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After losing a dog, how long did you wait before getting another?

Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:24 pm
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26446 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:24 pm
We put down our 10 1/2 yr old Boxer a week ago and the house seems empty. We said we would never get another because of the heartache, but I'm beginning to rethink this. How long did you all take? I'm thinking it will be at least a year if I can convince my wife.
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
17809 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:28 pm to
Me: I am never getting another dog

Also me: Honey, the kids are going to love it.
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26446 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:30 pm to
I know what you mean
Posted by wickowick
Head of Island
Member since Dec 2006
45802 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:52 pm to
The sooner the better
Posted by Walkerdog14
Member since Dec 2014
1213 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 12:56 pm to
We said the same thing and in a few months we went to just look at a few and ended up buying one, it’s the best thing that we could’ve done, it really helped with the house feeling empty part, I said that I would never get that attached to another dog again, I was wrong!
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26446 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:05 pm to
Thanks, that's what I needed to hear. I'm missing him so much.
Posted by TigerAxeOK
Where I lay my head is home.
Member since Dec 2016
24760 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:07 pm to
You're not doing your loyal departed companion a disservice by moving on.

The wife and I have lots of animals, and a lot of love to give. My thought has always been, if you have the ability to care for that animal, and love to give it (which you obviously do after recently losing a good friend) then get that new friend.

It can ease the sting of a grieving period. And if you start thinking to yourself (which I always do), "Am I moving on too quickly? Do I owe 'ol Gus a longer period of mourning?", then just remember that your pup was loyal and wanted you to be happy. You know exactly what I mean. They would want you to share your love with another pup that might otherwise miss out on having such a good family.

IMHO, if you have already decided that you're definitely getting another companion eventually, then why delay it? Start looking around. Your new puppy will pick you. This has always been my experience, 100%.

If the grief is still just far too near, then give yourself some time. But if, as you say, the house already feels empty, it's time to at least start looking around, even if you're not fully ready to commit. When the right pup looks you in the eye, you'll know you're ready.
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26446 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:09 pm to
We're still in the grieving stage. Gonna take some time.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15084 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

We're still in the grieving stage. Gonna take some time.


I'm 66 and have had to put down several dogs in my time and when the last one had to be put down I swore I'd never get another dog and I haven't.

But, at my age I really don't want the responsibility of another dog, there's no kids around, and I discovered I really don't miss picking up dog crap from the yard.

The last dog had to be put down in 2008 and I'll be damned if the wife didn't run out and adopt a cat that is still with us. They are easier to care for, but they aren't anything like a dog.
Posted by Kill Switch
Miamisburg, OH
Member since Sep 2010
2387 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:32 pm to
I didn't have to put mine down rather someone stole it when my nephew let it out of the fence. It still took me a couple of months before I could let go and get another to replace him. I still think about him to this day though.
Posted by bbvdd
Memphis, TN
Member since Jun 2009
24969 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 1:39 pm to
We had to put one down a couple of years ago in October. He was one of 3. We got another in Dec. that same year.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 2:18 pm to
I lost a dog back in august and had another dog show up in less than a month. I still miss the old one though.

After I got the new dog a second stray lab pup that had been hit by a car showed up. I fed it for a week or two and i wish I could have kept it. I gave it to a weird homeschool family and now it is wearing sweaters in their Christmas cards and shite lol. Seems like every time I lose a dog another one shows up.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34515 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 3:06 pm to
I am going to say a couple of weeks. I could not stand that huge empty hole in the house. You can never replace your old dog. But you can go ahead and give another dog an awesome, loving home.

Puppies are magical. Guaranteed to heal a broken heart.
This post was edited on 3/30/19 at 3:10 pm
Posted by choupiquesushi
yaton rouge
Member since Jun 2006
30517 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 3:18 pm to
As soon as I could find a suitable pup
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26446 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 6:13 pm to
We're going to take some time. Not even sure what breed we'll consider.
Posted by Capital Cajun
Over Yonder
Member since Aug 2007
5525 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 6:39 pm to
My wife gets the new one before the other one kicks it.
Posted by beHop
Landmass
Member since Jan 2012
14536 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 7:00 pm to
My lab of 10 years died in my arms the week after Ole Miss beat Bama back in ‘14. Every time I bring up getting another one to my wife she cries. I think I’m ready but convincing her is gonna be tough. He was a special dog.
Posted by way_south
Member since Jul 2017
811 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 7:03 pm to
The reason dogs don't live as long as we do, is so we can have more of them in our lives.

The redneckess mofo on the planet told me that while he helped me carry my dog to the truck to take him in to put down.

I will never forget that day and his kind words.
Posted by TigerAlum1982
Member since Sep 2011
1439 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 7:46 pm to
Well, as a woman who gets emotional easily, it took me a year before I was mentally ready for another dog. We had ours for 16 years. I would even avoid the pet food/supplies aisle in Wal Mart because I loved buying him treats and toys. I felt like I would not have been able to just give unconditional love to another one right away. But, each person is different and you have to do what your heart/mind tell you is right for you.
Posted by slinger1317
Northshore
Member since Sep 2005
5829 posts
Posted on 3/30/19 at 10:32 pm to
We have an English bulldog that is getting up in age. We have talked about if/when he passes on how soon we will get another one. We have decided to get another English puppy in the next year or so and let them spend some time together. That way there will be a little easier transition and we won’t be “replacing” our original dog.
This post was edited on 3/30/19 at 10:34 pm
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