dad and grandpa out the boat. I think my grandpa was more upset I made him spill his coors than anything else.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20512 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 7:19 am to
This isn’t the best actual memory, but it’s the most memorable thing my grandfather ever did for me.

We lived in New Mexico when I was in grade school so my grandfather flew in to make a deer hunt with us, I was about 11. We were crossing a river bed between ridges and I hear my grandfather get excited. I turn around and I had just walked over an indian spear point. This thing was made out of chipped rock obviously and about 4-5 inches long and immaculate. It was huge and awesome especially for a boy of about 11. I asked if I could have it and he told me something appropriate about me missing it and him finding it and it being a lesson to look where you step. I was pretty freaking bummed, and the hunt sucked we didn’t see shite so that’s all I thought about. 3-4 months after the hunt I received a package in the mail, my grandfather had a plaque made for me with his and I’s picture together on the hunt and the spear head on it. It’s in my office today.
Posted by bayou choupique
the banks of bayou choupique
Member since Oct 2014
1818 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 7:40 am to
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I remember the afternoon fishing trips during the summer when I was a kid. Since I was out of school I'd get the boat ready during the day. Rods loaded, trolling motor battery charged, transom saver installed etc. When he got home from work, he'd back up the driveway, I'd hook up the trailer and we'd go. I miss the hell out of fishing with my dad



same thing here. during the summer i was home alone. my dad would tell me about once a week to have everything ready for 3:00. i'd even pull the boat out of the shed with the 4 wheeler so he didn't have to back up too far. 3:10 we were on the road. those summers and fishing during mardi gras as some of my best memories growing up.
Posted by VernonPLSUfan
Leesville, La.
Member since Sep 2007
15876 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 8:20 am to
My father passed after a long bout with cancer when I was 12. Took me fishing a few times, didn't have the patience but did take me duck a few times before he died. After he died my grandfather became my fishing buddy. He loved to fish and even bought a camp on Toledo to the she grin of my grandmother. He lived in DeRidder and would stop at the local sporting goods store there and buy whatever lures the guy behind the counter told him they were biting on. Never once did he show up without a brown bag full of shite we never caught anything on. Once he hired a guide to show him and I how to catch bass on a Texas rig. We would fish and fish with worms but after half hour or so with no luck, back to the tried and true. Top water, spinners, crank baits and the such. Didn't catch a whole lot on those either but a little more action than the slow presentation of worm fishing. Any who, we meet the guide one morning and my Granddad explains our trials and tribulations of fishing plastic and would he help us gravitate to become better worm fishermen. The guide explains he could, but if you want to catch numbers, send your grandson across the street to the bait store and buy a half dozen of these top water baits called "Boy Howdy's". They were a top water bait with two treble hooks a small weight and spinner on the end of the bait. Silver and black. Granddad gives me a twenty and I buy as many as I could. We head out in the guides boat and catch over ten before a thunderstorm run us off the lake around lunch time. So we eat and Granddad takes a nap while the storm passes and meet the guide around 1 back at his boat. We pick up a few here and there, but right about 5 we get into a school or schools and commence to start tearing em up. Five times we all had fish on at the same time, and I caught seven in seven straight casts. Back then 15 was the limit and we were keeping the bigger ones and throwing smaller ones back into the water. We laughed all the back home on our ill fated Texas rig fishing excursion.
Posted by SpillwayRoyalty
Member since Nov 2019
530 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 9:23 am to
I am extremely blessed to still have my father with me and in pretty good health. We still get to enjoy fishing together, but he is not a huge hunter. But it is so weird this thread popped up, for some reason recently it has hit me that my father will not be around forever and am so grateful for all of the things he has taught me and the patience he has displayed. The song Even Though I'm leaving by Luke Combs gets me everytime.

The best memories I can think of my dad and the outdoors:

1. We used to have a "camp" on the tickfaw river not far from Hammond. It was only like 3 acres and the house was too decrepit to sleep in, but I loved going up there and looking at wildlife especially snakes. Well every week I would beg my dad to please take me to the camp, and a few times I would ask him when he wasn't paying attention. So I would wake up early Saturday morning load the truck with my fishing pole, machete, stick (every kid needs a stick), some big pickle jars for the snakes I would catch. I would go wake him up, and he would say he didnt remember telling me we were going to the camp. I would throw the biggest fit. We went a lot but as a 10-12 year old I wanted to go every weekend.

2. I think my coming of age moment with my dad was right after Katrina, we came home to luckily very little damage to our house, but our neighbors huge oak tree fell into our yard. I remember him telling me for insurance purposes we needed to get rid of it soon (I dont know if this was true lol) But I remember working so hard for two straight days. That was the first time I worked like a grown man. I just remember admiring his work ethic and trying to keep up. We didnt complain at all. It was kind of weird. I remember listening to the LSU Tennessee game around that time too on an alarm clock radio because we didnt have TV yet and us falling short in the fourth quarter. I think that was the first time we really bonded as men.
Posted by KemoSabe65
70605
Member since Mar 2018
5199 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 9:45 am to
3/31 will mark four years since my dad died, ironically enough I was wading two guys on a donated trip when my wife called me. I could write a book on our hunting and fishing trips from New Mexico, Mexico, Texas & Louisiana.
Posted by TD422
Destrehan, LA
Member since Jun 2019
496 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 10:10 am to
Late 70's - my dad had a camp in Dulac - went out one weekend in squally (sp?) weather - fished in heavy rain, but oddly enough, light winds and no lightning. Waterspouts everywhere. At one point we had three on the water. Old man kept an eye out for an escape route, but we weren't leaving because we were pulling trout in the boat as fast as we could cast and reel in. Fishing with shad rigs, it was cast, count to two, and set the hooks. Two at a time. We ran out of ice chest space, the floor was covered in trout. I haven't fished in rain like that since, I guess the rain drops hitting the water put the trout in a literal frenzy.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34535 posts
Posted on 3/6/20 at 5:34 pm to
Wow. Too numerous to count. Dad used to take us crawfishing in the old rice fields somewhere near Ponchatoula. It was probably a two mile walk to get back there. You could set out your nets on the high side of the levee, and stand on top of the levee and fish for bass on the other side in a canal.

There were feral cows that lived back there. One of them died in a small pond and there were a billion crawfish eating on it. We would catch a washtub full of crawfish and a bunch of bass. Then poor Dad used to have to carry most of the load because we were just little kids. Those days there were always an adventure.
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