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re: Your kid fails out of med school, do you then find him a job, or tell him he's on his own

Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:53 am to
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17952 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:53 am to
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How does this happen?


I wonder if dad weighted the investment risk.

Thats a lot of scratch over a couple of years that couldve been invested during a crazy period of earnings.

Just pointing out the obvious.

I would be infuriated.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 8:54 am
Posted by John Cocktosten
Everywhere and Nowhere
Member since May 2016
418 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:56 am to
If he truly gave his best effort and failed, then continue to help him. He’s lucky that his father is involved.
Posted by TripleBarrelBluff1
Sin City
Member since Aug 2024
2430 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:09 am to
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The whole, ‘I was smart enough to be a doctor but I wanted to be a nurse’ thing is just hard to believe


I don't think anyone ever claimed that.
Posted by Louisianalabguy
Member since Jul 2017
1688 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:09 am to
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He. Would. Have. To. Go. To. Nursing. School. First.

Naturopath physician school.
Fascinating how many people have never heard of them. There are several mostly in the western and northwestern parts of the country. He should be able to get in easily. Will have to take a couple of more years of classes (naturopaths actually have much more education in nutrition and how the body heals itself than allopathic doctors).
Unfortunately naturopaths are not fully licensed in many states including Louisiana. Yes folks, that's how powerful the pharmaceutical and allopathic lobbies are.
I personally try to see only OPs or NPs unless I have a seasonal cold or sinus infection. They are much more likely to work with you than many allopathic doctors. Allopathic medical schools (all of them) are basically controlled by pharmaceutical companies.
Posted by tss22h8
30.4 N 90.9 W
Member since Jan 2007
18791 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:17 am to
The dad has done enough for his kid. It's time for the kid to shift for himself.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20080 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:18 am to
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Wasn't an effort thing.


quote:

Smart kid just not ready to be a doctor.


Either it was an “effort thing” or he wasn’t smart enough. There’s no in between here.
Posted by Pauldingtiger
Alabama
Member since Jan 2019
965 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:41 am to
If he truly wants to do something medical he can become an EMT, join military and become a medic, or go into pharmaceutical or medical sales.
Posted by HagaDaga
Member since Oct 2020
6192 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:51 am to
Why not both? Especially if you feel he definitely gave it a legit go but couldn't cut it. Tell him it's time to see where he lands. See if he truly is trying and if he can't get it done then give him a nudge after 6 or so months. Time to see where he really is on his own. Tell him to take a job, even if "below him" to get experience. Then see where that goes later.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17952 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:52 am to
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The dad has done enough for his kid. It's time for the kid to shift for himself.


Too much. This kid will have a hard time.

Hes in his 20s and never had to take care of a thing in his life.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85553 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:53 am to
I have an opening for a pipe fitters assistant. Does he have his own tools? Is he familiar with most of the Kid Rock catalog?
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13414 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:54 am to
No to be cocky but how can someone who got that far not find themselves a job and start figuring out life. My path wasn't linear or what I planned but at a certain age I started finding my own alternate routes
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
112917 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:55 am to
Help him get a job and tell him he's on his own.
Posted by TomballTiger
Htown
Member since Jan 2007
3970 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:01 am to
Either way he will be grateful you sought the answers here. Life’s hard enough. Help him out. You will regret not doing so more than helping.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36532 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:05 am to
If he's interested in medicine just have him go to PA school.
Posted by theCrusher
Slidell
Member since Nov 2007
1586 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:07 am to
Have him identify as a trans-woman and he'll pass the tests.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20080 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:08 am to
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how can someone who got that far not find themselves a job and start figuring out life


Because he didn’t get himself that far. His parents clearly removed every obstacle in his path that they could for as long as they could, and the kid is worse off for it.
Posted by BPTiger
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2011
6063 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:12 am to
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Wasn't an effort thing.


Pro tip: it was an effort thing.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13414 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:14 am to
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Because he didn’t get himself that far. His parents clearly removed every obstacle in his path that they could for as long as they could, and the kid is worse off for it.


My parents paid for my undergrad (with FASFAs) help but during that time I was...ya know...in college... where ya figure shite out
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4667 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:20 am to
This. So he’s not meant to be a doctor. Discuss other options. A PA, perhaps? PT or OT? Problem is insurance is ruining these allied health fields. Don’t expect a salary as in the last. Something else he’s interested in that he may have kept from you? I’d tell him he’s got to support himself now as he’s an adult, but I’d walk alongside of him until he chooses his path.
Posted by Dissident Aggressor
Member since Aug 2011
5468 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:21 am to
the Marine Corps is still looking for a few good men
a med school drop out with an inkling of vigor should breeze right through ocs…
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